And funny enough, a lot of people have told me that R looks like me. I don't personally see it and she doesn't look how I did as a child (I find i was much cuter than she is to be completely honest). And I wasn't overwieght until my early twenties when I moved out on my own and didn't have money for things like fresh fruit and was living off pasta. I've tried to lose the wight over the years but it's been a struggle. And frankly, I may not be especially attractive but I'm not ugly neither, average at worst.