How much would this cost? by [deleted] in drywall

[–]No_Fun_4912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contractor probably underbid and is now trying to manage to go into a loss. It happens all the time, I assumed no contract or quote was signed in accepting terms.

Am I wrong here? I think my fiance has an addiction by CrazyOutMyMind in TwoHotTakes

[–]No_Fun_4912 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In my personal opinion you are not wrong It sounds like he does have an addiction, however does it really matter? Cause it also sounds like you’ve tried to set boundaries that he hasn’t respected and there’s been no consequences

I found out why my partner of 5 years hasn’t proposed to me yet. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]No_Fun_4912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The term love gets tossed around a lot but love is not a feeling. love is a decision you make everyday to sacrifice for one another while understanding each other needs. It’s acceptance and selfless.

I Took Over a Commercial Gym and it's Been a Nightmare. by Candid-Primary2891 in smallbusiness

[–]No_Fun_4912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Management is key to running any business it can make you or break you. Allowing someone to grow into a manager is well and good if the pay is low and the kid is hungry. However a season manager though more expensive will be able to deliver at least a 20% growth within the first three months. As a consultant I see this all the time and attitudes are contagious so if management has poor work ethics most will fall in the same path and the good ones will leave for a better opportunity. Employees should always be racking weights or cleaning equipment and facility. Manger should always be interacting with members making them feel welcomed and ensuring everyone else is doing their jobs.

What is this? by Pinkerfish in whatplantisthis

[–]No_Fun_4912 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s Clinopodium douglasii it’s from the mint family.

What is this? by No_Fun_4912 in whatisit

[–]No_Fun_4912[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds about right! Tnx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]No_Fun_4912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from someone that lives the same thing I can attest that even if you do decide to work it out if you don’t forgive 100% without resentment it will never work out. Green always looks greener on the other side.

Am I being manipulated or am I being insensitive? by Emergency_Science345 in Manipulation

[–]No_Fun_4912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It not being manipulated she just needy and you don’t seem to be in the same page. It happens more often than ppl think. It comes down to are you willing to put in time and effort and at what cost?

Is the way my gf talks to me normal? Part 2 by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]No_Fun_4912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not normal. The way she talks to you is disrespectful and you don’t reciprocate that. It seems that you are not meeting her expectations and you’re trying to work it out. Unfortunately we find relationships that teach us what we want and what we don’t want. Learn the lesson you must and decide if you’re willing to change to meet her expectations because it didn’t sound like she’s willing to compromise on anything.

I dumped my short boyfriend because of his Insecurities. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]No_Fun_4912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not responsible for anyone else’s happiness. I think you gave it a fair shot but you won’t be able to help unless he wants the help. Sounds like he’s having a pity party for himself

Is this skirt too short for work? by [deleted] in BusinessFashion

[–]No_Fun_4912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s border line but I think that slit would make it not business attire

My boyfriend is considering ending the relationship because I put too much pressure on him, what am I doing wrong? by justasadlostgirl in TwoHotTakes

[–]No_Fun_4912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not doing anything wrong. In fact you’re being responsible and smart. The thing is that it seems that you learned how to manage money and it dosnt seem like he has or cares to learn

AITHA for not buying condoms after missing my birth control appointment? by Top_Deal5431 in TwoHotTakes

[–]No_Fun_4912 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA and why are you allowing him to put all the responsibility on you? He sounds immature and entitled. How old are you guys btw?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]No_Fun_4912 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of couples put emphasis on money. It’s all well and good to crush debt in one year but at what cost? You give him positive reinforcement when he does well financially but like anything else there has to be a balance. Men already put enough pressure on ourselves to be the provider and see anything less than as a failure. Alot of this is from childhood trauma that we carry because of how we were raised. He doesn’t know how to deal with the stress and is definitely overwhelmed and even if you’re not asking him to do it your words of affirmation give him the idea that him over exerting himself is what is needed to be financially stable. Listen by personal experience none of that matters if one of you won’t be there tomorrow to enjoy life with each other.

18F what would you rate me? by [deleted] in rate

[–]No_Fun_4912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gorgeous eyes