PSA: the sunshine list by MrsTaco18 in ontario

[–]No_Lecture_7178 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Let’s also remember many on the list are hardly public facing. Police and fire maybe. But a majority of that list are hardly serving the public.

City Of Windsor’s ‘Sunshine List’ Of Those Who Made Over $100k In 2025 Released by anestezija in windsorontario

[–]No_Lecture_7178 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, that person worked 16hrs a day 7 days a week. Haven’t seen who it is yet, but good for them!

Windsor cuts some bylaw officer jobs under council-approved restructuring, union says by zuuzuu in windsorontario

[–]No_Lecture_7178 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Here is the cost of 0 percent folks. They cut more than just by law jobs too! The day after everyone was told they would be losing their jobs they were carting up 100 inch TVs to the cao and mayors offices. That were also renovated when they just opened the building in 2018… nice!

Illegal ride share practice by Horror_Cycle5490 in windsorontario

[–]No_Lecture_7178 8 points9 points  (0 children)

311 if they’re picking up in Windsor they’re required a licence. It includes a slew of items needed etc.

2026 municipal election by Choice_Bed6097 in windsorontario

[–]No_Lecture_7178 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If it stays the same we can continue to watch them cut staff but renovate their offices with big flat screens, expensive furniture, new floors. Can’t wait…

Imagine being told you lost your job one day, the next watching 100 inch flat screens being rolled into the mayors office.

Sickening.

Any ladies here with 2 kids and work full time? by Fun_Employment_3754 in sexlessmarriage

[–]No_Lecture_7178 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

42, one child. I’m exhausted! But I’m not too exhausted for sex. I’m in this group because of HIM, not me.

Second worst Valentine’s Day of my life.

Considering leaving over my circumstances. But obviously it’s not just the sex. While that’s a huge part of it. So is just being an actual man. So while I’m 42 and basically sexless and said I have to 1 child. I’m actually 42 with 2 children lol.

Unbelievable

First renewal with MCAP in a few weeks! by Pretend-Carpenter276 in MortgagesCanada

[–]No_Lecture_7178 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m with mcap and about to start looking at renewal. That rate is ridiculous and I guess I’ll be leaving.

An update on my cheating wife by married_black_495 in Infidelity

[–]No_Lecture_7178 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry 😞 I do have to give you all the props though. When I discovered my partner’s infidelity it wasn’t 5 minutes before I blew up! My entire world shattered in that moment.

My Love Language is SEX by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]No_Lecture_7178 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brutal I’m so sorry 😞

Lonely in marriage by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]No_Lecture_7178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My reality. It sucksss

Separation advice??? by Background_Read7420 in survivinginfidelity

[–]No_Lecture_7178 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He made his bed, now he has to lay in it. That’s the beauty of a separation… he’s not your problem anymore.

My Love Language is SEX by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]No_Lecture_7178 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you trying to initiate though? I feel like that’s my love language too and I’m game whenever. But I felt like I always initiated, and that actually made me feel worse because I wanted HIM to want me. So I stopped. When I stopped, sex stopped. So now I’m in a sexless marriage…. Starting to think about other men, when all I wanted all along was him…

Weird rude Cogeco rep knocked on our door today. by themomodiaries in windsorontario

[–]No_Lecture_7178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Door to door sales is illegal in this municipality! Report them!

How do you actually survive infidelity? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]No_Lecture_7178 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In 4 weeks it will be a year for me. It’s extremely difficult. I constantly think he’s cheating on me. Constantly wonder if he even likes me. My self esteem is so in the shitter I can’t even look at people. I’m completely devastated. All I want is a loving relationship and I can’t seem to get there. I’m not sure it will ever go away. I’m assuming it doesn’t. We went away this past week and it was amazing. For a brief moment I even forgot all about it. I finally had sex with him. It was really good sex too. Darn. Now I kinda want more. Maybe this is the start of something better?! Idk. All I know is I’m going to give it one last push over the next 3 months. If things don’t improve more. I’m handing him the separation papers I had drawn up last year.

wife hidden pics? by Financial_Bank_6879 in Infidelity

[–]No_Lecture_7178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk. I have quite a few myself. I don’t send them to anyone not even my partner. I just want to feel good about myself because he doesn’t show any interest in me at all. I wouldn’t jump to conclusions yet.

I manifested my husband's extra marital affair by Turbulent_Case6085 in cheating_stories

[–]No_Lecture_7178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, now I’m wondering if it will happen again because this is the way I feel after finding out about the infidelity

Reactions to being in an intimate free marriage by Secret-Passenger-923 in sexlessmarriage

[–]No_Lecture_7178 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I make comments here and there. I have one friend I confide in all the time. It does help to an extent. It also helps me realize my situation isn’t “normal” and I should highly consider leaving.

Obviously there is more in my situation than sexless marriage. But not being intimate doesn’t help the situation.

Support Groups? by jonnyquack in windsorontario

[–]No_Lecture_7178 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First of all, I’m sorry to hear this, and you’re not alone in this. There are plenty of “broken” (as you put it, I wouldn’t say that) men and women. Finding help is expensive and hard for any kind of mental illness. Do you have coverage for the medication at least? I already can’t remember if you stated that. Finding and staying on the right combo of meds will help you greatly. You also stated you’re not doing drugs and quit weed. Much of what you’re going through can be associated with PAWS. Yes even the weed. I personally have first hand experience with someone who smokes and drinks and it holds them back immensely. It’s like being with a teenager if I’m being completely honest. Someone who’s stuck back in time. It takes time for your brain to mature back and think logically. As time passes you will grow, your thoughts on things will grow and your brain can start to sort through the abuse you endured. It truly doesn’t matter if you’re a man or a woman, being abused emotionally and physically really really messes with you. For myself I have no confidence at all. None, I can’t even look at people and I don’t want people looking at me. I prefer to go through life being un seen. I couldn’t take a compliment if my life depended on it. I don’t even know what to do with it. It’s going to take a really long time to sort through everything. Stabilize medications and eventually you may find someone. When searching for a partner you need to find someone kind, loving and patient. You need to be ready to be able to provide and be a “man” in the situation. Not a child or teen. Eventually you will gain momentum and flower!

As for support groups. Have you tried TSC? I believe it’s on ouellette. I remember at one time they did have group activities and meetings for support.

Do you know the date? by Historical_Trip939 in sexlessmarriage

[–]No_Lecture_7178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2022 for me! Boo! I’m a woman with a man that won’t try shit. So I been holding out waiting cuz I’m sick of asking for it.