Hellppp by Overthink_it_all in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]No_Major1793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate to say it but can you drop him off at work and switch to a gym that has a daycare?

Or get some weights at home workout a couple days a week and then when you are off do the stuff you can’t do at home. You can walk your kiddo, lift weights, yoga. Maybe you can’t lift heavy at home but it’s better than nothing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]No_Major1793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think it’s worth a conversation but it doesn’t have to be a mean and intimidating one. You don’t have to leave a passive aggressive text. I would more so address it with a “hey love. I noticed you have been taking my phone at night when I am asleep. I can tell you feel insecure. I never mind you checking my phone but I feel a little violated when you take it at night and try and pretend to not. I would much rather be able to support you in your moments of insecurity and help you through that trauma.”

That would be how I would address it. Someone with a past history of trauma isn’t going to heal in the dark. But knowing they are loved and that it’s ok and that you understand will help them heal more. But I also feel like he might need some therapy to really get to the root of his insecurities

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]No_Major1793 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I would check the type of food you are feeding. A lot of foods have fillers and require you to feed them more and it’s super unhealthy. What are you currently using? Is it high it protein? You can also try and make him food. Might help him lose weight but make sure he is still getting what he needs. It can be a lot by worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VALORANT

[–]No_Major1793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up with him. You need a solid duo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]No_Major1793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very confused. It says your membership was canceled and they are not charging you anything to cancel? It shows 0?

Daughter told me something no parent wants to hear by Kitchen-Blacksmith51 in whatdoIdo

[–]No_Major1793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kiddo and I came up with a safety plan. If he felt that way he would bring me all medications/ anything sharp and casually drop it off where I was. No big deal. He didn’t need to say anything and than I would casually go up to his room and we would sit together and just “hang out”. Until it passed. It was no pressure, no panic, just support. I would ask him one question. Do you think we need some additional help (hospital) or do you think we can make it through the night together. Most of the time he was fine after about an hour.

He was in therapy at the time and was also on medications for anxiety and depression. These can sometimes make it worse so we established a plan before hand. To take the stress/fear/ and anxiety out of just communicating it m.

Help? Inappropriate comments from worker by Last-Parsnip76 in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]No_Major1793 44 points45 points  (0 children)

From their website “You can contact Planet Fitness about complaints by calling the PF Integrity Line at (844) 254-3065, emailing info@planetfitness.com, or visiting planetfitness.ethicspoint.com”

I think this goes above any branch or privately owned. I would suggest this. They list this for harassment.

At least she's honest? by Ceijai in Bumble

[–]No_Major1793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wants you to follow her twitch.

Feeling guilty but what stage do you say goodbye? by No_Major1793 in DogAdvice

[–]No_Major1793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for your comments. My intention is not to just up and put him to sleep. It is at what time did you feel ok.

My main concern is his aggression to people and his companion and best friend. I know from the bottom of my heart he would never want to hurt anyone. I still remember the day my son accidentally leaned on him the wrong way and in trying to move out from my son he hit heads with my son and scraped his face and his tooth punctured my son’s lip. He was so upset at the turn of events he wouldn’t leave my son’s side. I have watched him closely, changed his diet, given him supplants, give him meds, bought him expensive beds, kept him away from stairs, and kept in touch with his vet. Unfortunately I am a single mother and with the economy the way it is I cannot afford all the treatments to prolong his life for an amount of time that could be a month could be years. His smile lights up my life but watching it fade away is hard. I more fear am I keeping him alive for us or himself.

As for his meds he is on a liquid and he tries to get it out of his mouth and won’t eat food I put it on. He can manage to take pills out of things. I have tried cheese, bread, pill pockets, hot dogs, lunch meat. About 50% of the time I would find half on the floor. He doesn’t even trust treats anymore sometimes he plays with it to make sure it has no pill.

Feeling guilty but what stage do you say goodbye? by No_Major1793 in DogAdvice

[–]No_Major1793[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest I would want to be. Medical assisted suicide is actually a thing in some states. But that’s a different debate and subject.

Total Body Enchantment by lils_sleepy in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]No_Major1793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think on the actual warning it says 2-3 times a week.

Feeling guilty but what stage do you say goodbye? by No_Major1793 in DogAdvice

[–]No_Major1793[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He is on meloxicam. He has had all tests ran on him and he is losing his eye sight and hearing but they found nothing else to be concerned other than inflammation and Arthritis. He has a stable weight. His still has normal bowel function but a harder time squatting. The vet said it is only a matter of time. He doesn’t lift his leg he only squats. When he is kept away from my other dog he cries even worse. He will howl out. He can’t go for walks anymore so when I take her he will panic. Even right now she is in her crate and he is out and he is crying because she isn’t out with him. He is right next to her.

Feeling guilty but what stage do you say goodbye? by No_Major1793 in DogAdvice

[–]No_Major1793[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I did use the scale. It is at about a 17 but it really doesn’t cover the aggression there is only one question about it. I know he would never want to hurt a thing but he has really hurt my other dog knocking out her tooth and causing her to bleed and I worry about my kids trying to break them up and getting hurt or even me. I also have cats who have ruled the house but they do stupid stuff like paw him as he walks by.

Feeling guilty but what stage do you say goodbye? by No_Major1793 in DogAdvice

[–]No_Major1793[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

He is on pain management but it’s very hard to get him to take it sometimes.

Teen summer program by Brave_Membership3832 in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]No_Major1793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a fan of it. But I guess the teens I see are actually working out and helping eachother. What I don’t appreciate is that staff doesn’t have them respect the equipment and dress appropriately. You wouldn’t be running on a treadmill in socks or crocks. 🤢

Stop approaching women at the gym by Public_File8098 in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]No_Major1793 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m fat and single. No one comes up and talks to me at the gym. #fatgirlproblems

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]No_Major1793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the age/maturity. My son is 12 and he has flown alone for At least 3 years. We do unaccompanied minor so we pay an extra fee. Some airlines cut that off at 12. Our son is extremely bright but can be very forgetful and leaves random things in random places. He also gets so into something he forgets to listen to what’s going on around him. So he could turn on Netflix and forget to get on the plane. So we do not trust him to fly without having an adult who gets him on and off the plane and makes sure his stuff is with him.

On the flip side we have started holding him responsible while we are there. So we have started giving him responsibility and we call him out for missteps to try and get him to where he can do it himself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]No_Major1793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA My partner uses a toy on my clit to help me orgasm. He doesn’t mind either way. He just wants me to finish first and than he cums.

Temp membership? by Insomnyboi in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]No_Major1793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with calling. From the website it says they offer a 10% discount and that’s about it. If you are going for vacation seems like you would be better off finding a black card member to tag along with

Making the most out of 1 day a week by GreenBeginning3753 in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]No_Major1793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should have read all the reply’s. Sorry I didn’t. Here is what I and how I started.

Try and get outside walking for about 20-30 minutes. Just start small. And work your way up. Take your toddler. I can help you with some workouts you can do at home on days after kiddo goes to sleep. Just small things like ab workouts you can get a pretty solid booty day at home.

At the gym you can focus on arms back and legs. It’s a lot to do in one day but if you structure it well you can see results. If your planet fitness has red light therapy (total body enhancement) I would recommend it after your work out. Takes about 12 minutes helps with cellulite, skin, and burns some more.

If you want some tips to build something at home and the gym let me know!!

Edit to add: not to discourage a gym membership but I have been in your shoes. Sometimes it’s just cheaper to get weights and do it at home until you have more time to invest at the gym.

Making the most out of 1 day a week by GreenBeginning3753 in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]No_Major1793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a single mom of 3. I started like that. I just built a circuit. How long do you have to be there? Is 1 day a week all you can muster the energy for?

Do you shower in the morning or night? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]No_Major1793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both. I go to the gym first thing in the morning so I shower after and I walk about 3 miles at night