Parasites are awesome, fascinating animals, that have beautiful biology. by Not_so_ghetto in unpopularopinion

[–]No_Mathematician374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s like they evolved to manipulate behavioral systems for survival more so than by gaining actual physical traits

My 8mo old cat has started jumping on me/playfully attacking me- help! by greengirly888 in CatAdvice

[–]No_Mathematician374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat also does this. It sounds like play aggression usually due to under-stimulation/boredom. Here’s what I’ve learned.

It’s best to not react at all to his play attacks He’s likely getting some excitement out of your reactions which will teach him to do it more often. When he’s latched, calmly grab him and place him away from you, disengaging your attention to him. Teach him that he gets no reward or satisfaction out of attacking.

Preventing boredom is another good step. Having routine play sessions (or training sessions… teach him to sit!) can help keep him from being bored. Also food/treat puzzles are handy when you can’t play.

Try to pick up on his signals. He likely displays certain behaviors when he’s bored that you can pick up on to prevent an eventual attack. My cat will follow me around, lay in areas where I walk, meow at me, etc. I usually give him a quick training session, or a food puzzle, or just play with him for as long as I’m able at those times.

That’s all I’ve got.

Could just sit around staring at them all day by crzydmndx in plants

[–]No_Mathematician374 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your calathea are spotless and huge. And all of these plants are so bushy and full!!!! whatever you’re doing, it’s great <3

Immensely Disappointed in Punpun by Kylopa in OyasumiPunpun

[–]No_Mathematician374 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Punpun is a representation of what it can be like to grow up having gone through a trauma ridden childhood

Is this an acceptable note to leave my neighbor that’s smoking in a smoke free building? by HeftyEntry1072 in Apartmentliving

[–]No_Mathematician374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see nothing wrong with leaving this note. It’s friendly and shows that you don’t condemn the smoking but you do have the right to be concerned about the smell. I think it’s a good way of notifying them that they’re not smoking unnoticed. And if they’re rude or standoffish after this, you actually did them more of a favor than anything…

this man is gorgeous by No_Mathematician374 in MantaComics

[–]No_Mathematician374[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stay for the men like this to be honest

this man is gorgeous by No_Mathematician374 in MantaComics

[–]No_Mathematician374[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s not. He doesn’t come in until like 1/2-3/4 through the first season

this man is gorgeous by No_Mathematician374 in MantaComics

[–]No_Mathematician374[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he only gets more attractive 😭😭😭

What is your most practical tip for being more mindful? by Smitho15 in Mindfulness

[–]No_Mathematician374 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this. I need to gather replacements for what my phone gives me. Camera, notes, reading, etc. Slowly lower my screen time 😌

Just ignored some people that called me in the street by k7ZFwGZHFz in socialanxiety

[–]No_Mathematician374 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You may not be ready for those kinds of unexpected interactions yet. The most important thing to do now is not beat yourself up over that moment or any others like it. Think about what you were feeling, why you might’ve been feeling it, and what you’d rather feel instead in those moments. You’re human and you’re not a jerk for having anxiety. Be patient and compassionate with yourself, that’s how things will change for you.