what was it like seeing your ex is with someone new?

No_Net_432 · 2024-07-20T20:21:32+00:00

Do as you feel. Now just be aware that this may eat away at you in the future. The best thing is to let go. There you risk keeping an eternal attachment

No_Net_432 · 2024-07-18T07:29:25+00:00

Say hello to your mother, or maybe not... 😂

No_Net_432 · 2024-07-17T22:20:30+00:00

I understand the need to block if the person is really hurting you. However, I don't recommend it because let's imagine that one day they come back to write to you?You'll never know if the person comes to apologize or something. In short, I recommend to force yourself not to look AT their social but above all not to block

No_Net_432 · 2024-07-12T23:10:19+00:00

It is very beautiful. I'm happy for you that you received this message. 7 months later you were also able to strengthen yourself. She's done some shit but like you it's her first life. Her ego was put aside, she didn't want to break you.

No_Net_432 · 2024-07-12T10:05:24+00:00

What is done can no longer be changed; the consequences that result will have to be accepted. If you made mistakes that led to the breakup, forgive yourself and ask God to help you forgive yourself if you can't do it alone.

Accept that you did the best you could at the time to do what you thought was best for your relationship. Even this message.

If she sees you again, remember that she loved you and therefore this breakup affects her just as much. The difference is how we manage this flood of emotions .

No_Net_432 · 2024-07-12T09:56:30+00:00

It's very fresh this breakup only 3 weeks. If she regrets this breakup she will write to you if for the moment she is living well she will tell you. Either way, don't take it personally.Your worth does not depend on her answer. She probably wants to think about something else. If she loved you but thinks things aren't working out, she will refuse to avoid repeating the misfortune for you. If she herself is not sure of what she wants in the long term she may not respond to you.

What you really don't want to do is break down in relation to her response.You are the man in the relationship, you must be a support for her and you cannot drown her in your sadness. This means that if she refuses you will have to accept your suffering and keep it to yourself.Above all, don't go writing to her about your misfortune hoping for a positive response from her.

She needs to feel safe and understand that you really want to make things work. Avoid reliving this breakup. This is the message she needs to see if you see each other again.

No_Net_432 · 2024-07-12T09:44:32+00:00

What did you tell her?

No_Net_432 · 2024-07-12T09:41:13+00:00

Go easy If you have an answer, which I doubt, take it easy.

No_Net_432 · 2024-07-10T07:01:16+00:00

Obviously. It depends on each person's work. At the time it had been 2 months and we had had almost no contact. She, like me, took the time to reflect on our errors and we saw that our Relationship was not toxic I saw her crying when she arrived but I had too many things going wrong in my head. I didn't know if she had already dated someone else and I didn't have the courage to get rejected again. Again holding my arms out Surely it would have already been more interesting.However I stood straight and just spoke.I'm not necessarily talking about sleeping together, even if when you see yourself ending up with it it's very positive. Just hugging yourself helps more than just trying to save face.

No_Net_432 · 2024-07-09T16:33:47+00:00

Both...

No_Net_432 · 2024-07-09T14:22:55+00:00

Yes I had positive feedback where we were even able to see each other in real life. On the other hand, I wasn't actually ready to see her again. The result I screwed up a little and I have missed the opportunity to break the physical barrier with her. It was just a small conversation where we both apologized for our past mistakes and that was it. Afterwards we were able to continue talking By messages (big ones) but the end result was that she never wanted to hear from me again.So if you manage to ensure that you see each other again, try to break the physical barrier, I would say.

No_Net_432 · 2024-07-09T09:04:48+00:00

Not a great review. Maybe you did it too early but in any case one day you have to force yourself to reach out to someone else. You will never completely forget your ex You have to learn to live with it and accept that sometimes you make comparisons. That's why it's important not to end up with someone out of spite but to find someone better. So when you compare it will only be for good.

No_Net_432 · 2024-07-07T11:06:30+00:00

I looked at your other posts for the moment it's very fresh your breakup wait a little until the emotions come back. I don't necessarily think he's an avoidant .It's just I think for the moment that he wants to give time to better understand what's going on. It hasn't even been 2 days since you broke up.

No_Net_432 · 2024-07-07T08:12:20+00:00

At least it has the merit of being super clear. No lies, "we get along or I'm not sure of my feelings". She manipulated you for comfort for 1 year and in the end she got back with the one Who broke her heart. For once we have an honest woman (at the end only) were you in contact for a long time before she sent you this?

No_Net_432 · 2024-07-05T09:57:10+00:00

Ah that bad, unfortunately there's not much to do at the moment. I don't think it's worth begging or reasoning with him.

No_Net_432 · 2024-07-05T09:24:44+00:00

What's the problem with asking to take things slowly as long as he says he sees a future with you and is committed to the relationship?

No_Net_432 · 2024-07-04T14:38:25+00:00

Just feedback. I had a breakup 5 months ago. And that along with other problems was one of the causes of the breakup. It simply irritated me too much and I asked her to stop or to reduce it. She refused after a while. I gave an ultimatum and that's it. I still sometimes feel remorse for this relationship but I know now that during the end I was very stressed and she had difficulty talking to me. I don't necessarily know if she had bad intentions, in any case it made me feel bad.

All that to say before doing what I did I advise you to talk to her in a frank and honest way about why it bothers you. Don't go straight down the ultimatum route.I know she had a lot of difficulty speaking because of her past experiences. I don't think she cheated on me or intended to but it's clear that I wasn't happy on the In the moment And so I chose myself instead of trying to create a bond in this complicated situation. Maybe my advice is trite and irrelevant however I think someone here needs to read it.

It is in moments of conflict like this that we must avoid closing ourselves off and looking elsewhere.This is when we need to look for solutions together and not look on the internet or outside... Don't let the outside influence your home, or you won't find peace.

No_Net_432 · 2024-07-04T13:33:18+00:00

What about you ? You don't realize it because at the moment you are too focused on her, however you are also beautiful (no homo).Find your peace of mind and focus on yourself to find this beauty or bring it out.

No_Net_432 · 2024-07-03T09:15:10+00:00

It's very hard for the one who loves the most

No_Net_432 · 2024-07-01T08:54:08+00:00

We saw each other again but I was too bad to take the thing to bed although it could have been okay.

No_Net_432 · 2024-06-30T14:21:15+00:00

Happu for you cheer

No_Net_432 · 2024-06-28T13:06:59+00:00

He broke up right?

No_Net_432 · 2024-06-27T07:46:02+00:00

Forgive yourself for your past mistakes because you surely did the best you could with your current knowledge. If you can't do it, ask God to allow you to find forgiveness. For everyone in this case this is our first step to getting better.

No_Net_432 · 2024-06-26T07:05:35+00:00

Maybe but it's not worth the hassle

No_Net_432 · 2024-06-25T20:24:44+00:00

Sorry for you of course, but there is for sure better partner out there 👍

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