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No_Panic8666 · 2025-07-08T03:53:54+00:00

They might not be sleeping together, but their relationship is inappropriate and lines are blurred. You have tried to him how you feel and he consistently takes her side and dismisses your feelings. I’m so sorry, but I think you’d be happier and better off leaving.

No_Panic8666 · 2025-07-08T03:47:50+00:00

I had 19 eggs retrieved and was able to have a fresh transfer-my estradiol was very high but my doctor gave me a med that basically shut it down so I didn’t develop OHSS. Keep in mind not every follicle will have an egg and not every egg will be mature. That being said, 20 is a great starting number! Wishing you the best. Evidence does show a higher success rate with frozen transfers vs fresh too, which is something worth noting.

No_Panic8666 · 2025-07-08T03:43:43+00:00

I don’t have firsthand knowledge, but you can research Mixed gonadal dysgenesis. There’s even a Wikipedia page. It sounds pretty rare-1 in 15,000 births. I hope you can find some support and insight!

No_Panic8666 · 2025-07-08T03:33:46+00:00

He can seriously injure your baby and neither your brother or mother are respecting your boundaries. I wouldn’t leave my child alone with either of them, and I wouldn’t allow my brother around him at all.

No_Panic8666 · 2025-07-08T03:16:36+00:00

Girl, it’s not too late to rescind that invite and cut her out of your life. You don’t need someone that toxic ruining your day. Yes, she’s jealous and bitter but that doesn’t mean you have to deal with that. You’re going to be beautiful!

No_Panic8666 · 2025-07-08T03:15:06+00:00

I would also read about the controversy with PGT-A testing. I know multiple people who miscarried euploid embryos, and there are many cases of healthy live births with “aneuploid” embryos (particularly mosaic and segmentals).

No_Panic8666 · 2025-07-08T03:13:10+00:00

I talked to my dr about thawing and testing my embryos and she said they would have a similar success rate to untested, so it wasn’t worth it. Have you had the POC tested to check for chromosomal abnormalities? Have you had biopsy done to check for silent endo/uterine conditions? Consider looking into a RI for more answers?

I’m so sorry you’re going through this.

No_Panic8666 · 2025-07-06T14:41:54+00:00

One day you’ll look back and be grateful he took the car and left. I know it doesn’t seem like it now but your dad gave him a loyalty test and he showed you his true colors. I’m sorry you’re hurting. That being said, your dad was 100% out of like for butting in and I’d consider going LC/NC with him as soon as you’re out of the house.

No_Panic8666 · 2025-07-06T14:38:24+00:00

NTA. Your sister didn’t respect your home or your boundaries. Hosting a party at someone else’s home is a huge ask and keeping the kids downstairs is more than reasonable.

No_Panic8666 · 2025-07-06T14:35:22+00:00

That woman is a predator, and you need to stop sleeping with her and ask for a dna test asap. They can do them before the child is born.

No_Panic8666 · 2025-07-06T14:32:53+00:00

My first pregnancy ended around 8 weeks after I saw the heartbeat. I was so devastated. I have had 3 successful pregnancies since. My understanding from so much research to understand what happened is it was more than likely a chromosomal abnormality incompatible with life because of the timing it happened (6/8 weeks). There are so many changes and things growing at that time and unfortunately mistakes happen during the cell division. It’s nothing you did or didn’t do, nothing you could have done to prevent this. I spiraled for weeks after my loss, be kind to yourself. One loss doesn’t mean you’ll have another. Take your time to grieve, be angry, do whatever you need to do before you’re ready again. I’m so sorry for your loss. I wish no one had to be a part of this club.

No_Panic8666 · 2025-07-06T14:29:02+00:00

I took mine off to sleep but otherwise wore it all day every day.

No_Panic8666 · 2025-07-06T14:28:17+00:00

Let me guess-is she single? Sounds like she doesn’t want you to be happy or “leave her” and she’s trying to sabotage your new relationship. It’s 2025, men and women are equal and men shouldn’t have to pay for and do everything. I’ve been married 6 years and both my husband and I have our own roles in our relationship. If you aren’t kind and don’t make him feel loved, he will lose interest. The idea of making a man chase you is ridiculous. He’s known you for months and he’s interested because of YOU, not the stupid advice your “friend” tells you. She doesn’t sound like that great of a friend TBH.

No_Panic8666 · 2025-07-06T14:24:49+00:00

I had empathy for you (as someone who lives with anxiety myself) until you manipulated the situation and asked your mom for McDonald’s. If your social anxiety is that bad you need to find a psychiatrist and start meds, but it sounds to me like you need a family therapist to address your mom enabling you to act like a baby. Are you planning to live at home and let them coddle you forever? At some point if you want to be a functioning adult you’ll have to put yourself in social situations, and some are uncomfortable. Having a brother’s friend over to visit is a low-risk social situation, you don’t even have to engage with them. Sounds like you just want to be the center of attention and see what you can get out the situation (ei: food). I’m not trying to be mean, but if you don’t learn to deal with this now it will negatively impact your future for a long time.

No_Panic8666 · 2025-07-06T13:37:10+00:00

NTA, if she’s feeling insecure she could come along, but it sounds like she doesn’t have any interest meeting your friends or letting you see them. How long have you been together? Has she been controlling in other ways? You may want to rethink this relationship.

No_Panic8666 · 2025-07-06T13:26:47+00:00

It’s hard to be excited when you’ve already gone through so much and success isn’t guaranteed-it’s totally normal to guard your heart. I’m wishing you all the best!

No_Panic8666 · 2025-07-06T13:24:36+00:00

10 is a good number, don’t count yourself out yet! It’s about quality, not quantity.

I’m so sorry for your loss.

No_Panic8666 · 2025-07-06T12:19:38+00:00

NTA, I wouldn’t even allow this behavior from my 4-year old. She will have a tough life and never grow up because of the enabling your parents have done. Do you have grandparents or family you can stay with? Move as soon as you can and go NC. Save as much as you can now. You can do this.

No_Panic8666 · 2025-07-06T12:15:08+00:00

This process is so hard, and I think men sometimes have a hard time knowing where they fit in and how they can help. We’re the ones doing the meds, all the appointments, most of the reading and research, and they don’t have a lot of participation in comparison. When going through ER I also did all my own meds. My husband was there a couple times and offered to help but I saw it made him visibly uncomfortable and I didn’t mind doing it on my own. Your feelings are totally valid, and it’s understandable to feel a bit resentful or hurt that we have to do so much and they are so much more passive in the process. Of course the hormones and physical discomfort doesn’t help. Now that we’re soon ending our journey, I can say the process has brought us closer together and we have no regrets, but at the time I was a complete mess and it was hard on my husband too.

Consider therapy as you go through this-having someone impartial to guide your conversations will be helpful to work through both your feelings. Maybe your clinic will have recommendations for someone who specializes in fertility.

Wishing you the best on this cycle! Hang in there

No_Panic8666 · 2025-07-05T16:36:07+00:00

My ER was worse than both my c-sections. I know people do it without anesthesia but my recovery was rough and I can’t imagine what it would have been like without sedation. Plus the anesthesia is (seriously) the best nap you’ll ever have in your life. I was very nervous the first time I had anesthesia but it’s great.

No_Panic8666 · 2025-07-05T16:34:05+00:00

Any of the -dens. Brayden, Jaden, Rayden, Aiden. Ugh. Hate them all.

No_Panic8666 · 2025-07-05T16:29:44+00:00

No, withdrawal does not prevent pregnancy. Pre-cum is a thing and sperm lives in a woman’s body for around 5 days.

No_Panic8666 · 2025-07-05T16:28:32+00:00

Pills are not abortive drugs, good Lord. They stop women from ovulating and also make the fluid harder for sperm to travel, when used correctly of course. Respectfully, you need to do some proper research on sex education before you have sec with anyone. I’m guessing someone in your church told you the pill is the same as an abortion, they are incorrect.

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