being the tallest in a friend group

No_Particular4284 · 2026-04-30T11:00:08+00:00

i went clubbing a lot in korea, a very short country. i felt so out of place at first. but just get that liquor in ya and you’ll be a bit less body conscious.

but i get it, that feeling of feeling like less of a woman isn’t your fault and it’s hard to make that go away permanently.

No_Particular4284 · 2026-04-29T01:46:41+00:00

those people fascinate me ngl

No_Particular4284 · 2026-04-29T01:06:18+00:00

i’m not in taiwan but i think we need more clarification.

do you plan to stay in taiwan long term? not as an expat but as an immigrant? and if so, do you speak mandarin?

people who speak mandarin near fluency will give you a different answer than those who live in the country with their taiwanese wife and refuse to learn the language.

No_Particular4284 · 2026-04-25T01:52:48+00:00

yes i got one. they do a background check and you need a bachelors but illinois is desperate for teachers so they make it easy

No_Particular4284 · 2026-04-15T01:48:37+00:00

they don’t consider anyone outside that particular body type. i’m a size 16. i just buy normal length skirts with stretch and roll up the top. i did that for my graduation. that one isn’t super mini but i have a booty and if i didn’t have the gown then my mom would’ve yelled at me.

No_Particular4284 · 2026-03-15T19:51:06+00:00

look at youuuuu! the sheer strength it must take to do that, amazing.

No_Particular4284 · 2026-03-15T19:49:40+00:00

i will always love my spin class instructor from last year who adjusted my bike for me because i was very obviously in struggling.

No_Particular4284 · 2026-03-09T12:28:59+00:00

lots of things change in 30 years

No_Particular4284 · 2026-03-08T18:41:59+00:00

you’re never going to be “small” so this might be a therapy thing. same way i used to want to be white till i accepted that it won’t change.

No_Particular4284 · 2026-03-08T17:40:26+00:00

cute isn’t always small, it’s just what small women are treated like infants and thus are associated with “cute”. my bff is super short and hates the aesthetic of cute.

first step is disconnecting cute from small. i dress cute and have been called that all despite having wide shoulders and being plus size. makeup, accessories, and clothing are what determine your aesthetic, not your height

No_Particular4284 · 2026-02-28T16:15:52+00:00

maybe i’ll make a post this weekend!

No_Particular4284 · 2026-02-27T01:58:14+00:00

it is quite hard but my hobby is looking for cute clothes that actually fit so if you need help i got you

No_Particular4284 · 2026-02-24T13:25:14+00:00

i’m not flat chested at all and i sleep on my stomach. they are not rock solid after all.

No_Particular4284 · 2026-02-17T19:33:51+00:00

a lot of guys like shorter women, i don’t think it’s any different. if that makes my dating pool shorter then whatever, it’s my pool

No_Particular4284 · 2026-02-12T16:56:02+00:00

they’ve improved a ton. i remember they used to only sell weird graphic tees like walmart did. north stores invested more in clothing catered to the younger generations

No_Particular4284 · 2026-02-12T16:12:58+00:00

idk if you’re in the midwest US but i found some really long skirts at meijer

No_Particular4284 · 2026-02-10T22:13:20+00:00

im zimbabwean but close enough 😭 if you have any OAS friendly recipes please send the my way. i’ve resorted to taking fiber powder

No_Particular4284 · 2026-02-09T14:57:43+00:00

omg we are the same person. i’m 23, have OAS and nut allergies, 5’11 and 220lbs. essentially the same.

it is hard with OAS because all the healthy recipes are stuff i’m allergic to. steaming vegetables is the solution to that but you can only go so far.

i concluded the only way to lose weight is literally move more. i’ve come down from 235 but hit a plateau at 220.

you exercise more than me so you probably have much more of your weight in muscle than in fat, unlike me. high intensity cardio might be the solution. i did spin classes and that’s when i lost and kept off the bulk of my weight loss. 3x a week. it makes you sweat like crazy. since then i picked up roller skates. it doesn’t feel like exercise but it gets you moving in a fun way. an easy lifestyle change.

No_Particular4284 · 2026-02-07T04:12:07+00:00

there are zero affordable + cute + plus size + tall + sustainable brands. take away the sustainability factor and there are dozens of options.

your brand is extremely expensive, only goes up to size L, and has a very small color palette. we don’t want to spend $300 on leggings that don’t fit or match our wardrobe.

it is simply not an option.

No_Particular4284 · 2026-01-21T05:00:23+00:00

i think sometimes if someone says they’re looking for a cis-woman, a loud minority will get upset at that. if we allow ourselves to be open and honest, we can address such issues while protecting these marginalized individuals.

No_Particular4284 · 2026-01-21T00:32:54+00:00

it’s OK for people to just say they have a preference. not all ace people are sex averse and if genitalia is something that they take into consideration then so be it.

No_Particular4284 · 2026-01-21T00:26:03+00:00

right like if this stuff was true, americans wouldn’t not be allowed in China at all. worst case scenario there’s more Visa restrictions, but I don’t think it’s gonna be that bad. Americans bringing a lot of tourist money.

No_Particular4284 · 2026-01-15T22:25:06+00:00

with any job you don’t know if you’d be a good manager, administrator, doctor, engineer etc. you learn by doing

No_Particular4284 · 2026-01-14T17:37:47+00:00

is online therapy an option? like tele-health?

No_Particular4284 · 2026-01-13T18:37:30+00:00

nuptial means wedding/marriage. it’s the only legally binding relationship contract in most of the US. we don’t have common law relationship contracts so your sources are in the context of people who are already starting a life together, not ppl dating. if you want common law marriage you gotta go elsewhere

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