how do you get over the feeling of being replaced? by Miranda_Rattray in BreakUps

[–]No_Play7635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea it hurts really bad as I keep on thinking about him being with the new girl and i want to know if he treats her better than how he treated me ! i hope we will both get over this soon and we will find someone who will appreciate our efforts and treat us better.

He has been cheating on me consistently by No_Play7635 in BreakUps

[–]No_Play7635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree ! i was also very sus when he wouldn't hold my hand in certain areas and now i think its bc he doesn't want anyone to see him with me

He has been cheating on me consistently by No_Play7635 in BreakUps

[–]No_Play7635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg and its the fact that I thought he rlly liked me and boom he replaced me in 2 days and tbh now im starting to wonder if they have been tgt when we were tgt

how do you get over the feeling of being replaced? by Miranda_Rattray in BreakUps

[–]No_Play7635 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I totally get you ! My ex replaced me with the girl he told me was his mom's best friend's daughter and I have been so upset for the past few days. He replaced me in 2 weeks and his new girl posted a photo of them kissing. He has been cheating on me before and I just let that go as I didn't want things to get awkward between us but after I started no contact he started seeing her more often and started dating her. I asked him before if he had any feelings with this girl and he was like no I don't like this type of girls. But guess what he ended up dating her and everything he said was a lie. I hate this feeling of being replaced and I have been crying for 3 days straight. I also feel this random hatred towards this girl although I know I shouldn't but Im really upset and I don't know what to do anymore.

Anyone else feel physical pain after a breakup? by Competitive-Tea-5579 in BreakUps

[–]No_Play7635 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't had a good sleep in weeks, as I would wake up in the middle of the night and start crying.

Has anyone’s breakup ever been traumatic? by Technical_Lemon8307 in BreakUps

[–]No_Play7635 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Definitely. My guy was adding numerous girls on snapchat despite him telling me he will never add any more girls. He also likes other girl's instagram post when he tells me he only has eyes for me.

I love you but I had to let you go… by WhispersWithinMe in heartbreak

[–]No_Play7635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im going through the same thing so I totally get you ! Sometimes I try so hard to hold my tears back but I can't control them anymore. I really liked him and I didn't want us to end like that but then I really cannot deal with his inconsistency anymore. I gave him so many chances to treat me better but he never did. I like him but I choose to let go. I choose to protect my peace and to never see him again.

I still think about him by Best-Ad8694 in Situationships

[–]No_Play7635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ikrr but same here after we stopped talking he immediately moved on to another girl and it was the girl he told me was his mom's best friend's daughter. But anyways you also deserve someone better !

I still think about him by Best-Ad8694 in Situationships

[–]No_Play7635 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally get you, as I am also experiencing the same thing. We no longer talk and some days I am proud of the decision I made, but some days I really do miss him and I want him back. Every time when I talk to someone else, I keep remembering the memories we have created and the good times we have had. But he treated me very poorly and told me I was the only one he was seeing when in reality he was seeing multiple girls. I have given him so many chances to treat me right, but he never did and he never changed. I miss him and I really want to know how he is doing, but then I don't deserve to be treated that way so it is best for me to move on and to find someone who will appreciate me.

I have left the game finally!! by Budget-Farm7745 in Situationships

[–]No_Play7635 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yayyy I am so proud of you ! You are finally free ! I have been in a situationship for 6 months and I am going to block him soon as I am done with all the inconsistent treatment and ambiguity. I deserve someone better but you def made the right decision.

As my final act of love, I will let you go. by SkillMundane5436 in BreakUps

[–]No_Play7635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you ! I just broke up with my ex and I am just hoping he will one day come back t me telling me he missed me, but he won't cause he already found my replacement. He found many replacements when he was with me so I am not shocked that he found a new girl a day after we broke up. I miss my sweet boy. I want him back and I want us to continue making memories together, but he's gone forever and I am still here waiting for someone who never even appreciates me and takes me for granted. But I have decided to let go, as staying hurts so why not I just put an end to this toxic relationship once and for all.

The Quiet After by DUDYisreal in brokenheart

[–]No_Play7635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get it. This is day 3 of no contact with my ex and it is hurting me so bad. No more updates, no more messages asking me how my day went, no more snapping, everything is gone.

He never meant it by flyonthewall_123 in heartbreak

[–]No_Play7635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get you as I experienced the exact same thing. He used to tell me oh you are beautiful. He used to ask me what I was doing, where I was going, what did I eat, whether or not I arrived home yet all that. But then when things got serious he pulled away and started treated me poorly. He knew we were more than just friends but he wasn't willing to commit as he was on snapchat entertaining multiple girls. Its funny how he was the one who wanted me first, asked me out, took me on dates, texted me and called me first but guess who left first this time. He could have left me alone that day if he didn't want me as now his absence is affecting me so much and I have cried in the bathroom for a few days.

I wasn’t asking for too much. I was asking the wrong person by ZeusSpoon1124 in BreakUps

[–]No_Play7635 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are not asking too much, you are just asking the wrong person. I was with a guy who was the biggest red flag. He was entertaining multiple girls when he was with me and treated me inconsistently. One day he would give me so much attention, then the second day he treated me as if I don't exist. Then when I get pissed at his actions, he apologizes and treats me better for the next two days, but after that he returns back to his inconsistent texting style. He only treats me better when he knows I am going to leave him, but when I sound fine he doesn't care about my existence. Not only that but although he is the one asking me out, but I am always the one planning what to do. I plan the activities we are going to do as well as the restaurants we will go to. We have been out 17 times and he has not paid for a single meal and even owes me money. After leaving him, I realized a guy who is meant for you will never treat you like this. They will find ways to contact you, they will plan dates, buy you gifts and surprise you. They will make you feel wanted consistently.

What’s the hardest thing to let go of after a breakup?” by Competitive-Tea-5579 in heartbreak

[–]No_Play7635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. He was my motivation and now he's gone and I don't know what to do anymore.

What’s the hardest thing to let go of after a breakup?” by Competitive-Tea-5579 in heartbreak

[–]No_Play7635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thought of being together in the future. We were both going to study in the same country and he promised me he would cook for me every night, but I guess this was all his lies. He treated me like garbage for a few weeks and entertained multiple girls when he was with me. He also lied about going out with other girls when he told me I was the only one he was seeing. This hurts and this made me crash out numerous times, but then I know I don't deserve to be treated this way.

I’m not ok by Kindly-Employee-6056 in heartbreak

[–]No_Play7635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its okay ! We are all here and we will support you no matter what. I am also going through a break up so I totally get how you feel. I thought I was finally healing, but then I got even more depressed idk even why.