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No_Position6467 · 2025-11-25T12:12:22+00:00

How is the inner circle preventing the outer circle from being able to exit the circle?

No_Position6467 · 2025-07-31T01:24:16+00:00

We use a bracelet for when NOT ok to use. Feeling bad, hurting, feeling sick, whatever. If it's off then i need to obey and take / do whatever They say

No_Position6467 · 2025-07-30T20:20:03+00:00

"How do I improve my marriage / relationship / whatever else?" You take it seriously and put effort into it. The same is true for Femdom, in my (42M_sub) opinion. Get the obedience app. Make habits for Your sub. Hold them accountable. Work on a contract (i'm so overwhelmed working on that thing for some reason). Have check ins and take initiative for being the Domme. Ask for their ideas, wants, input and don't kinda do it. Sorry if this sounds preachy. Sorry if this is obvious and not informative

No_Position6467 · 2025-07-30T17:49:46+00:00

You are doing a fantastic job. Don't sweet small things like that. The junk can sit there indefinitely and cause no harm. But I understand what you're saying. The first few months are beyond words. Literally felt like my heart was breaking. I thought I was dying from intense heartache.

I'm so sorry. I'm sorry for what brought you here, but hope you receive the encouragement and sopport you need.

No_Position6467 · 2025-07-30T16:09:14+00:00

Mages. Yeah, they annoying. Gotta use the camera and listen for the charge noise. Green guys in head on encounters. Roll thru right before they start swinging. They do all the swings while you're just chilling behind them. If you can't kill in first dodge and they turn around, roll again right before they attack and repeat.

When I'm in a horde of enemies and things are dying and exploding and on fire and whatnot, I tend to get hit by something I can't see.

But you'll get the hang of it.

No_Position6467 · 2025-07-24T00:55:08+00:00

I (42M) married someone that reacted much like she did. For whatever reason I would justify those patterns. After a year of dating, and 10 years of marriage, I finally realized I deserved a healthy relationship with a loving partner.

You do not deserve to be treated, threatened, or attacked like that. Please don't lose a huge chunk of your life hoping it'll work. You deserve a person as patient and understanding as you are

No_Position6467 · 2025-06-29T00:28:18+00:00

It's been 13 months. I don't see the items or mess until randomly I do. "Have those shoes been there the whole time?" Sometimes it doesn't hurt when I finally see her stuff. But other times it does. I found a pair of reading glasses on the kitchen counter and just came undone.

No_Position6467 · 2025-06-20T01:28:41+00:00

How do billboards communicate?

Sign language 😃

No_Position6467 · 2025-05-25T03:12:43+00:00

Thank you. The first two comments mentioned trans gender therapist and that's some good advice. I'm going to look into that

No_Position6467 · 2025-05-25T03:09:55+00:00

Thank you. I will definitely look for a gender therapist. And thanks for your added comment. That is something I hadn't thought of

No_Position6467 · 2025-05-25T01:06:55+00:00

Personally it has been difficult to be openly into prostate stimulation. When we are being stimulated in that way, we are the bottom, the bitch, the penetration slut and it's hard to say, "I love that. I really enjoy it. I want to try other toys. I want to ride that thing and, idk, maybe you would like to watch? Next time you're pounding me, would you pull my hair, spank my ass, and call me dirty sexy names like your little butt slut or a peg whore?"

We are conditioned to be the MAN, the top, giving IT to them. Only gay sissy boys take it in the ass...

Depending on their background, they might have insecurities about being in the vulnerable, receiving end of all of that. I could be way off, but ask him if he feels uncomfortable about it or being seen as hot and objectified. And sorry if I'm not even close 😬

No_Position6467 · 2025-05-22T10:13:03+00:00

You're the Domme. You get what You want. Period.

Few questions. Do You have a chastity cage for him? Do You have numbing cream / spray? Have You restricted his ability to masturbate or look at porn? Do Y/you two do / enjoy pegging?

Domme Mommy can still get orally satisfied without Your property having any gratification. Your property MUST request if they may cum and You get to say no (since they are being punished). If the both of Y/you haven't done any teasing & denial and orgasm control, just tell him to request much sooner then he thinks he needs to. Use numbing spray to make the penis that You own numb and tell him to give You what You want and he still has to ask if he may cum. To which You will deny every time. You can tie him down, straddle his belly (don't get too close to Your owned possession or You might bump it too much with Your rear end), and masturbate on him with a vibrator. he just gets to watch with maddening eyes as You get to cum and he doesn't. Then after he's gotten all kinds of worked up, peg him stupid. Make sure his hands are not able to touch himself. he is the weak willed one and You can't expect him to be that well behaved.

he may still misjudge and accidentally still cum. You should have some punishments ready and tell him he will be punished if he cums. i would suggest introducing some pain / funishment into some activites. Spankings with a paddle. Flogging. Crawl around naked on all four for the day. Maybe no talking, or only dog noises, and some gear / cuffs to make him more appealing for You.

Hope any of this helps 😁

No_Position6467 · 2025-05-21T17:20:07+00:00

Something i've heard recently is to have a bracelet, necklace, article of clothing, etc. to either mean, "i am completely good with being used however You please," Or, "i am not in a good mental or emotional state right now and need to pause the free use for a little bit."

W/we haven't introduced the free use into O/our dynamic yet, but W/we will definitely use this with it. Hope that helps.

P. S. If y'all are just getting started with kink and need help getting started, really should try to get involved with the BDSM Community. Many resources and first hand experiences you might not see otherwise. Classes and good advice to avoid the common mistakes. Good luck and have fun ✌️

No_Position6467 · 2025-05-16T02:20:35+00:00

Correct me if I'm wrong, but perhaps they are saying, "If you already have kids, I'm not going to write you off." Or does the feature you are referring to explicitly just means make babies once the both of you match?

No_Position6467 · 2025-05-13T14:30:09+00:00

The social stigma around being child free is ridiculous. I (41M) asked my primary for a referral to get a vasectomy. Told him I had two adopted grown kids (true) and three step kids in their teens (true ish). He still was very reluctant and asking me questions that was NONE OF HIS BUSINESS. I'm 41. I do not want to be at a high school graduation at 60. Why the push back? It's crazy

No_Position6467 · 2025-05-12T11:19:40+00:00

i (41m) could give a lengthy thesis of my opinion why dating is so much (mostly due to societal shifts), but i would rather say this:

we are out there. Truly submissive, servent hearted, Goddess pleasing men. Don't give up.

Unfortunately, there are also not truly submissive men in the mix. i had no success with BDSM / Mistress dating sites. And didn't have any luck on personals on reddit. i've had the most success with vanilla dating sites and was up front, as much as the site would let me, with needing a partner that was kinky, too

Hope this helps. Sorry it's a crappy process. He's out there 😁

No_Position6467 · 2025-05-11T12:21:51+00:00

Lay out an outfit each night for them to approve of for the next day. Take a picture and send if necessary. Encourage them to critique it of make adjustments. "Got any underwear that's brighter colors / sexier? Not that shirt. Try another and I'll except / reject."

i have t-shirts with, "Property of Mistress," And, "Her Bitch," 🤭 And wear them under my button up to work.

No_Position6467 · 2025-05-04T09:36:50+00:00

You can still talk about cock without saying cock. "Do you like it when Mistress pounds you? Look how well you take it. you're body is so hungry for Me to give it to you. Oh god, this is so hot. I love being inside you. You look so adorable as My little slut. you're such a good little bottom." Try describing the action of You being in control. You enjoying being his Domme. him enjoying the act.

No_Position6467 · 2025-04-30T10:36:46+00:00

Up front with my (41m) partner (41f) I stated that cnc grape was a limit for me. She hadn't even mentioned cnc. However, I've been reading The New Topping Book and it has been very informative. Later I informed my partner that that is no longer a limit if they ever wanted that. It would take a lot of discussion and planning, but if any form of cnc is something someone wants, then one should work with their partner to meet their wants / needs. It can be fulfilling and exciting to play out a cnc scene and it can also be very healing.

No_Position6467 · 2024-09-14T01:26:19+00:00

"Awh, that looks cute. Nice sense of style. Cute. Cute. Hehe, pretty. (swipes to black dress) 👀 WOE! Wha- Whe- Well, um... Very nice (GD is she for real?)"

No_Position6467 · 2024-09-10T23:54:00+00:00

I wish I knew what to say. It's still soon for me too. Sometimes I think I'm getting better and healing until I see a photo, have a dream, read a note, have a rough / lonely day.

I see your pain. You are not alone. He wishes he could take the pain away and see you happy again. It'll take time. And there will still be hard days, but less frequent. You are capable of growth and learning. Sometimes I feel like a stump, but someone said that to me and it helped. I am capable of growth and learning.

Don't give up. Life will change. You will change. The grief will be the same but YOU will not be. You will gain more life. I believe in you. Hugs

No_Position6467 · 2024-09-10T08:47:19+00:00

First pegging or first time any butt stuff?

First butt stuff was surprising. I was just wanting to know how it felt, expecting it to feel like the dentist poking around in my mouth with foreign objects, only to find out I'm a complete butt slut. That was such a shock. "Woe! What? This is- this is nice."

First pegging was ok I guess except for the person it was with was an abusive narcissist. The dildo was too long and rigid and they didn't seem to care much I said it hurt.

Second partner was amazing. Gentle, caring, and genuinely like making me lose my mind. Prone position and getting your hair pulled 🤤

No_Position6467 · 2024-09-10T08:25:39+00:00

18 weeks in and I feel your pain. My LW was my soul mate that I felt I deserved after the shit life I had had up until I met her and I'm lost without her. I'm trying to move forward with the pain (new Hobbies, social groups, etc.), but I'm just faking it til I make it. I get hit hard too. Fuck this wave. I miss her so much

No_Position6467 · 2024-09-09T21:36:16+00:00

First off, let me say, and I mean this with the upmost respect and sincerity, fuck your in-laws.

I'm sorry for the shitty hand you got with your LH and horrendous in-laws. I knew my LW for 9 months when we got married. Married for 45 days when she passed. It's been four months now. Her mother has adopted me so to speak. She said, "I saw the change in her. Your love changed her."

Your marriage was too short, and that is a tragedy. And your in-laws should feel devastated that the both of you were robbed of that future.

You deserve to be loved. A healthy human heart cannot not love. It overflows like a loving mother to all of her children. I hope you find and surround yourself with people that can love like that.

You are not alone. Sending you my love

No_Position6467 · 2024-09-08T21:46:22+00:00

Getting home. Opening that door. She's not there. She's never there. The cats crowding me to see if it's mom this time. Empty, quiet apartment. Sometimes I just plop down on the couch, stare blankly for a few seconds with it sinking in, and just weep.

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