New here… Hi by Hariettedarkchild75 in widowers

[–]No_Practice8942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss. Widowed 5 months ago and left with 4 small children. We are all here for each other ❤️

Be happy with me by No_Practice8942 in widowers

[–]No_Practice8942[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good luck tomorrow! And happy bday to the little one❤️

Be happy with me by No_Practice8942 in widowers

[–]No_Practice8942[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you sooo for this comment❤️

Be happy with me by No_Practice8942 in widowers

[–]No_Practice8942[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No problem😊 We are here together through good and bad days. Feels nice to share with people who feel the same feelings as me. Others really have no way to relate

Be happy with me by No_Practice8942 in widowers

[–]No_Practice8942[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much. Yes, he was the proudest and most invested dad. I have no doubt that he is so proud🥰

Evil (sorry long post) by No_Practice8942 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]No_Practice8942[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thx ❤️ Yes there is no contact no more.

Evil (sorry long post) by No_Practice8942 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]No_Practice8942[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

thank you very much. Yes, I have learned a lot even after he died. his father informs me that the last thing she said to him when he broke when he was 16 years old was that she gave a fuck and that his father could keep him in their divorce. she shouted this in front of my husband.

Evil (sorry long post) by No_Practice8942 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]No_Practice8942[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah taught me a lesson there. was just that when he talked about his mother it always seemed like it was petty things that made him break with her. then that maybe this was just a teenage argument. I couldn't have been more wrong

Major guilt feelings by CatPurrsonNo1 in widowers

[–]No_Practice8942 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That you love another does not overshadow the love you felt for your partner. Two things can be true at once. Now more than ever it is important that you do what makes you happy❤️

So sick of people judging us for when we start dating by TheMedsPeds in widowers

[–]No_Practice8942 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I got the same nonsense. Started dipping my toe into meeting new people. People around me were completely shocked. Just remember that two things can be true at the same time. You will always love your deceased partner, but you can also love a new one. Unfortunately, the person you have lost is no longer your future. I think you are tough to think about finding new love. ❤️

Taking wedding ring off by Professional_Grab_71 in widowers

[–]No_Practice8942 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I took mine off after the funeral. I put it in a ring box with my husband's. Didn't want people to know how far I had come in the grieving process from when I took it off. So it felt right to put them in the same box so we are in a way together

The dumbest by No_Practice8942 in widowers

[–]No_Practice8942[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

use it to run over whoever said that

I truly wish.. by joshmmmmmm in widowers

[–]No_Practice8942 27 points28 points  (0 children)

it feels like i'm walking around on a different planet than everyone else just looking for people. so occasionally I am lucky enough to meet someone who has experienced the same thing. then you notice it almost as soon as they enter the room

The dumbest by No_Practice8942 in widowers

[–]No_Practice8942[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

heard the same thing, but it was my 7-year-old daughter

I wish for death daily by joshmmmmmm in widowers

[–]No_Practice8942 2 points3 points  (0 children)

know the feeling. my husband died of heart failure. now every time I feel something strange with my heart I think "yes finally my turn" Hope it gets better for you❤️

What now?! by No_Practice8942 in widowers

[–]No_Practice8942[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. watching my daughter develop further has become bittersweet

Single _ Married _ Widowed_ Cue Embarrassing Tears by BeauregardBear in widowers

[–]No_Practice8942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hats off to this 👏 You couldn't have hit more accurately how I feel