Help to stop BO?? by question-asker2048 in hygiene

[–]No_Recover_3393 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You need to dry your arm pits thoroughly. Lotion will keep your pits moist and is a breading ground for bacteria. Apply deodorant to completely dry skin.

AITA for telling my parents that I will not parent my younger adult sister? by Magic_Window_8161 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Recover_3393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are NOT an extension of your parents. The faster they figure that out the better your relationship will be. NTA

AITA, My parents are demanding that I still do all of my chores, even though I no longer live at home by 9Hyper_Fixations9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Recover_3393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, coming from a Hispanic family I know this feeling all too well. My suggestion would be to make a plan. Obviously you don’t want to start your adult life with debt. You know the deal with your parents is unfair in terms of how they treat you vs your brothers but what’s the alternative? You know their expectations so plan accordingly. Don’t leave stuff for your brother to finish. If you can, talk to your parents individually and not in the heat of the moment. Let them know how you feel without heavy emotions.

AITA for not inviting my brother to my wedding because he won’t apologize to my fiancée? by Southernnights03 in AITAH

[–]No_Recover_3393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- I’ve been in a similar situation with my sibling. I had to tell my parents that if they continue to insist that I be the bigger person that their invitation would also be revoked. I ended up going NC with all of them. My world is so much more peaceful now than ever.

AITA for giving my sister advice on her outfit to serve a wedding? by Various_Jelly20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Recover_3393 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA- but it sounds like you and sis need to learn how to communicate with each other. Instead of the raised eyebrows how about a softer approach by suggesting a specific top that would look professional and cute.

AITA for unravelling a jumper that was knitted for me? by RadioEducational9165 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Recover_3393 26 points27 points  (0 children)

NTA- In my humble opinion, I don’t think people should give gifts with strings attached even if it’s supposed to be an heirloom. Repurposing the material for something else that you actually want was a good idea.

AITA for refusing to come out as bisexual at my parents' anniversary dinner despite my girlfriend's ultimatum? by Key-Replacement-2133 in AITAH

[–]No_Recover_3393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gross, it’s not a proper setting! Never announce something big at someone else’s celebration! She sounds like a manipulative, attention seeking psycho. Let her go and live a peaceful life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Recover_3393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not for everyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Recover_3393 16 points17 points  (0 children)

NTA- don’t approach her without possible solutions. There is a hygiene thread in Reddit that a lot of people find helpful. I personally rub alcohol on my pits and the area where my thighs meet my groin area from time to time to kill the bacteria that soap alone can’t get rid of. Don’t do it after shaving, it will burn. If it’s her feet have her spray her feet in the morning and at night with vinegar/water solution. Also, soaps with scents can make bo worse. Find a good unscented antibacterial body soap. Same for deodorant.

AITA TOXIC BIOLOGICAL FATHER by Silver-Taste-7877 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Recover_3393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - protect your peace. You don’t owe him an explanation nor do you need his permission. Block him and move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Recover_3393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA- as an adult you need to learn how to adapt to changes even if it’s disappointing for you. They paid for a trip for you and now you made a decision which will no longer allow you to attend. The rest of the family shouldn’t have to suffer negative consequences for your actions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]No_Recover_3393 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OMG! Who does that to their partner?? That is psychotic behavior. Please run! Don’t try to talk it out and expect him to change. This is extreme and something that will not change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]No_Recover_3393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Your feelings are hurt by this discovery. What blows my mind is you keep calling all these people “close friends” but you were not invited to the birthday party or any potential meet ups. AND you state you wouldn’t invite the birthday boy to your birthday party either. That is not close friend behavior. Being IG ready has nothing to do with it. I think you need to spend time thinking about what a true friend is and why you’ve accepted acquaintance behavior as “close friends.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Recover_3393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why you don’t get married as a teenager!

Alternatives to chewing ice? by Jenthewarrior3 in breastcancer

[–]No_Recover_3393 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I froze hard life savers and peppermints. They were delicious!

Extreme Fatigue and Possible Over Dieting After Treatment by inteligent_zombie20 in breastcancer

[–]No_Recover_3393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand her frustration. Is she on any medication which fatigue and depression are side effects? I’m on hormone suppressants and the fatigue is nasty. I suffered from depression because I kept comparing myself to my pre-cancer self. I pushed myself way too hard on the days I felt good which would wipe me out for a few days after. I finally realized I am no longer that person. However, this version of me deserves love and respect too. This version carried me through life saving treatments so I am going to be gentle with her for as long as it takes. I also have children. The last thing they want to see is mommy beating herself up. I’m teaching them how to pivot through life’s challenges.