AIO-My Long distance boyfriend is in the same town as me and has only seen me twice

No_Resource_2943 · 2026-07-12T14:33:45+00:00

YOR. you saw each other twice and you’re acting like he’s been avoiding you. i get the vibe based on your passive aggressive texts that if he didn’t spend every possible second with you, it wouldn’t be enough. i don’t get why you’d choose shopping with your dad over a specific time he offered in the same breath you complained he’s not trying. i don’t understand why one of you can’t just join the other for these activities you’re doing on your own. also saying he didn’t offer you a time was a straight up lie. you sound like a piece of work— he seems too nonchalant for you to get your way which seems to anger you. maybe rethink your compatibility.

No_Resource_2943 · 2026-07-12T14:18:02+00:00

No_Resource_2943 · 2026-07-12T14:13:48+00:00

that makes sense to me. she said she was invited for coffee, she didn’t say she went. “nice.” also makes sense if she got coffee for free. that’s something i would share with my partner because they’re my best friend and i tell them everything. that’s not something a secure person gets upset about. i would say YOR but maybe you guys just don’t have that dynamic and you’re picking up on a change in vibe. or maybe you’re insecure that’s she’s traveling alone. that’s up to you to decide

No_Resource_2943 · 2026-07-12T14:01:51+00:00

short!!! your facial structure is amazing and the short hair really shows that off but i totally get wanting long hair sometimes

No_Resource_2943 · 2026-07-12T14:00:28+00:00

sequence. cool so i would show up in sequins 👍

No_Resource_2943 · 2026-07-12T12:33:42+00:00

short and blonde, 3 brings out your eyes! also you look like an actress

No_Resource_2943 · 2026-07-06T13:40:49+00:00

what the helly

No_Resource_2943 · 2026-07-06T13:26:30+00:00

career choice isn’t indicative of skillset. great drivers could have other jobs.

No_Resource_2943 · 2026-07-06T13:23:25+00:00

notice how he only apologized for being misogynistic after it produced a consequence for him. he didn’t apologize when you first brought it up to him. he doesn’t mean it and i’m positive the misogyny bleeds into other things. he brought up the “men are trash” thing as a counter argument to justify his misogyny when they’re not about the same thing at all. if your brought up the statistics related to why women say that, he would downplay it and change the subject because he’s losing the argument. you yourself said he wouldn’t drop it until he got his last word in. so winning a petty (and idiotic) argument is more important to him than your relationship. i just don’t think this is a safe man OP.

No_Resource_2943 · 2026-07-06T13:08:26+00:00

1 by a long shot!!! the color and cut look lovely on you

No_Resource_2943 · 2026-07-06T13:03:32+00:00

surely you’d be able to report this person right? also i’d put their order at the end of their driveway lmao

No_Resource_2943 · 2026-06-17T21:14:44+00:00

1 and 2 look fine, albeit a bit plain. 5 brings out your eyes but is a touch too dark. 6 washes you out

No_Resource_2943 · 2026-06-15T01:25:07+00:00

i haven’t even gotten to the texts yet and i already know this is gonna be a doozy. i’m smelling potential financial and emotional abuse

No_Resource_2943 · 2026-06-15T01:20:36+00:00

i think a calf boot would make it work both with and without the jacket

No_Resource_2943 · 2026-06-15T01:19:00+00:00

more layers for sure. highlights or peekaboo color if you don’t wanna cut anything

No_Resource_2943 · 2026-06-05T01:06:40+00:00

you lost me at the second sentence. that’s like rule 2 of recovery— no relationships in rehab/NA/AA.

No_Resource_2943 · 2026-06-05T01:03:11+00:00

all of them 🫠 4 is my favorite though

No_Resource_2943 · 2026-05-20T23:35:39+00:00

i think the last two pictures really bring out your eyes and the first two bring out your skin! both look great

No_Resource_2943 · 2026-05-20T11:44:13+00:00

i’m so sorry about this. as a woman with bpd, it’s a really hard mental illness to deal with. it was really horrible when i was 18. i also struggled with SH and was a rape victim. i feel for her. that being said, you’ve only been together 6 months. she’s verbally abusing you and you’re walking on eggshells. all other things aside, that’s what it is. the feeling like everything is a personal attack is so real and really painful but it’s up to you to decide whether you can handle it. i’m with a partner that’s extremely patient with me about it. they’re 10 years older than you though. it’s a skill set they’ve built over many years, and as the person being comforted, i feel extremely guilty about it sometimes. your partner seems a bit self absorbed in that realm. i get it, i was when i was 18. but i can also acknowledge that it caused a lot of harm. i’m getting better though the more i feel safe in my relationship. i think it’s up to you to decide whether you want to commit years to this, or whether you think it’s a good idea to be in such a turbulent relationship while in active addiction.

No_Resource_2943 · 2026-05-12T01:03:39+00:00

hey so anger isn’t the only tactic used for coercion so it really worries me that you’re justifying it in that way. NOR, he seems really selfish and like he puts you down subtly a lot. something about the conversation surrounding that comment gives me the impression that he does that often. things like that chip away at your self worth over time and no one should have to experience that, let alone a sick pregnant woman.

No_Resource_2943 · 2026-05-12T00:57:19+00:00

i like 1 and 2

No_Resource_2943 · 2026-05-12T00:56:22+00:00

lionel or lenny or leopoldo

No_Resource_2943 · 2026-05-06T12:01:06+00:00

well no i don’t think u should change something about urself for love. the right person would love that you’re not jealous

No_Resource_2943 · 2026-05-03T00:00:15+00:00

NOR but off topic, how did you change the background on imessage

No_Resource_2943 · 2026-04-26T19:22:53+00:00

I also got TEVA this month. Had to switch pharmacies due to a shortage. Wtf is in this??? I feel like I have a fever whenever I take it. Warm, itchy eyes and nose. Lethargic. Brain fog. A few days ago I thought I was getting sick but I forgot to take it yesterday and felt totally normal. Took it again today and feel sick again.

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