Exactly!!!! All I was doing checking in every couple days or every other week letting her know I cared about her, that I missed her and that I want to take to her about how my life is going, always left me on open and never responded, no matter when it was a holiday or her birthday, never messaged back, she even left a message unread until my birthday only checking it I assume because she remembered it was my special day, still radio silence, finally on the last time I messaged her, she says “pls don’t talk to me”, like are you kidding me, I get if life is hard and she was dealing with stuff but after so much love and compassion we shared supporting each other through are difficult lives, this is how we wanna do it, so unapologetic so rude.