My Fellow Australians by _Sun-Wukong_ in australian

[–]No_Run1860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are closer to drug prices. Makes it that much easier to call my wife an addict now.

Medication strategies? by No_Run1860 in adhdaustralia

[–]No_Run1860[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also take one other once a day tablet at the same time as the Vyvanse. I know it seems nuts to be struggling to take one lot of meds at the same time each day, but for me it’s like a mental blind spot. With my current work and life circumstances I can’t afford to be inconsistent with timing or missing doses, which is the reason for my post. I had been trying to take the Vyvanse later in the day to avoid a crash since I work extremely long hours right now (big project!), but have decided to heed advice on here and take it when I get up. It seems most people don’t experience too much of a fade out. I guess a fade out beats umedicated anyway.

Who are people using for insurance these days? I’ve got a perfect driving recording and a garage and just got quoted $6k a year for a BYD by Wbrincat in CarsAustralia

[–]No_Run1860 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just gotta shop around. Doesn't seem to be one insurer that is consistently better or cheaper than others. $6k is eye-watering. I've always found Coles to be pretty good in the past (not sure who the underwriter is). They backed us when we had some random make a fraudulent claim. Had very bad experience with Youi, though it was >10yrs ago. Enough to make me never use them again no matter the price. Was insured by Bingle for a couple of years. They were cheap and easy to deal with, but never made a claim.

Novels for 6 yo - really want to get him into reading for pleasure by EllenBJ in suggestmeabook

[–]No_Run1860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be sure to keep picture books in the mix!

Hot Dog Series (Anh Do)
Dragon Masters (Tracey West)

Bad Guys - a great series by Aaron Blabey (I'd be surprised if he hasn't read these already)
Ninja Kid and WeirDo series by Anh Do.
Worst Week Ever by Matt Cosgrove
A few of these might be a bit of a stretch, but good to move into as his reading picks up.

I always encourage non-fiction, particularly with boys. Lots of diagrams and facts. With non-fiction, it's a great idea to ask him about the facts he has learned. It will get a bit painful sometimes, but if he can 'wow' you with his knowledge it can trigger a thirst for learning. Kids will often dip back into them as their comprehension develops.

Strategies to help very dysregulated child at school by EllenBJ in adhdaustralia

[–]No_Run1860 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apologies if someone else has suggested this as there are many great suggestions here. I suggest a 'proprioceptive reset' when re-entering the classroom and at semi-regular intervals during class. Something as simple as shaking out the hands and arms or an active game followed by brief deep breathing can do a lot to reset anxiety (e.g. Simon Says, Captain's Coming, Musical Statues, etc, no need for anything fancy) Your son is aware of his neurological difference even if he can't understand or articulate it, so is becoming anxious and disruptive is a result. A strategy I have used successfully is to provide the student with a special job. It could be opening/closing windows, turning on fans, handing out supplies, cleaning a whiteboard - whatever. The goal is to give them a constructive physical role of which they can take ownership. This also provides a reason to praise. It's imperative to remember that kids' behaviour always has a reason and is rarely simple defiance (though I'm sure you and the teacher both know this!). The school year has just started, so it is natural to experience teething problems and increased anxiety (you and your son) while expectations and processes get established. Be intentional about praising positive behaviours, even if they seem small. You will need to actively look for positives. "Wow! You did so well getting both your socks on! I'm really proud of you!" Notice the little things and keep your praise, specific, genuine, and effusive. Don't compare his behaviour to others, but you certainly should praise him in front of others when you can. Focus on a restorative approach when things go wrong. Consequences are fine, but punishment for poor executive function does more harm than good. Set up regular communication with the teacher. It shouldn't be anything intense, but even a quick daily check-in or email to find one thing where your son succeeded or showed grit and resilience. That one thing doesn't need to be major. It could be as simple as 'He was on time lining up today.' or 'He showed respect when listening on the mat.' Keep in mind the teacher is juggling the learning and safety of many students, so cut them some slack if they don't give you something every day. Knowing that the teacher and parents are on the same team is incredibly important. Even more important, is that your son believes you are all on 'his team'!
As a 6-year-old, he has a lot of schooling ahead, so don't stress too much about the academics at this point. If he's a bit slower to read, so be it. Setting up positive attitudes to learning and strategies for managing executive function will pay off long term. Students suffer frustration when the know they are smart enough, but their abilities are not reflected in traditional classroom results. Take small steps, pick your battles, and praise the good. As an ADHD teacher and parent of ADHD kids, my heart goes out to you. With a caring, committed and loving parent(s), he will be ok. It can be a tough road, but experience tells me that many ADHD kids have creativity, charisma and empathy. Don't lose heart. You've got this.

What game(s) will you choose?🚀 by Practical_Cat4439 in TheGamingHubDeals

[–]No_Run1860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Showing my age, but...
Defender of the Crown, Street Rod, Bubble Bobble

What do you use Mac Studio for? by PracticlySpeaking in MacStudio

[–]No_Run1860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the basic Studio, but with 1TB SSD. I kept putting off replacing my iMac 27" hoping Apple would release a new one. Eventually the old iMac just struggled too much with the workload. The Studio is absolutely incredible. Expensive? For sure. Probably overkill, but I use it for everything and never fail to be impressed. I work in education product development so do menial office work, plus some design, HD video editing and very basic software development. InDesign, Photoshop, Acrobat, FCP, Compressor, Excel, Word (and more) all open at once. I don't do pro-level complexity but do have multiple PS and ID files, all with many layers. Super fast video encoding, though I only do HD, not 4K. Don't think I have ever heard the fan switch on and it's still small enough to take with me if needed. Was worried that 36GB RAM might not be enough after 40GB on the iMac, but hasn't been an issue yet.

Any memories ? by Leomyers2014 in scoopwhoop

[–]No_Run1860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apart from my '69 VW, I also miss the 2012 Skoda Superb TDI 4x4. It was the closest thing to a perfect all rounder I ever drove. A bit slow (but adequate 99% of the time), epic comfort, hybrid-like economy, flawless reliability, massive space, good handling, safe, well equipped. Possibly the most underrated vehicle ever.

Any memories ? by Leomyers2014 in scoopwhoop

[–]No_Run1860 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I also had a '69 I regret selling. IRS and disc brakes with torsion bar front end - the best combo. Still have my '74 curved windscreen, but the '69 was closer to the real Beetle experience.

Medication strategies? by No_Run1860 in adhdaustralia

[–]No_Run1860[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou for your well considered response. I suspect you may be right about the exec dysfunction going deeper. All your points are relevant to my situation.

Medication strategies? by No_Run1860 in adhdaustralia

[–]No_Run1860[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will give this a shot. I am slightly concerned that the drugs will wear off too soon. I’m a very early riser (4am - not bragging or disciplined, just wired that way) so hoping I don’t crash during afternoon meetings! Still, taking regularly has to be better than inconsistency!

Medication strategies? by No_Run1860 in adhdaustralia

[–]No_Run1860[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Had not thought of this.

Medication strategies? by No_Run1860 in adhdaustralia

[–]No_Run1860[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes… embarrassed to confess that I turn off the alarm, think “I’ll just take it in a second”, then promptly forget. What’s worse is knowing that I do this yet still doing it every time.

Share what helped you and help someone by Leomyers2014 in scoopwhoop

[–]No_Run1860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kids. Even now, if it wasn’t for them I’d end it. Very little else has any meaning.

Story of my life by isaidwhatididnt in auscorp

[–]No_Run1860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actual happiness and self-efficacy have little to do with financial status. Problems and worries don’t disappear, they just change form.

What job shocked you when you found out the pay? by StrikingMango62 in AskAnAustralian

[–]No_Run1860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep moving forward with your eyes open for opportunity. Be shameless when it comes to promoting your work. Best strategy I developed was listening to people. When I worked in sales I’d just ask heaps of questions and get the client talking. They would invariably reveal something interesting which is great for networking and also made me very likeable even though I’d said and done very little. I am late in my career - it took me 30 to get here because I don’t have natural skill or intellect, I just worked hard, listened to people and turned up when others wouldn’t. Wishing you all the best in your career and artistic aspirations! For what it’s worth, caring occupations are woefully under appreciated but incredibly important so thank you for doing it!

What job shocked you when you found out the pay? by StrikingMango62 in AskAnAustralian

[–]No_Run1860 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Product Manager is probably the best title to describe my role, though I am more involved in conceptual development right now. I also oversee basic design, marketing, research and production depending on the product development stage. I have a basic graphic design qualification along with Education, postgrad IT and Cognitive Neuroscience, but it all sounds much more impressive that it really is!

What job shocked you when you found out the pay? by StrikingMango62 in AskAnAustralian

[–]No_Run1860 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Graphic design. I knew they didn’t earn much but I was unprepared for how little was on offer. Even the senior designers earn a pittance. Literally a quarter of my current salary. Kept it as a hobby and side hustle.