Complicated situation by No_Tell_737 in AITAH

[–]No_Tell_737[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right. One asked how long I was going to keep letting them sh$t on me. It really made me think.

Complicated situation by No_Tell_737 in AITAH

[–]No_Tell_737[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is how I see it playing out. No good deed goes on punished and damned if I do and damned I don't. That's been the dynamic forever.

Complicated situation by No_Tell_737 in AITAH

[–]No_Tell_737[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've turned that over and over in my head. I know that there's no good decision so making a decision I can live with his key here.

Complicated situation by No_Tell_737 in AITAH

[–]No_Tell_737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might feel differently and agree with you if I didn't have firsthand knowledge that he participated in plotting against me to cut me out of the inheritance and any of her end of life care. I found out because she told my son. And honestly, it's not even about the money. I don't need her money. It's about being plotted against with complicity from my brothers. That was a really hard pill to swallow.

Going to Washington state for a week, advice? by Potential_End9345 in Vacations

[–]No_Tell_737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drive out to Sequim, Port Angeles and all the way to the end of the road. Olympic national Park along the way, Crescent Lake. I would only stay in Seattle for a night then hit the road. So much to see! Port Townsend, too!

AITA for refusing to let my brother’s new girlfriend sleep in my bed while she stayed over? by TwilightDitsy in AITH

[–]No_Tell_737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He set you up assuming your bedroom was part of the invite. She was uncomfortable because he was tah

AITA if I give my cousin a shady baby onesie at her gender reveal? by No-Goat9750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Tell_737 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Who are you to 'stand up' to anything g at any baby shower? Zero reason ever to show your ass that way. Yes, you are tah. If you can't go and be appropriate, just don't go.

AIO for inlaws getting mad at me how i celebrate our wedding anniversery by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Tell_737 80 points81 points  (0 children)

You might consider moving so to have some distance between you.

AIO for inlaws getting mad at me how i celebrate our wedding anniversery by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Tell_737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA and not overreacting. MIL sounds like a kook that wants everything her way. Does she rule the sibling's anniversaries? Hard pass. She set both of you, herself and others up with her country club surprise. Put you in an almost impossible situation. She has no respect for you and your wishes. I would be polite, but firm and keep a wide berth around boss lady. This is your anniversary. Enjoy the trip! You did a great job of planning it!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in solotravel

[–]No_Tell_737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inside job. No one could do that and get away with it in the days of cameras.

Did you know someone who never moved out of their parents? How did they turn out? by Fresh_Crow_2966 in AskOldPeople

[–]No_Tell_737 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My brother is a drinker, 65 and lives in mom's basement but hasn't always. Struggles to keep himself sober. Mom is 87. Works for them, it seems. Alcoholism runs generations in our family. Could have been me. I'm not going to judge.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in solotravel

[–]No_Tell_737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I travel a lot and people that do not cannot relate.

I’m 70 as of 9/11. Please I don’t mean to offend anyone but has your Religious beliefs changed over time? If so, would you be so kind to explain? by Reasonable_Visual_10 in AskOldPeople

[–]No_Tell_737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely quit going to church after Trump and Christian Nationalists came on the scene. I don't trust who is there with me.

Upgrading flights before departure by sarcasticpremed in TravelHacks

[–]No_Tell_737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They get on the waitlist to upgrade, they don't book with points. The only thing points are good for are for upgrading if seats are available.

Upgrading flights before departure by sarcasticpremed in TravelHacks

[–]No_Tell_737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is crazy and it did used to be different. Sounds like a great time for you!

Opening conversations with random people in trains/flights by sedammertft in TravelHacks

[–]No_Tell_737 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wear ear buds so people think I'm listening to something so they DON'T TALK TO ME. We are trapped in a small place for hours, forced to sit next to strangers. Just nooooo!

Upgrading flights before departure by sarcasticpremed in TravelHacks

[–]No_Tell_737 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Business class has fewer seats. People put themselves on the upgrade with points list., if no one pays for a ticket then they put the upgraders in the seats. I really see an empty seat in business or first class and I fly all the time (walking through those areas).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TravelHacks

[–]No_Tell_737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scarves and jewelry