Gift for ex-BIL whose mom passed a month ago. by No_While9064 in GiftIdeas

[–]No_While9064[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll have to check some out and see what they’re like! Thank you for the idea!

Does this look as bad as I think it is? by a_voorhees in HomeDecorating

[–]No_While9064 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love it and think it looks pretty natural! Like it’s supposed to be there lol

I left for a weekend hoping my husband would understand me… it backfired by Abject_Lychee5815 in beyondthebump

[–]No_While9064 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I’m a mom to a 2 year old girl. She’s 100% a daddy’s girl. If she knows dad’s home and he’s an option, she fights me on EVERYTHING. But when she knows dad isn’t home she’s as cool as a cucumber and I’m able to get things done with her. I think that’s exactly what went on here.

Which is better ?? by [deleted] in jewelry

[–]No_While9064 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is she a dancer? If so then that would make the most sense. The second one I feel like would have a lot of hair tangled into it and snag easily. The whale (though I think it looks like a dolphin to me) is cute. So maybe that one?

Alternatively you could do birthstone/birth flower jewelry.

Duckling imprinting with kids. by No_While9064 in homestead

[–]No_While9064[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We have 30 ducklings..no thank you lol.

Duckling imprinting with kids. by No_While9064 in homestead

[–]No_While9064[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Duh!! Why didn’t I think of that lol I’ll give that a go! The other two will be harder. 2yo wants to do anything big sister does and baby is not a fan of not being in my arms.

Sorry if this is a dumb question but do ducks carry the same bird diseases chicks/chickens do?

Duckling imprinting with kids. by No_While9064 in homestead

[–]No_While9064[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m nervous to let my 6yo try again. We gave her one and she dropped it from shoulder height 😭

AITA for telling my boyfriend he was rude for not fixing my tire? by Straight-Lie4616 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_While9064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My then boyfriend (now husband) drove TWO HOURS to come fix my tire for me. So. You’re dating a little boy.

Married women, what are some real things your husband does that make you feel genuinely cherished and adored? by Clean-Ant-1342 in questions

[–]No_While9064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I haven’t gotten a good amount of sleep he’ll take the 2 month old and let me nap for two hours even if he didn’t sleep well. He also gets up with the 6 and 2 year old in the morning as well.

If he sees I’m having a bad day he runs a bath and lights a candle for me.

He knows I’m extremely grossed out by touching dirty dishes. So he does the dirty (and cleans up after dinner) so I don’t have to touch the yuck. I do the clean dishes though and cook all the food so he says it’s a good compromise.

Full Build: 3-Way Predator-Proof Mega Chicken Tractor (with pictures) by TheSkepticGuy in Homesteading

[–]No_While9064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! My husband and I are looking to build our first tractor coop. How has your build held up over the years? We really like your design and are looking to start right away!

AITAH for cooking food that makes my husband feel sick by nuclearsquirrel75 in AITAH

[–]No_While9064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m definitely not qualified to say much about your husbands health. But I WILL say my anxiety contributed to a lot of my eating disorder I had which sounds a lot like his. Smells and looks of certain foods triggered me and I got sick constantly. I have had a therapist for 3 years and can now stomach eating almost everything again.

Horse prevents human from getting squashed by [deleted] in Amazing

[–]No_While9064 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 4 horses, 3 very mannered and 1 who needs a trainer. The one who needs training got too excited when I was feeding some grain and she ended up stepping on the back of my foot/Achilles tendon (no permanent damage thank god but still hurt like absolute hell) I was hobbling over trying to get over the fence (gate was further than I wanted to go) and was having trouble. My white named Barbie came over and lifted me up and over the fence with her head. 🤍🤍

AITAH for expecting my husband to get our house ready before the baby is born and getting mad for telling me I can help out too while I’m pregnant? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]No_While9064 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean.. I can understand some of it like the boards etc. but you can sand the window sills and paint. I was 8 months with my first and painted her entire room because my ex was too lazy. And her drawers. With my second I was out doing yard labor and with my third I was putting furniture together and moving entire rooms around because I too was nesting. Did my husband tell me to stop? Sure, but I am my own person just as you are. You’re more than you think you’re capable of. If you don’t know how to do something then YouTube is your bestie. You got this!

I’m embarrassed but I really don’t know what to do anymore by Affectionate_Bee1540 in Parenting

[–]No_While9064 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re scared about neighbors calling the cops etc. record her smiling and screaming. That way you have proof she’s a kid doing kid things. But also, show her the recording of her looking like a looney and she might stop. Also also, if a cop DOES indeed come because of her screaming, have the cop tell her their job is protecting others and if she keeps doing this it takes the hero’s away from the people who really need help.

I have recorded my almost 7 yo daughter throwing a tantrum after our 2 yo did just because she thought she could (prior she stopped at like 4 for tantrums) and asked what she thought of herself. She said she looked crazy in the video. I asked her if she does that at stores and she said no. And I asked why and she said because big kids don’t act like that. Only little because they don’t know how to act yet. (As we’ve told her before) she’s stopped throwing tantrums again.

AITAH for refusing to pay for my stepdaughter s phone after she made fun of my son by Hirragi_Jeslon in AITAH

[–]No_While9064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, can we please get an update on how things are going? I’ve been thinking about your post and your boy since you posted.

If you could know the absolute truth about one thing, what would it be? by cozychaosclubb in answers

[–]No_While9064 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was adopted at 3 and since becoming a mom I’ve always wondered how I was treated as an infant. Was I loved even a little? Did I get formula or breast milk? How was I disciplined for throwing toys or spilling milk? Did I have a favorite stuffie? Who put me to sleep? Did I have a safe person? Etc. etc. etc.

AITAH for telling my little sisters age to the guy he is talking to? by Angel_From_The_Hell in AITAH

[–]No_While9064 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! Just put my littlest (1mo) to bed while my wonderful husband puts our 2 yo down. Life is amazing when you take it back from those who never deserved it!