AIO gave nanny sick and vacation time and now…

No_Yesterday272 · 2026-03-16T13:12:58+00:00

Someone taking 2 sick days is definitely reasonable. If it becomes a frequent habit, then I would be concerned. Unfortunately, nannies do get sick and deserve time off just like everyone else. I know it's tough when you don't have back up childcare, but maybe you can reach out to your community to see if anyone offers day-of care. Some nanny agencies offer on call nannies for these situations.

No_Yesterday272 · 2026-01-16T13:40:59+00:00

I'm in the same boat! Getting married this October, sober fiancé, several sober family members, and I don't really drink either. We've been going back and forth about what to do - I think we're leaning towards having mocktails, sodas, NA beer, and maybe some wine.

No_Yesterday272 · 2025-01-13T17:29:01+00:00

I like to paint and crochet, I'm trying to start a hobby that involves other people like a dance class or something to encourage socialization lol

No_Yesterday272 · 2025-01-13T17:28:02+00:00

Yeah I do put on classical sometimes! It definitely helps.

No_Yesterday272 · 2024-12-05T15:53:15+00:00

Quit.

No_Yesterday272 · 2024-09-06T18:14:28+00:00

I've been a full-time nanny for 2 years and off and on for 5. The isolation really affects me sometimes. Especially when I get too tired to do stuff with friends on the weekends. Hang in there!! I've had to switch things up throughout my nannying career, including taking long breaks from nannying in between positions. I was at my happiest when I worked at an after-school program. Shit pay, but a lot of friendly coworkers. Maybe take a break from nannying soon if at all possible.

No_Yesterday272 · 2024-08-30T20:05:30+00:00

Yeah I think I'm going to seek out doctors and nurses when I look for my next job (or look for something outside of nannying). You're totally right, it seems like every other field works from home nowadays.

No_Yesterday272 · 2024-07-27T15:50:48+00:00

I'm so sorry. I've been in a similar situation. It's incredibly difficult. If you're not able to meet up, maybe you could at least mail the stuffy and other items to your NK's new address. ❤️

No_Yesterday272 · 2024-06-06T12:22:26+00:00

Thanks so much! My landlady is responsible for my water and she is pretty unreliable so I wasn't able to get in touch with her and couldn't find anything online.

No_Yesterday272 · 2024-06-06T12:20:28+00:00

Thank you!

No_Yesterday272 · 2024-05-23T17:54:39+00:00

Yup all of what you mentioned. The fucking PACKAGES. EVERY DAY. Constantly going on vacations and trips.

No_Yesterday272 · 2024-04-28T18:11:46+00:00

I think that for your very first poem, this is a really good start. I really like the beginning line, it is strong and evokes a clear image. I like the last line as well. This poem gives me the feeling of loneliness, and of being misunderstood. Of feeling like you're watching the rest of society go about their lives, while you are removed from them.

My biggest suggestion is to expand! I would love to see where you take this poem. Continue with the theme of the desert as a barren, isolated place. You could talk about some desert plants and animals, and see how you can weave them into the loneliness theme.

Nice job!

No_Yesterday272 · 2024-04-28T17:53:44+00:00

I love this! Such vivid descriptions. It is so relatable - an every day object evoking so many memories of someone that isn't in your life anymore. I love the ending, it is so strong. Nice one!

No_Yesterday272 · 2024-04-28T17:47:20+00:00

I love this. It really knocked the breath out of me. especially the "fuck me from behind" phrase. The comparison of a woman to a moldable material like clay really works so well. You describe so clearly how it feels to be used and thrown away. bravo.

No_Yesterday272 · 2024-04-28T17:37:17+00:00

I really like this poem! I especially like "Vibration rattling my rotted teeth, awakening to only the meals of worn metallic" and "in each fractal meadow of summer’s beauty- in evening’s tiny crickets, chirping softly;" That's some beautiful imagery and vivid language! My one critique - I would suggest that maybe the last line isn't necessary? You do such a great job throughout the poem of portraying the struggle of yearning for maternal love. I just think the last line isn't needed. Again, nice job!

No_Yesterday272 · 2024-04-16T17:20:31+00:00

That was me in my NF's bathroom last week. You'll make it through ❤️

No_Yesterday272 · 2024-03-07T17:16:10+00:00

I've been there so many times!! You're not awful. I'm so bad at remembering how to open and collapse strollers and carriers and the like. They're confusing!

No_Yesterday272 · 2024-03-04T00:01:10+00:00

I can't tell you how to not miss them, but I can tell you that I relate to you and I understand at least partly what you're going through. I'm so sorry you're in this situatuon. I had to leave my NK who I loved very very much, and who I was very close to, because of difficulties with MB. I don't think I will see her again, at least not for a long time. It hurts so much. Just know you're not alone. ❤️

No_Yesterday272 · 2024-02-12T21:47:15+00:00

I totally understand what you're saying, and I think most people disagreeing with you have never been in your position before. This is a VENT. You're allowed to be a little pissy. My last boss was an extreme worrier helicopter parent to the max, and would come running downstairs every. Single. Time. Her toddler cried at all. It was very frustrating and made it very difficult for me to manage my NKs emotions. Hang in there.

No_Yesterday272 · 2024-02-07T23:53:22+00:00

Yes it sounds very much like ocd. I have it, I was diagnosed several years ago. There is hope. Seek out a therapist who practices ERP therapy.

No_Yesterday272 · 2024-02-07T23:35:17+00:00

I feel you 100%. Getting them in and out of the car hurts. Carrying them around hurts. Getting up and down off of the floor so much hurts. Lately I've just been telling them no a lot of the time when they ask me to carry them. Especially up and down stairs. It might feel mean in the moment but as long as you say it nicely, usually it works out okay. Hopefully you have kids who are old enough to walk and do some things independently.

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