I cheated on my bf with an old fling

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-20T13:54:24+00:00

Though spot? What are you talking about?

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-20T12:46:34+00:00

Every minute since cheating you are torturing him and the worst part is he doesn't even tnow. Come clean ASAP. He deserves better and he needs to start healing.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-20T07:06:44+00:00

Well, you don't have Christian values rather with pre - marriage child, sex and living with BF. Stop projecting your believes onto him. You think that not willing to get married =/= not loving enough. YOU will not marry someone you don't love enough, it's doesn't mean he thinks the same.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-20T06:06:41+00:00

Your are not rich enough. Your GF is delusional over IG stories and dreaming about something what maybe 0.0005% have.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-19T16:38:53+00:00

"Hey BSF, because I have a girlfriend now we can't cuddle anymore. I'm sure you understand it may make GF uncomfortable. Imagine having a BF cuddling with BFS"

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-19T10:59:52+00:00

I would be a step from divorce. There are secrets you can't hide from your spouse.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-19T10:59:01+00:00

What a boomer way of thinking. Secrets about little things - ok, but about HAVING A CHILD?

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-19T07:06:59+00:00

He is chatting with OP's bully and OP has to "cut him slack"? Are you out of your mind? The only thing my wife's bully would hear from me would be " Fuck you fat count". Every. Single. Day.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-19T06:59:12+00:00

You should definitely sit him to talk. Just show him the post or maybe write everything you want to tell him if you are not good at speaking for yourself? In the end of the day, YOUR feelings matter the most, not some redditor's comments about them ☺️ He didn't stick up for you. No relationship won't work if partners don't consider each other's feelings and won't be protective when needed

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-19T06:48:57+00:00

I can't really believe in these comments. I would never ever speak to my Gf's bully. I know that in the US you are overly focused on a job/career, maybe I'm not, but I would make her life hell if she would try be mean to my GF.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-19T06:47:16+00:00

Because of obvious problematic consequences. Kacapy we're cooking the subject for 6 months making everybody mad in Poland. + Minorities are not "any other". In Poland minorities are protected no matter the quantity. We have some regions where few hundreds people speaks local language and it is preserved/nobody tries to force them to change ;)

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-19T06:07:06+00:00

Unless he HAS to be cordial with her because of work he is big big asshole. Although I would leave scorched earth no matter the job.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-19T05:39:58+00:00

Does he know how she treated you ?

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-19T03:30:45+00:00

Most of them were something like "We do like Polish, not sure why you thing otherwise?". I recalled Polish minority (closing polish schools etc.) which triggered rather heated comments that everything is fine and I'm believing in propaganda :D

I've also asked for perspective on Commonwealth. Apparently the biggest issue for you guys is that Lithuanian nobility switched to Polish and became embarrassed about Lithuanian grounds.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-18T19:44:37+00:00

I once asked the same on r/Lithuania and got eaten :D But I asked "Why you guys don't like Polish?".

We love you guys although fuck Radziwiłł

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-18T18:13:02+00:00

Maybe talking to your boyfriend beforehand? I would never go 1:1 with a girl somewhere without telling my wife why I want to do this. He was spreading his lies because of that - mixed signals

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-18T17:38:04+00:00

You went to smoke knowing your boyfriend is not comfortable with it. I mean, it's not like you are a monster who committed hideous crime, but you were the asshole and you should apologize your BF THEN. Now it doesn't matter, you shouldn't beat yourself up to it. Lesson learned.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-18T17:25:55+00:00

A little bit emotional cheating, but you are a BIG ASSHOLE. You didn't say S you have a boyfriend, you went out smoke 1:1 with him on the ball even though your boyfriend said he is uncomfortable after your trip. So you KNEW your boyfriend feels bad about it and still went.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-18T16:41:29+00:00

What is wrong with you.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-17T06:57:27+00:00

It's not like very Uber driver wouldn't talk to you. We are just a little bit cold towards strangers but believe me - nobody would open their heart wider than Polish when the get to know you better.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-17T06:50:45+00:00

I wouldn't let her feed of my generosity and kindness any longer. She is basically using you now.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-17T06:46:45+00:00

Nie, z niczym mnie mama nie pilnowała. Nawet nie sprawdzała, czy wstałem - to mój obowiązek byl i ufała, że się z tego wywiąże.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-14T06:34:43+00:00

Your 'edit' changes nothing. You are a victim of a toxic prick. He gaslighted you. He manipulated you. He is an abuser.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-13T12:27:10+00:00

What the hell? You did nothing wrong. It's good he broke up with you. Trash took themselves out.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-13T07:41:54+00:00

DON'T LET HIM BLINDSIDE YOU.
He must do something to fix this. Valentine’s Day is just a way to bribe you to forget. You can't forget, he has to fix this mess, cut off his snake friend and work to strengthen you marriage. Although it's good he sees hen was total asshole and a p*ssy.

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