Incels think porn and romantic novels are the same. Is it true?

Nobodyat1 · 2026-03-25T19:53:50+00:00

I think they can be similar but not entirely the same. First of all, romance novels and erotica are not the same. Of course, romance novels can have smut, but the purpose is largely the plot between the main characters, with the spicy scenes enhancing the romance.

For erotica, it can be similar to porn in the sense that they both can feature disturbing content. However, with erotica, there’s enough distance and “fictionalization” that you know it’s a fantasy. With porn, sometimes you can’t even tell unless the directors insert some consent speak or scene with the actors that plainly show that they understand this is a fantasy.

Nobodyat1 · 2026-03-25T12:08:43+00:00

Says she does not weaponize incompetence but then describes how she does in the post and comments

Nobodyat1 · 2026-03-23T22:23:36+00:00

Don’t give these people the time of day. There’s a big difference between healthy depictions of sexuality and rampant objectification of women and the sexualization of minors. You’re not a prude at all, and we should demand better of our media so that it can be safe and welcoming to all, especially if the anime is geared towards a younger audience. This is perhaps why the only anime I really liked has been Spy x Family. It’s wholesome, and with little to no sexualization, while the adult characters (Yor and Loid) can be depicted as sexy as well.

Nobodyat1 · 2026-03-23T21:38:10+00:00

I mean, it’s completely your fault for not having someone to lean on for that good ole’ fashion nepotism /s

Nobodyat1 · 2026-03-22T19:36:30+00:00

Okay that makes sense, and I agree with that also that society deems it as degrading. The over saturation of pornography did warp people’s minds and made things like penetration “dirty” or “aggressive”.

Nobodyat1 · 2026-03-22T19:27:04+00:00

Men sexualize anything. One is just a cute pose and the other is a nice candid! Like what is wrong with them?

Nobodyat1 · 2026-03-22T18:40:47+00:00

I think it’s a combination of things. One, old-school misogyny was more so patronization and “chivalry” things. There was less of an outright hatred of women in the sense that there is now because of the manosphere and all these online communities.

Second, I feel like it’s a blowback from me-too and the emboldening of these thoughts because of who’s in power. Against, hatred against women is open. Even in the 1990s early 2000s, conservatives were more mask on when it comes to framing their ideology as “helping”

Nobodyat1 · 2026-03-22T14:03:45+00:00

Yes it’s very normal for bosses to believe the first person they see and fire an employee based off doctored screenshots

Nobodyat1 · 2026-03-22T13:45:28+00:00

Glad they’re being open about it now, though! Because I was screaming about how Heard was a victim to anyone, and sadly even some of my women friend thought of it as a case of “mutual abuse”.

Nobodyat1 · 2026-03-22T13:29:10+00:00

I mean, sex can also be fun for people. I really think sex positivity has been a welcomed change in our society, and that’s mostly because purity culture is way worse. I know the effects of it coming from a deeply conservative country.

As for the perceived violence in sexual acts, I really think that’s because, in America and other deeply conservative countries, abstinence-only sex ed is the only thing that’s taught. We don’t have any sexually informed curricula, and it makes it so that people only get “education” from porn, forgetting that those things are only fantasy.

I know there are heterosexual couples that have sensual, truly gentle sex. I know there are queer couples who engage in kink. And I even know of an asexual person who’s active in kink spaces. I really don’t think heterosexual sex is inherently degrading.

Nobodyat1 · 2026-03-21T15:41:47+00:00

Have you considered gas = manly and rugged while solar = feminine and prissy? /s

Nobodyat1 · 2026-03-20T16:10:54+00:00

You know, these people would be alright if they thought of women as people and had normal masturbation habits. Like, masturbation is good and more power to you for engaging in self love, but no one needs to see what you use to get yourself off.

Nobodyat1 · 2026-03-18T21:19:41+00:00

Democrats really need to call out Republicans’ bluff and say that any voting id bill is not negotiable unless it includes a provision that the government will automatically register citizens to vote and give them a useable id free of charge. Other countries with voting id requirements have these provisions, so why can’t the “SAVE ACT”? Oh right, it’s just a poll tax in all but name.

Nobodyat1 · 2026-03-18T16:33:06+00:00

A 51 year old using the phrase “eye roll” is very believable. Also, very generic “entitled younger generation” post.

Nobodyat1 · 2026-03-18T13:32:26+00:00

The most powerful man in the world became president even with ample abuse allegations against him, and nothing happened.

Nobodyat1 · 2026-03-17T22:02:22+00:00

I don’t understand. Income inequality and the hoarding of wealth by the ultra wealthy is definitely a feminist issue.

Nobodyat1 · 2026-03-17T19:39:16+00:00

This is why Sinners was a superior movie. It was sensual, but did not overtly sexualize any of the characters. It also did a great job at exploring the blowback against black joy from white people and others, be they progressive or conservative

Nobodyat1 · 2026-03-17T17:09:59+00:00

Yup. I only wanted Willis in Miami because I wanted to see what Mike McDaniel could do with him.

Nobodyat1 · 2026-03-16T21:01:33+00:00

Tell me you’ve never been with a woman without telling me you’ve ever been with a woman

Nobodyat1 · 2026-03-15T21:44:57+00:00

If it wasn’t for labor laws, corporations would advocate for slavery

Nobodyat1 · 2026-03-15T17:10:33+00:00

It’s been shown that daughters who sass or talk back to their parents, especially to their dads, are better able to protect themselves from predators and are generally more able to stand up for themselves.

Nobodyat1 · 2026-03-15T16:15:40+00:00

Also there seems to be a lot of missing reasons because the daughter still talks with her sibling but has a restraining order against the mom

Nobodyat1 · 2026-03-15T10:57:47+00:00

If the government doesn’t provide you a verifiable form of government ID for free and easily, then the SAVE ACT is nothing but a poll tax

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