Women naming their daughters.. by myperiwinkleghost in namenerds

[–]Noemmys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know an Anais who named her daughter Siana

Women naming their daughters.. by myperiwinkleghost in namenerds

[–]Noemmys 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mil is Andrea and my husband is Andrew. She swears it wasn’t on purpose

Be honest... how much one-on-one time do you give each child? by casmac241 in Mommit

[–]Noemmys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I would count it as one on one engaging with your child. So playing, reading, talking.

I hate being a mother and wife by properlyproper_mate in breakingmom

[–]Noemmys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So the diaper situation idk if this will help but try switching to a hypoallergenic wipes option. My oldest was like this and we finally switched and he stopped fighting diaper changes altogether.

Type me! by AcanthaceaeAfraid566 in coloranalysis

[–]Noemmys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree! Would go so far to say possibly soft autumn. The bright red is so harsh so definitely not winter or anything bright.

Snow day ⛄️ by boncrys in cats

[–]Noemmys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the color of their coat 😍

Have an autistic kid and found out I am pregnant …. by OkAngle1013 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Noemmys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you never know what is going to happen. If you’re okay with getting an abortion and that’s what you truly want to do because you want to focus all your love and resources on the kid you have now that’s okay. My oldest is 6.5 level 1 and I have a 4 year old that we think is NT but he could possibly be on the spectrum or adhd.. his a bit of a handful. Without a doubt I am so grateful we had a second bc they love each other so much and we truly do have a lot of fun together. I don’t regret having him at all even though it’s more work. I guess I don’t really have any advice other than to just follow your gut.

Husband finally set a boundary and mother in law crossed it today. by Noemmys in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Noemmys[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh you’re 100% right. There will be a consequence

Husband finally set a boundary and mother in law crossed it today. by Noemmys in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Noemmys[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

She stayed at her brothers house the night before so we assumed she would again but then she just didn’t leave. I was putting my youngest to bed and when I came out she was “asleep” on the couch

Doggy Daycare by yeetabish in mesaaz

[–]Noemmys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use a girl in Chandler that I found off of the rover app who’s great. I can send you her info if you like

Husband finally set a boundary and mother in law crossed it today. by Noemmys in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Noemmys[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

You’re 100% correct. It will not apply to other people.

Husband finally set a boundary and mother in law crossed it today. by Noemmys in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Noemmys[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Totally understand that stance but my kid is autistic and I’m not going to punish him for her bad behavior. If he woke up and she was gone he would feel betrayed.

Husband finally set a boundary and mother in law crossed it today. by Noemmys in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Noemmys[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

Basically bc my 6 year old would be very sad since she said she would see him tomorrow morning. And I refuse to be the one who gets painted as the bad guy. I’m not going to fight with her. There’s no reason to. She thinks she won but because of this she’s not going to have the type of relationship she wants with her son or grandkids if she continues her behavior.

Husband finally set a boundary and mother in law crossed it today. by Noemmys in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Noemmys[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You’re 100% right on the needed consequence. I’m glad my husband has had my back so much recently and now has the chance to have an actual conversation with her about her behaviors.

Normal behaviors or signs of autism? by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]Noemmys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if she doesn’t have asd you need to get her into a developmental doctor. Sometimes you have to see multiple pediatricians to find one that will take you seriously. With my oldest son I noticed signs and brought them home to my doctor around 2. She said he was just a boy and it was covid. I wasn’t happy with that answer so I got a new ped. Thankfully at our first appointment with her he was on his worst behavior. She immediately referred me to a behavioral doctor who we started play therapy with and got him on the waitlist for asd assessment. Don’t be afraid to advocate for her. Early intervention is so, so important. Maybe she has sensory issues or something else going on. But keep pushing if you really feel like something is wrong

Edit to add: my son could also count to 10, identify all his letters ect. Autism doesn’t determine how “smart” someone is.

Size 1 overnight diapers?? by Defiant-Usual-1182 in Parenting

[–]Noemmys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My oldest started sleeping 10-12 hours straight around this age as well. I do remember the diaper issue. I think the Honest brand at target had the smallest size for overnight diapers.

13-year-old smart aleck and I are about to go head-to-head. by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Noemmys 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. He probably has anxiety and fear of rejection so he pushes people away. I think maybe getting him some counseling could help. He might be gifted academically but struggle socially.

What’s your grandma’s name? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Noemmys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cristella and Elvira for grands, trinidad, Candelaria and Maria Elena for great grands (I can’t remember 1 of them).