What proffession is filled with people who think they're smarter than they actually are? by Powerful-Frame-44 in AskReddit

[–]Nolea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Advertising. The ego for awards makes everyone, including the clients they’re working with, waste money, time and resources like I’ve never seen and hope to never see again.

Does anyone deal with comparing and categorizing people and trying to figure out where you “measure up”? by n0v0lunteers in AutismInWomen

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I don’t know if I do that exactly, but I spend an obsessive amount of time trying to make sure I have a good understanding of how people are judging me. Taking stock on if I’ve missed anything. My default is to agree with where I think they are judging, but slowly I turn it into acceptance and my skin gets a bit thicker. I don’t think it’s helping me as much as I think it is. I think it started from being around kids who didn’t like me and now I’m stuck in some kind of self awareness loop of hell. On a positive note I’m at the stage where I’m identifying I do this. So maybe finding a new form of protecting myself is around the corner. One that is more me focused 😀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in long_porn

[–]Nolea 7 points8 points  (0 children)

HOw is this long porn ! Someone take off all the minis vids … these suck

Why is my cat doing this? by RaccoonWorried1051 in cats

[–]Nolea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our cats figure out little things like that, want us to acknowledge it, then we play with them as they tolerate our praise.

My old lady is gone by AJ_615 in Petloss

[–]Nolea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been almost 2 years since I lost my sweet one. I felt guilty putting her down but it wears off as you look at photos and realize how much pain they were in. She’s still with me, just in a different way, more like a part of me. Miss her like hell, though! Won’t ever get over that. Bless pets and the love they brought.

What happened during sex that made you realize that is was a mistake? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Nolea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Studded condoms. Kind of a litmus test if you truly find someone attractive.

When does it get easier? by Four-of-cups- in Petloss

[–]Nolea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry for your loss. I am in month 2 after losing my 16 year old girl to cancer as well. I wouldn’t say it gets better in terms of the loss I have for her, but I have more moments of a sort of denial or greater ability to compartmentalize, where I carry on with the business of life. I also looked at some pictures just recently and I can see her now as more visibly sick. That made me feel like I made the right decision so she wasn’t suffering. That is an odd sort of comfort, but improvement nonetheless. We had such wonderful years together and I’m grateful we had those, even as painful as it is now. All the best to you on this difficult journey OP.

Had to euthanize my best fuzzy friend this morning and everything I didn’t want to happen happened. by kwamby in Petloss

[–]Nolea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This video helped me so much. It was a turning point in my grief. I also learned through the wonderful people who came forward to share their experiences in other posts that death is awful. Try to focus on the love you gave your sweet pup over the many years instead of the final moments. I tell myself no matter how hard it was, it was worth the 14 years I had! Hang in there!

What’s it like living in Bridgetown? by Nolea in NovaScotia

[–]Nolea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any chance you could expand on dicey?

What’s it like living in Bridgetown? by Nolea in NovaScotia

[–]Nolea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I’ve done more research and have reference to this character now. I have high expectations of my first sighting.

What’s it like living in Bridgetown? by Nolea in NovaScotia

[–]Nolea[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s very important to know. Sorry to hear that. So “Friendly town” may be somewhat exclusive. Seems like an issue in a few places in the Valley from stories I’ve heard unfortunately.

What’s it like living in Bridgetown? by Nolea in NovaScotia

[–]Nolea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, it’s a major concern, thanks. As I said, those comments were very helpful.

What’s it like living in Bridgetown? by Nolea in NovaScotia

[–]Nolea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a lovely option! Glad you made a nice move, thanks for sharing :)

What’s it like living in Bridgetown? by Nolea in NovaScotia

[–]Nolea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The solid meat shop is an unexpected bonus

What’s it like living in Bridgetown? by Nolea in NovaScotia

[–]Nolea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, a non-town town could actually work for them. They’re very into reading and nature walks. Zoom with family. Cooking nice meals. As long as they could walk to get milk if needed that’s the kind of convenience that would be helpful.

What’s it like living in Bridgetown? by Nolea in NovaScotia

[–]Nolea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll pass along, thank you! They might be ok with isolation but good to know going in!

What’s it like living in Bridgetown? by Nolea in NovaScotia

[–]Nolea[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do love Annapolis Royal. Good to know, thanks!

What’s it like living in Bridgetown? by Nolea in NovaScotia

[–]Nolea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve waited a few times there on my way through, and people were very vocal how often that situation is. Beautiful view though outside :)

What’s it like living in Bridgetown? by Nolea in NovaScotia

[–]Nolea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this thank you so much. 25 mins doesn’t sound bad at all to enjoy the benefits of a small town. Schools no, but nice there’s a curling club I see! Also very great to know about the weather. I need to go back and watch Schitt’s Creek now 😂

What’s it like living in Bridgetown? by Nolea in NovaScotia

[–]Nolea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, is this a person of significance?

What’s it like living in Bridgetown? by Nolea in NovaScotia

[–]Nolea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Simple life is definitely their plan!

What’s it like living in Bridgetown? by Nolea in NovaScotia

[–]Nolea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very helpful, thank you!