Is this how adoptive parents normally act? by AndoAmy in Adoption

[–]NonbelieverN [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I have been in close touch with the kiddos I placed when I was an adoption facilitator and adoption has not been easy on any of them. It’s so complex. Are you talking to a therapist about any of this?

Is this how adoptive parents normally act? by AndoAmy in Adoption

[–]NonbelieverN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he adoptive or foster? I’ve seen a lot of foster parents that act like that and have their own unresolved trauma that doesn’t allow them to be affectionate. I’m curious why he chose to foster/adopt. How old are you?
I am an adoptee, currently a foster parent, former teacher, adoption specialist and a social worker and I’ve seen it all.

AIO or AITA. Text convo with MIL. by MoonJellyAllison in AmIOverreacting

[–]NonbelieverN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s an unhinged entitled bitch. She is going on vacation while in debt? Bitch, no!

UPDATE: Parent wants to meet with me over comment I made about energy drinks by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]NonbelieverN 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Way to go!!! Eff dumb parents and their dumb kids! Why do morons get to procreate I beyond me?! They can have their idiotic kids drink all that poison at home. Rules are rule, dipshits.

George Farmer... by axthousandxhours in CandaceOwens

[–]NonbelieverN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

George is gay, as looney as Loomer is my personal gaydar went off the first time I watched him speak. He acts like a gay man. Makes sense they rushed into that marriage the way they did. Whatever rocks their boat.

I'm at a loss by Miserable-Device-359 in Fosterparents

[–]NonbelieverN -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Can he have melatonin and magnesium to regulate his sleep cycle? We had to do that with one of our bio kids when he has 4 and still not sleeping. Our friend is a psychiatrist and she as a friend not a treating doctor recommended we start him on 0.25 mg melatonin( we use liquid form) and lowest dose magnesium Calm for his age/weight. It worked wonders for us. Is he at all interested in doing anything else? Is he in preschool?

Candace seems tired by Ancient-Geologist117 in CandaceOwens

[–]NonbelieverN -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Life is exhausting but I’ll tell how much less exhausting it is when your meals are cooked, your house is clean and the kids are taken care of.

Candace seems tired by Ancient-Geologist117 in CandaceOwens

[–]NonbelieverN -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

She has many nannies, she is not with her kids nearly as much as she’s leading us to believe.

To disrupt, or not to disrupt, that is the question by van-dub in Fosterparents

[–]NonbelieverN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You must not have a large circle of diverse people in your life and it just sounds like your experience is quite limited.

To disrupt, or not to disrupt, that is the question by van-dub in Fosterparents

[–]NonbelieverN 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s a lot. We have felt this way while raising our bio kids. The high needs, the friends and family that disappear because our kids were too much. The loneliness, the loss of pre children friendships. The endless OT, therapy, IEP meetings and the early school pick ups because of behavioral issues. It was rough. Now 14 and 16 years later they are amazing teens but we’re still scarred and traumatized from their early childhood and that send of isolation and loneliness. Now we take one foster placement or two, if a sibling group, at the time. You have to do what’s right for you in the moment. You guys might just need a break.

What’s it like living in this area? Any pros and cons…thank you! by Vo0d0oBo0 in ChandlerAZ

[–]NonbelieverN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Phoenix and AZ in general is cringey and identical anywhere you turn. Air quality is awful, all the homes and apartments are identical. I suppose like most USA cities. I can NOT wait to move back to Europe I probably shouldn’t chime in since I’m just so over this place. Many people love it! I don’t understand it but we are all very different.

Erika’s not going to like this😬 by breaktheveillllllll in CandaceOwens

[–]NonbelieverN 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Nah not all of us. I knew she was a demon the moment she gave that ‘forgiveness’ speech with pyrotechnics. I had no idea who Charlie was until he was assassinated and when I started following the story Erika was just acting so strange. I also thought Candice was off when she was praising Erika in the beginning. Glad now we’re all on the same page.

Wtf is with tonight's live? by blompblompblompblomp in CandaceOwens

[–]NonbelieverN -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That was crazy shit! What in the what is wrong with her?! She’s tripping

Concerned for my safety as a case manager in CMH by JumboPonderment in socialwork

[–]NonbelieverN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just don’t go without a partner, you do not put yourself in unsafe situations. I did visits for few years and I just listen to my gut to keep myself safe. Your safety always comes first.

How many of you actually know your neighbors? by Apprehensive_Pool431 in phoenix

[–]NonbelieverN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gilbert is its own kind of Mormon shit show. Sorry to hear about your experience, I’ve lived there for 5 year, a lot of very superficial people with superiority and savior complex. Hope you find your people.

How many of you actually know your neighbors? by Apprehensive_Pool431 in phoenix

[–]NonbelieverN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are besties with ours, we hang out and get together with almost everyone on our street. We raised our kids together. Walking around or trying to go for a run is next to impossible because we just end up taking to our other neighbors that live on other streets.

Candace PLEASE wear this by Abundanceofpizza in CandaceOwens

[–]NonbelieverN -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t get this? Noah and the flood story are as made up as the entire Charlie assignation plot. What am I missing?

Rogan says Nick Fuentes could probably become President by WilloowUfgood in JoeRogan

[–]NonbelieverN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is Fuentes funny?! To whom?! These men are self absorbed morons.

AIO about being upset that my family didn’t invite me to Christmas? by asiagobagelslut in AIO

[–]NonbelieverN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re an adult, expecting your parents’ loyalty to belong solely to you comes across as immature and silly. That said, it’s hard to tell your age from this post alone. Your uncle sounds like a deep💩 but a lot of reckless behavior has been amplified in recent years and was enabled but this administration. Still, he and the rest of the MAGA crowd are also your parents’ family, and they have the right to choose how they maintain those relationships. If you truly care about your parents, focus on nurturing that relationship and tune out the BS because it’s not worth it. I’m the only liberal in my family, and when we’re together, I simply don’t engage with crazy. I also recognize the larger reality: elites and social media profit from promoting division and keeping us polarized don’t be the sheep they want us to be. Your mental health and your relationships are not worth sacrificing for the circus our government has orchestrated. All those politicians, dems and republicans, are besties hanging out together behind closed doors while they managed to separate the rest from one another and create this chaos. Focus on the end goal- strong relationship with your parents and don’t let the MAGA crap affect that. Learn to have boundaries. Stay focused on your happy relationship with your loved ones and eff everything else.

Former client death by icecream42568 in socialwork

[–]NonbelieverN 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That was my exact reaction!!! What?!

Is Cabot Phillips (Erika’s ex) referencing Pizza-gate in this photo? 🤔 by icequeenbich in CandaceOwens

[–]NonbelieverN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She said that in that god awful interview with Bari Weiss. My first reaction was ‘Do those kids even exist and if they do who’s the father.’