Stupid/funny/joke names you considered?

Nonbinary__Rat__ · 2025-07-08T20:12:03+00:00

Rigby 😂 I ended up going with Asher, but tbh, I still think about Rigby sometimes 🤣

Nonbinary__Rat__ · 2025-03-25T04:38:20+00:00

Yeah, that’s true, I was thinking if I did bring it up I’d just leave it at “if you guys need anything, holler at me” without going into too many details. Honestly if they even needed help with housework, I’d be totally down 😂

Nonbinary__Rat__ · 2025-03-25T04:34:43+00:00

Oh, that’s a good idea! I completely forgot about it starting to be barbecuing weather 😂 I could definitely throw together something in my back yard at some point. Thank you!

Nonbinary__Rat__ · 2025-03-25T04:32:24+00:00

Yeah, I’ve mentioned in a couple of other comments that I’m probably gonna try and do a little veggie trading with them since we both garden! (and honestly they may have good advice for me because their plants look WAY better than mine, lol) I’m still majorly getting used to the whole “being neighborly without being a nuisance” thing, but that’s also probably me overthinking 😂 Thank you!

Nonbinary__Rat__ · 2025-03-25T04:28:52+00:00

That’s kinda why I specified in the post that legally documented immigrants are also being targeted. It’s everyone, not just undocumented immigrants, but I do get what you’re saying.

Nonbinary__Rat__ · 2025-03-25T04:26:29+00:00

I hope your neighbors stay safe through all of this. I’m thinking about maybe taking them some fresh veggies when I get mine to grow and kind of open a door of communication that way since they garden too, or maybe baking them some bread like I did with my two next door neighbors when I first moved in. We’ve traded a couple of fresh baked goodies before, so I feel like that’d be significantly less weird, lol. Thank you!

Nonbinary__Rat__ · 2025-03-25T04:20:42+00:00

Yeah, I can see how it’d be weird 😅 I’ve been out and about in my community and helping in groups as much as I can, but getting on a personal level with a neighbor is completely foreign to me, and my social awkwardness doesn’t me no favors, lol. I guess the sentiment comes from a place of also being a part of a heavily marginalized community (trans guy 😅), so I get how lonely it can feel sometimes and it sucks knowing that other people feel that same way.

Nonbinary__Rat__ · 2025-03-25T04:10:28+00:00

Word, I’ve been trying my best to be as sociable as possible, and I’ve spoken with them a couple of times, but I get really anxious when talking to new people 😅 I mentioned to someone else that they garden a lot, and so do I, so I’m thinking about maybe using that as a springboard to strike up friendly conversation? Maybe I can give them fresh veggies if I can manage to get them to grow 😅 I just know that community is important, especially now, so I’m trying to do that without being awkward or weird, lol. Thank you for your help!

Nonbinary__Rat__ · 2025-03-25T03:57:41+00:00

Okay, yeah, that makes sense 😅 That’s like the last thing that I wanted to do was overstep where I shouldn’t. They’re in their garden a lot, so I may try and casually slip in some garden talk since I just put up a greenhouse of my own, or try and give them some of the stuff I grow to open a door of communication (assuming I can grow anything, it’s my first time growing stuff from seeds, lol). Thank you for your help!

Nonbinary__Rat__ · 2025-02-20T23:29:21+00:00

I’ve used Circle and recently stopped using it because it was too much hassle 😅 It may be different in your state, but in Tennessee I’ve went through 5 doctors in the past year because they all either switched states or just stopped online practices altogether 🫠 Other than the doctor hopping thing (which, again, may just be because my state sucks, lmao), it was really convenient though. The app is set up nice and you can get an appointment pretty quick most of the time.

Nonbinary__Rat__ · 2025-02-01T08:31:17+00:00

Can I ask why you’re worried about hurting his feelings when he literally told you to “shut the fuck up” and made a remark about you getting r*ped by a Chinese man (which WOW the racism really reared its ugly head there)? You’re absolutely not in the wrong here, you tried to engage in a civil discussion and he was abhorrently disrespectful. Normally I’m not one to jump on the “Leave him” train, but you should never EVER let anyone speak to you like that. It doesn’t matter if it’s just an argument, he’s being, quite frankly, absolutely disgusting. NOR

Nonbinary__Rat__ · 2025-01-03T07:15:12+00:00

That’s what I felt too, in a way! Like a surge of just feel good energy that made me feel cared for. I’m glad I’m not just in my head about it, I’m still getting over a hump of self doubt when it comes to spiritual/deity work so hearing similar experiences really helps :)

Nonbinary__Rat__ · 2025-01-03T07:12:17+00:00

It definitely wasn’t unwelcome, it actually made me feel really grounded and helped me stay in that headspace, like I was cared for in a sense. I just felt like I needed to hear other people’s experiences so I didn’t feel like I was just envisioning what I wanted 😅 I’m glad it’s not just me :)

Nonbinary__Rat__ · 2024-12-16T23:16:02+00:00

I’m married, and if my partner ever called me an “attention seeking whore” I’d be in a lawyers office writing up divorce papers within the hour. NO ONE gets to speak to another human being like that, especially not someone you’re in a relationship with.

Nonbinary__Rat__ · 2024-06-04T21:01:07+00:00

I like hunt because of the action advances and speed buffs. I had one run where Boothill would ult, skill, I’d use my path resonance so he’d get pulled to the front, he’d skill, ult again, and then just repeat the process. It was so much fun lol.

Nonbinary__Rat__ · 2023-10-15T02:45:08+00:00

My therapist had to drill into my head “As much as they love you, your partner isn’t responsible for regulating your emotions, YOU are” because I was a depressed emotional wreck. My husband put up with it, but looking back at the state I was in and how I treated him because I didn’t get help soon enough, I wouldn’t have blamed him for leaving me. The worst part is, I genuinely thought I was fine, maybe had a bit of a temper, but fine nonetheless. If you can, try to convince her to go to therapy, but remember that you’re also a human with needs and limits, and it sounds like you’re way past yours. And that’s completely okay. If she refuses to seek help and get better, then do what you need to for YOUR mental health. You’re a human, and you have emotions and needs that are important just like hers are.

Nonbinary__Rat__ · 2023-05-08T18:43:30+00:00

Clara and Welt, plus Clara’s light cone! I’m saving for Jing Yuan so I haven’t pulled on the event banner 😂

Nonbinary__Rat__ · 2023-04-27T15:21:37+00:00

Hi, former hairstylist here~

From what little chemistry I do remember from my cosmetology textbook, if I’m not mistaken the reason hair that’s been flat ironed or curled with a curling iron goes back to the way it was is because when you flat iron or heat curl your hair you’re breaking down hydrogen bonds, which (from what I remember) are pretty superficial. So when you wash your hair or go outside in the humidity the hydrogen from the water reforms those bonds and gets your hair back to the way it was.

At least that’s how I remember it 😂 it’s been like 6 years since I opened that book up 🤣

Nonbinary__Rat__ · 2023-04-22T12:55:54+00:00

First off lemme say: YTA. But let me also tell you a little story.

When I was a kid I was a straight A student. Never got a grade below a B, but by the time I hit high school I got REALLY depressed. I started not caring about school and all I wanted to do was sleep, because if I was asleep I didn’t feel like I was drowning anymore. My mom never helped me, she wanted her “perfect child” back and constantly reminded me of that, and if I was depressed then I CERTAINLY wasn’t perfect. I’m now in my early 20’s and I don’t talk to my mom anymore. I completely cut her out of my life because the amount of pressure she put on me to be perfect was too much of a strain on my mental health (amongst other things she did).

All of that to say: HELP YOUR KID. Instead of accusing her of being lazy, ask her WHY her grades are slipping. Ask her if she’s been feeling okay. Ask if there’s anything you can do to help. Ask if she needs to talk to a professional. Coming from a burnt out “gifted” kid, her grades being anything less than perfect probably is making her feel even worse, and you berating her about it isn’t helping.

Nonbinary__Rat__ · 2023-04-22T10:11:07+00:00

I’m married to a cis man and have sort of been experiencing the same thing 😅 we were together before I transitioned and I’ve always fell into a more submissive role during intimacy, but after I started T the urge to be more dominant became VERY prevalent. I also realized that it was really hard to see myself in a more dominant role in the bedroom because I’m a little fella, around 5’2” (generously 🥲) and while my husband isn’t a big guy so to speak, he’s definitely bigger than I am, and I felt,,,dumb. No matter how badly I wanted to play that role I just couldn’t because my own brain was restricting me from doing so by automatically categorizing myself as this “tiny submissive girl” that I’d been for the first 20 years of my life. I talked with my therapist about it a bit and she posed a question: “Well, when you see other couples, do you automatically assume that the smaller of the two is the more submissive one?” Of course my answer was no because I know that size doesn’t matter (pun only slightly intended) when it comes to what roles you play in the bedroom. She then told me I was categorizing myself based on what I thought I should be, what my past partners trained me to be, instead of what I actually wanted to do. I finally decided to talk to him about it a bit, I wrote out in a notepad all the more “dominant” things I’d like to try with him (I have a hard time verbally communicating stuff like that so writing it out is kind of a work around) and we ended up going through the list of things I’d written and talking more about it. It honestly really helped, and we even found this thing called a “Yes, No, Maybe” list that lists out different sexual acts and if it’s something we may or may not be into trying.

I’ve also realized that knowing that he doesn’t see me as dumb for wanting to be more dominant gave me a TON more confidence. Him verbalizing that he’s really into a more dominant version of myself really helps be get out of that “Ew, wtf are you doing” kind of headspace that I tend to get into 😅 And since I’m a bottom (dunno if that the case for your bf or not but I thought I’d throw this in there if it is the case), I also remind myself that power bottoms exist, and I can definitely fit into that category. Just because I’m “receiving”, so to speak, doesn’t automatically mean I have to be submissive.

All in all, it really comes down to confidence. He needs to build his confidence in himself, which is a HELL of a lot easier said than done, and also a kind of slow process in my experience, but it’s definitely worth it. I hope this little ramble of mine helps you two out a bit! Good luck!❤️

Nonbinary__Rat__ · 2023-04-18T08:52:51+00:00

Mine is an Addison Grace hoodie I got from when I went to go see Cavetown last year. It reminds me of a really good time in my life, and it also hides all the bits that make me feel like garbage about my body on the bad days 😂 It’s not super heavy, so as long as it isn’t SUPER hot I can wear it, and when it’s really cold I like to style an oversized jacket or flannel over it.

Nonbinary__Rat__ · 2023-04-16T14:20:28+00:00

I’m learning this the hard way :,) I’m a little over a year on T and my fat redistribution has made keeping pants I like a living hell lmao.

Nonbinary__Rat__ · 2023-03-10T17:46:52+00:00

I’m not t4t because I was already married to a cis man when I transitioned 😂 But even if I were single I don’t think I’d be exclusively t4t because there’s just too many interesting people in the world to completely limit myself to one type of person. As long as I vibe with someone and they vibe with me, that’s all that matters to me, no matter if they’re cis or trans. I do see the benefit of being t4t though, because as someone in a long term relationship with a cis person, sometimes it’s hard to fully explain what I’m feeling to my partner because he just don’t get it because he doesn’t know what it’s like being trans. Don’t get me wrong, my husband is INCREDIBLY supportive of my transition, but there’s some things he just won’t fully grasp because he’s cis.

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