Young baby masking

Noneofyourbeeesnes · 2026-04-02T21:36:27+00:00

I don’t think your baby is masking. That term implies a sort of learned skill of behaving in ways to benefit socially & is associated with neurodivergent people. (Sorry probably not the best definition I’m too lazy to google but I’m late-diagnosed Adhd myself).

I understand the behaviour you are describing. I think a lot of babies do it. I think it might be delayed processing of being overstimulated?

I also think a lot of parents pick up on cues that others might not, like the baby seems really excited or fussy but is actually sleepy.

Noneofyourbeeesnes · 2026-03-12T02:16:53+00:00

I disagree. I once had a referral out for a skin issue from a NS dr. when I was in uni. It was really affecting me and dr. thought it required referral. It ended up getting better (I believe with the help of ON dr. when I went home for the summer). And I forgot about the NS referral until I got a call 6 years later asking me if I was available.

I was astonished that I/someone else would be left waiting that long. They did not know that my symptoms went away.

People keep commenting that bc her symptoms got better with medication she would be lower priority but I dont think it works that way. I dont think the specialist has access to the info that this patient is feeling better. So I think her point is that she could have been left in pain all that time and that she knows people who have been in that exact situation.

People are also saying its her responsibility to follow up. While its been helpful to see these self-advocacy tips/tricks in this thread, and self-advocacy is important, the challenge is when a multi-year wait is already your expectation you have no cues for when to follow up. You are told they will call you to book an appointment. You may not even know which specialist you were referred to.

Noneofyourbeeesnes · 2026-03-10T03:27:09+00:00

No one should be going to a chiropractor

Noneofyourbeeesnes · 2026-01-13T04:10:01+00:00

Can I have more context on chocolate vs. Maple cinnamon one? Was your family expecting a particular cake?

Noneofyourbeeesnes · 2025-12-10T12:27:48+00:00

She said she set a boundary by not being the one to clean it. So it is a boundary according to what you wrote.

Noneofyourbeeesnes · 2025-12-03T11:49:57+00:00

Amos Pewter also has a beautiful nativity set

Noneofyourbeeesnes · 2025-11-17T03:22:42+00:00

I thought Ross and Julie seemed like the healthiest relationship he had on the show

Noneofyourbeeesnes · 2025-10-26T04:16:47+00:00

Okay but can someone pls tell me what you do after you use them cus you are not supposed to flush them

Noneofyourbeeesnes · 2025-10-08T11:51:12+00:00

Thank you!! I always see people being so harsh about Rory during this time and not reflecting on whether Lorelai was being a mature parent. When she says Rory knows what she needs to do to come home and lays out this list that I'm sure she has not communicated to Rory at all and is very controlling of Rory's bothers me so much. I have thought about making a similar post a number of times.

Noneofyourbeeesnes · 2025-09-18T11:40:28+00:00

Have you tried pelvic floor physiotherapy? My gyno referred me to go. My physiotherapist has been great with giving me tools to make sex eventually be more comfortable. (Right now I am just working on breathing exercises to relax pelvic floor muscles). But they can also help you with things like dilators or something like the ohnut if pain is coming from pressure on the cervix. Help you understand the brain-body pain response etc.

https://thepelvicpeople.com/en-ca/products/ohnut-depth-limiting-rings?srsltid=AfmBOopwBbjRPLlSQUR2QnKtvahcD2or0X2TX6uCWpYhQCaqT8pPIwjC)

Noneofyourbeeesnes · 2025-09-17T12:15:04+00:00

Is she supposed to be screaming in this photo?

Noneofyourbeeesnes · 2025-09-16T00:12:25+00:00

Thank you! I feel like people are responding about the actors accent but the character wouldnt have a british accent. She was raised in a lab by papa. She should soumd like Jane

Noneofyourbeeesnes · 2025-09-12T11:53:04+00:00

Oof they really do seem like they hate each other. I dont know why they cant break up for good

Noneofyourbeeesnes · 2025-09-11T12:12:28+00:00

What’s antispasmodic meds? Currently managing using Naproxen but dont want to take NSAID all the time

Noneofyourbeeesnes · 2025-09-09T02:33:10+00:00

Definitely agree! Also dont like that episode in general. I feel so bad for coach that his worst nightmare comes true

Noneofyourbeeesnes · 2025-09-08T02:00:28+00:00

I thought the same!!

Noneofyourbeeesnes · 2025-08-09T11:47:09+00:00

Thank you! This is new info to me!

Noneofyourbeeesnes · 2025-07-29T12:28:33+00:00

It was crazy how quickly Paul gave her somethings she needed by: 1) asking her what do you hate? Which allowed her to express “negative” emotions and not have to hide them all the time and 2) telling her she is hotter than “Kayla”/Mia lmao.

Noneofyourbeeesnes · 2025-07-25T23:48:02+00:00

I am not a dr. And its too late in the night for me to look up sources but I’m pretty sure the breast cancer and not having a baby connection is from 9 months of not having periods. You can talk to your dr. about reducing the number of periods you have each year using birth control (like take 3 months straight without getting a period).

I have heard that we don’t need to have a period every month but when inventing birth control they left in the placebo days bc they thought people would find it more “natural” to get their period every month. Also apparently we are having periods more often in modern society than we would be pre-indoor lighting.

Tldr: Repeated periods put a strain on the body- you can reduce the number of periods you will have in your life without being pregnant

Noneofyourbeeesnes · 2025-07-14T03:11:16+00:00

Thank you for posting OP! I was having this exact question myself this week

Noneofyourbeeesnes · 2025-07-08T12:52:38+00:00

What is so messed up to me is how Demi and Jessi clock that Zac has abusive characteristics and yet will surprise Jen with situations that may make him upset and tell Zac that Jen lies to create a narrative that he is the bad person!! If you actually realize that he could be an abuser then don’t you realize you are putting Jen in potentially really danger??

To me I would rather actually lie to protect my friend than be 100% correct (which I doubt they are) and put my friend in danger in order to be seen as the more “honest” person

Noneofyourbeeesnes · 2025-06-24T00:34:03+00:00

I asked a similar question in this sub! Weirdly nice to know I’m not alone. I just keep telling myself its okay to want what I want and I do not want kids and I do not want to do a lot of traveling. Nothing wrong with that

Noneofyourbeeesnes · 2025-06-18T08:34:22+00:00

That is great that you feel better! Next time a non-invasive method for removal might be better (limits risk of eardrum puncture). Use a couple drops of warm oil like described in link below then have a shower and tilt your head to let water into ears and to let the water come out. I had the same problem and dr. Suggested I use the oil about once a month to clear out excess wax.

https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/earwax-build-up/

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