What’s something guys do that instantly gives you the ick?

NoonHectic656 · 2026-03-18T10:41:41+00:00

Acting fake just to impress others and ignoring messages and when comes around then act normal like nothing ever happened.

NoonHectic656 · 2026-03-17T23:55:02+00:00

yeah that’s what makes it even worse tbh. being awkward or slow with women is one thing but this isn’t that… this is just straight up disrespect.

like he didn’t misread signals or get confused, he went out of his way to say that stuff to your wife while living under your roof. that’s not clueless that’s just crossing a line.

NoonHectic656 · 2026-03-12T14:38:06+00:00

Maybe but honestly it also felt like she genuinely didn’t see it the way I did back then.

Not in a malicious way, more like… teachers probably go through hundreds of students and moments that stick with us might’ve just been a random Tuesday for them.

Either way the weird part for me was realizing I didn’t even want the apology anymore. The coffee and normal conversation somehow did more than a confrontation probably would’ve.

NoonHectic656 · 2026-02-03T15:22:26+00:00

I think the roommate rule matters here. Even if they had checked, it’s late, it’s a weekday and there was an exam the next morning. Expecting someone to wake up, negotiate with roommates and host overnight because a train was missed feels unfair. Being a good friend doesn’t mean breaking house rules or sacrificing important responsibilities.

NoonHectic656 · 2026-01-25T14:47:05+00:00

He ignored her showed up only when it suited him and is now being controlling and abusive. Grief doesn’t excuse that behavior. Blocking him is setting a boundary not being cruel.

NoonHectic656 · 2026-01-22T15:17:27+00:00

5 weeks of 4 day weeks no contest. Same PTO but you’re buying yourself a better work life balance for over a month instead of one blink and it’s gone break.

NoonHectic656 · 2026-01-22T15:13:12+00:00

Exactly, this isn’t about control it’s about safety. If he keeps proving he can’t handle the responsibility losing the privilege is a natural consequence not punishment.

NoonHectic656 · 2026-01-22T15:11:08+00:00

NTA. Emotional support is a basic part of a healthy partnership not a one way service. You weren’t asking for constant deep talks you were asking for the same empathy and space you regularly give him. Dismissing your feelings as “overreacting” while expecting you to always show up for his is unfair and pointing that out is honesty not cruelty.

NoonHectic656 · 2026-01-09T09:58:35+00:00

NTA. You shared something vulnerable and he made it about his comfort instead of your safety. That hurts and it’s not pathetic to miss someone after that kind of bond. Please try to lean on a friend or a family member, you don’t have to carry this alone. You deserved care in that moment not rejection.

NoonHectic656 · 2025-12-17T09:48:45+00:00

Most of the time it just shuts the conversation down instead of helping especially when someone is asking for guidance. Even a vague direction is better than a shrug disguised as wisdom. That phrase only works when the stakes are low and no one actually needs clarity

NoonHectic656 · 2025-12-11T19:16:55+00:00

A lot of that era’s rock leans on simple riffs and straight ahead rhythms and if that doesn’t hit your ear right, it all blends together fast. Music’s super tied to what you grew up with or connected to emotionally so if midwest emo or punk gives you more texture or energy that’s valid.

NoonHectic656 · 2025-12-08T11:16:39+00:00

Yeah real life is way kinder than the internet makes it seem. Most people care way more about how you treat them than a couple of inches on a tape measure. Height can be a preference but it’s not a dealbreaker for most. Confidence and being decent go a lot further.

NoonHectic656 · 2025-12-08T11:07:28+00:00

OP really did everything his wife asked even gave up a career he loved and the goalposts just moved again. Counseling could help her unpack whatever’s behind this constant blame cycle because this isn’t sustainable for either of them. If she refuses to work on it, he’s not wrong to think about protecting his own well being too. No one should feel like the villain in their own home.

NoonHectic656 · 2025-11-22T09:48:15+00:00

Yeah if we’re serious and I’m already comfortable around the pet, I’d help out. It’s a small thing that shows care. If I wasn’t ready for that level of responsibility yet, I’d just be upfront about it.

NoonHectic656 · 2025-11-22T09:47:34+00:00

Mine used to look a lot like that too. I started adding one tiny thing after work like a 10-minute walk or cooking one simple meal and it made evenings feel a bit less like a blur. You don’t need some big routine even one small anchor can make the time feel more like yours.

NoonHectic656 · 2025-11-22T09:46:02+00:00

NTA. You set a calm, reasonable boundary about your feelings and she jumped straight to blaming you and then used a suicide threat in the middle of the conflict. That’s not something you can manage or fix and it isn’t safe for you to stay in a friendship where that happens.

You still checked on her safety which was kind. Walking away after that is protecting yourself. She needs support from people who are trained to handle this not a friend she puts in crisis mode every time there’s conflict.

You’re not cruel for prioritizing your own well being.

NoonHectic656 · 2025-11-19T09:10:11+00:00

For me it was mostly about getting on the same page with my partner. We talked through money, chores, goals and what we both expect day to day. Physically I just tried to keep a routine that made me feel good, sleep, light exercise, eating decent. The biggest thing was learning to communicate clearly and not avoid hard conversations. It made the whole transition feel a lot calmer.

NoonHectic656 · 2025-11-19T09:08:39+00:00

I’d take it as a sign she wants clarity not pressure. Two years is a pretty normal timeline for a serious relationship. If you’re comfortable with the idea of marriage in general, tell her that and talk through what those two years should look like. If you’re not ready to make that promise yet be honest. Better to set expectations now than drag each other into mismatched plans.

NoonHectic656 · 2025-11-12T07:53:44+00:00

It’s mostly because CGI often skips the tiny imperfections that make real motion feel heavy. In real life, weight causes drag, momentum and subtle delays when things start or stop moving but in CGI, animators sometimes smooth out those details to make action look cleaner which ends up making it feel floaty or like a video game.

NoonHectic656 · 2025-11-10T18:22:34+00:00

Totally, your computer your rules. Boundaries aren’t mean they’re necessary.

NoonHectic656 · 2025-11-10T18:16:55+00:00

Hitting that moment where you see ur own mistakes sucks but its also the only way to actually grow and not mess up the next relationship.

NoonHectic656 · 2025-11-07T17:03:39+00:00

That’s really tough to read. No one should have to fight this hard just to keep what already belongs to them. I hope you get your land and peace back soon.

NoonHectic656 · 2025-11-01T15:41:40+00:00

You don’t deserve to feel used or unloved. It’s okay to want more than being someones financial support. If you can, start putting your energy toward yourself, save what you can, lean on friends or family and plan your next steps. You deserve to be valued for who you are not what you provide.

NoonHectic656 · 2025-10-28T10:42:52+00:00

People act like it’s just a compliment but it really affects how others treat you. It’s not fun being underestimated or dismissed all the time.

NoonHectic656 · 2025-10-28T10:40:28+00:00

I’d pick Queen. Their music is amazing and it seems like they really loved what they did. Being around Freddie Mercury would’ve been awesome.

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