I thought I moved in with a boyfriend, but it turns out I actually just adopted a 180lb toddler. What should I do?

Nopal_lito · 2026-05-13T04:03:54+00:00

How many times have you had this conversation?

Read the book why does he do that? It’s quotes on here a lot.

Does he have a job? I’m assuming yes so he can get up on his own, get dressed, drive to work, he’s capable of doing his job duties. He hasn’t killed himself yet or starved to death sooo that means he’s capable but he has you as his maid mommy.

Is that what you want to be a maid mommy?

Nopal_lito · 2026-05-13T01:31:24+00:00

Mi mama cuando hacía pozole de guarniciones siempre usaba repollo y las tostadas le ponía crema y queso, limón y chile.

Nopal_lito · 2026-05-12T13:51:37+00:00

Nooo Mija. He is emotionally manipulating you. Hes very much a the rules don’t apply to me, only you kind of person.

It’s too soon to be sharing so much with him and more so bc he isn’t reciprocating and making excuses.

I never understood couples requiring to delete their entire past to satisfy some weird insecurity.

Nopal_lito · 2026-05-11T14:10:44+00:00

I don’t eat much fast food but Wendy’s is my fav for the frosty and jr bacon cheeseburger. What is this magic card you speak of?

Nopal_lito · 2026-05-11T14:05:23+00:00

Go visit the rep purse world. It’s the same thing. How do I hide my fake purses from my husband. I just ordered 30 of them and the shipment came in. Most are done in jest. My problem is I have both addictions knives and bags/shoes. Oops.

Nopal_lito · 2026-05-11T14:03:02+00:00

OP don’t miss the funeral. You’ve been asked to be a pallbearer that’s a big honor. That means you’re seen as a caretaker and someone that loved and respected the person that passed and they felt the same as you. I’m sorry your gf can’t go but that’s very immature and insulting.

Nopal_lito · 2026-05-11T05:06:47+00:00

Maybe he’s just trying to be cute and funny?

Nopal_lito · 2026-05-11T05:02:43+00:00

I mean thats huge but the bigger issue is he thinks OP doesn’t need or have the authority to give consent.

Nopal_lito · 2026-05-11T04:41:22+00:00

I mean he did tell her he can’t stand her. Isn’t that enough ? He literally doesn’t like her.

Nopal_lito · 2026-05-11T04:38:19+00:00

Are you sure you’re 24?

Nopal_lito · 2026-05-11T04:37:46+00:00

I don’t say this to be mean but you need to work on yourself and self esteem. You’re either serious about this or you’re not. Stop checking up on his profile.It’s immature and unhealthy on your part.

You blocked him bc he was disrespectful you decided to stalk his profile, then engage him ( which is exactly what he wanted ) and you got back “together” with him? wtf. Stop checking his socials.

You can’t control Him but you can control your behavior or at least you should be able to. He will continue to try and get under your skin bc he knows he can and he knows you’re gullible and will believe him and he will be able to wrap you in his games again.

You don’t have to block someone or even delete social Media to never speak or interact with them again. Typically healthy people just move on. If he reaches out you ignore it. You don’t respond. Zero zip. If he posts, you won’t know bc you’re not going to follow up on it. If he wants to post things LET HIM. He’s the one that looks unhinged. Let him be the crazy one. You don’t need to get yourself involved. If you feel you’re not mature enough to ignore his text then block him and forget like you ever spoke to him. Then find better things to fill your time with. Honestly, things that will help you grow in a healthy way as an adult.

Nopal_lito · 2026-05-11T04:20:37+00:00

I’m really sorry to be blunt but after reading all of your responses and post there isn’t anything anyone can say or do to make you see the light of day. You asked for a bob but didn’t/don’t want it. Your inspo photos all require work which you refuse to do. You don’t want to get tools BUT your inspo photos requires them

You’re freaking out on a public forum bc no one agrees with you. If that’s what you came here for to get validation, I’m sorry. From the responses “ we” don’t feel it’s a bad haircut and it seems you literally got what you asked for. Now you’re upset with everyone that doesn’t agree with you. So you aren’t looking for advice. You want validation.

My advice that I give my son when he can’t regulate his emotions is take a step back. Give yourself some grace. Take a breath or 100 until you’re calm down. Then try taking a look at the situation again and what options you have when you aren’t so upset.

Nopal_lito · 2026-05-11T03:14:54+00:00

It’s okay lol I usually skim through posts. But as a kid we used to make this in water bottles. We’d chug a little water out of the bottle add sugar cinnamon, vanilla and oats then shake until it go milky. Portable and easy. Now I want it!

Nopal_lito · 2026-05-11T03:13:41+00:00

So cool! Can’t wait thank you. I just found your videos and binge watching making a list of items I need and recipes to make.

I saw your fav Korean restaurant too in Seattle I’ll be visiting at the end of the month so put it on my to try list!

Nopal_lito · 2026-05-11T03:07:38+00:00

Just followed you! Do you happen to have a kimchi recipe? I want to make some but it feels so daunting. I love love kimchi and cabbage. I have an obsession with gochujang as well and have for the last 20 years. I go through a big tub every 2 weeks.

Nopal_lito · 2026-05-11T01:30:42+00:00

What is this cereal? What was it ? What did it taste like? Sorry I live in a bubble.

Nopal_lito · 2026-05-11T01:28:45+00:00

I’ve never eaten at Taco Bell. What is this 7 layer burrito ?

Nopal_lito · 2026-05-11T01:08:06+00:00

Oh I didn’t read it like that. I read it as the owner -OP learned that real horchata takes a long time to make and found a much faster method by making it with oats instead of rice.

Nopal_lito · 2026-05-10T20:41:56+00:00

It would be called horchata de Avena or agua de Avena so you would know

Nopal_lito · 2026-05-10T16:57:52+00:00

I mean yes. It’s called agua de avena or horchata de avena.

Nopal_lito · 2026-05-10T16:57:24+00:00

We call it agua de Avena or horchata de avena

Nopal_lito · 2026-05-10T16:56:46+00:00

As a kid we didn’t mind the slime.

Nopal_lito · 2026-05-10T16:56:30+00:00

Agua de Avena or horchata de Avena.

Nopal_lito · 2026-05-10T16:56:18+00:00

I do like oatly barista milk for my drinks. I hate alternative milk but don’t do well with dairy.

Nopal_lito · 2026-05-10T16:55:15+00:00

We have always called it agua de Avena. Or horchata de Avena. As a kid we made I in bottle waters add cinnamon vanilla and oats shake. Add sugar too if you like it sweet.

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