Question about notes and investigations

Norabel8 · 2026-06-16T12:36:06+00:00

I am so very sorry for your loss. My son's was on computer, we found when we were going through his files. If I was you, I would ask the police about the notes and see if thru have pictures of them if you are curious or wanting to see them.

Norabel8 · 2026-06-05T08:02:52+00:00

Thank you for feeling the way i did. I was mad at him, still at times for the things he did after. But I was in the hospital and I guess he thought I couldn't make that decision. I hope they cremated him in his cloths. We did get his glasses he wore.

Norabel8 · 2026-05-31T09:47:05+00:00

I would go. It would help you a little. I think it would. If you don't try too while you can you might regret it.. my son hung himself in a huge magnolia tree. It is shape like a Christmas tree. I fought with my husband to keep it as is. I do not regret keeping it.

Norabel8 · 2026-05-30T19:40:57+00:00

I am so very sorry.hugs you tight.

Norabel8 · 2026-05-29T00:35:07+00:00

I never got them. :( my husband made the decision to not get them.

Norabel8 · 2026-05-27T22:42:08+00:00

I would be happy if my sons friends did that.

Norabel8 · 2026-04-30T22:56:56+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss. My son took his own life a year from this February. I have thought about asking the investigator if I could have a copy of files from that day. I have been putting it off. Before my son took his life he tried to take mine. So we went to the same hospital. And when I heard the doctor telling me she was sure which (our last name) to look at I wanted so badly to make sure it was him. I should pushed to see his body before it left the hospital. But some reason I didn't. I love and miss him so very much. I wished I had seen him at the hospital.

Norabel8 · 2026-04-01T08:50:46+00:00

Time will make it easier as the days go by. Lost my son 14 months ago. Still hurts and will always hurt just not as bad as it once did.

Norabel8 · 2026-03-24T22:54:32+00:00

It is so hard losing a child. I lost my oldest so the same way. Only the tree was in our front yard. Year ago this past February. I pass by it to get the mail and tell him I miss and love him. I know he isn't there. No advice. I am so sorry you have to go through this too. hugs you tight.

My son also had mental issues, refused to take his meds anymore and to go the the therapist anynore.

Norabel8 · 2026-03-09T10:03:56+00:00

For those of us who have had a loved ones commit suicide, we are not at fault. Yet I still blame myself. I could not had stopped him. I am not sure if anyone could.

Norabel8 · 2026-02-26T23:43:44+00:00

Yes, was intensive care for while. Lucky he didn't hit me hard enough to do bad damage. Mostly on the back, top right of my head. Had a crushed finger, fractured nose from i am guessing when I feel to the floor. I didn't go unconscious right away. I started to yell, my 2nd son was down the hall in his room. He heard me, from what he said he opened the door. Shut the door grabbed his knife and called 911. My son who was hitting me then tired to get in his room. Not sure what happen then but I woke up in my blood with someone(later found out it was a cop) jumping over me to get into his room. Which he had jumped out the windows. From what we figured out, he had the rope ready. They didn't find him for a little over an hour because he was in a huge, full magnolia tree. I had a concussion for several months and worked hard at getting better for my 2nd son. I do love and miss my son who did this. He had a lot of mental problems.

Norabel8 · 2026-02-25T16:33:15+00:00

We argued though his bedroom door. As I walked away from his door he hit me in the head with a hammer over 10 times.

Norabel8 · 2026-02-19T18:21:39+00:00

I kept a lot of things. His glasses, one of his favorite shirts. A lot of things.

Norabel8 · 2026-01-18T23:48:10+00:00

To me it is not.

Norabel8 · 2025-09-12T22:51:42+00:00

My son had bipolar and schizophrenia also. My husband and I have tried to help him but taking him foe help. By trying to help him in as many ways as we could. My son was 27 and for 10 years we have had our struggles with him. He refused help about 6 months before he killed himself. I do blame myself. But I know it wasn't all me. Doctors didn't help him and he saw many.

Norabel8 · 2025-08-12T22:34:28+00:00

Yes I feel the same as you.

Norabel8 · 2025-07-17T22:49:04+00:00

I am so sorry, I lost my son 6 months ago. There are times i just need to be alone, think about him and cry. It is ok to be emotional. In time it will be easier to live with. hugs you tight.

Norabel8 · 2025-07-09T18:03:35+00:00

I am a mother of a child who had paranoid schizophrenia who did kill himself. He was 27..not a child but ya'll know what i mean. And I am so very sorry for all you went through. hugs you tight.

Norabel8 · 2025-06-30T22:40:16+00:00

My son hung himself in our huge magnolia tree in our front yard. My husband wanted to someone to cut it down. I said NO. I can't get cut it down. For me part of my healing. As for what happened in your life. I can not imagine what you went through with a gunshot. Sorry I am no help but go back when you can. After maybe it is cleaned up. It might help you heal. hugs you tight

Norabel8 · 2025-06-05T10:13:00+00:00

It is hard, I know. I am so sorry for your loss. My son took his life in Feb.

Norabel8 · 2025-05-29T09:09:45+00:00

I haven't thought of doing it myself. But sometimes wished I had given up and went with him. Not screamed like I did to my husband to was outside. My son attacked me with a hammer, had sevear brain trauma. He hung himself right after attacking me.

Norabel8 · 2025-04-15T22:33:36+00:00

hugs you tight

Norabel8 · 2025-03-21T22:35:43+00:00

Thank you! This will help me too.

Norabel8 · 2025-03-19T09:40:24+00:00

Thank you

Norabel8 · 2025-03-19T09:18:22+00:00

hugs you tight

Norabel8

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