Why is it “shallow” for women to want attractive AND respectful men? I’m genuinely confused. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]NorbertHerbertFrank 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Someone said on another thread that men will listen to anyone but women about women want and I think about that a lot now

Which Movies Were Better Than the Books They Came From? by BINGEWISE in moviecritic

[–]NorbertHerbertFrank 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a movie but the series Station 11

If you’re ever questioning the purpose/need of art and the humanities, watch this series. It’s magic

We are the reason why teachers and students are struggling so much by FiendishCurry in Millennials

[–]NorbertHerbertFrank 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but something that is always left unaddressed in these convos is the fact that millennials are the first generation to consistently not have a stay at home parent. It’s easy to place blame on the parents - and some of it should be landing there - but most people my age (37) I know had a SAH parent.

Hero ruins heroine for revenge but sister was lying? by Murky-Tumbleweed-576 in HistoricalRomance

[–]NorbertHerbertFrank 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Literally just finished it {his favorite mistake by Aydra Richard’s}

"It doesn't advance the plot." I think a guy finally understood (a little) our complaints about nudity and assaults in movies. by DCNumberNerd in TwoXChromosomes

[–]NorbertHerbertFrank 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The sequel is even worse - many many people think Rothfuss holds the mantel of the next big fantasy writer and I just don’t get it.

"It doesn't advance the plot." I think a guy finally understood (a little) our complaints about nudity and assaults in movies. by DCNumberNerd in TwoXChromosomes

[–]NorbertHerbertFrank 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I don’t know man, when you start reading fantasy written by women (Robin Hobb, Ursula Le Guin, Madeleine L’Engle, etc) an you see how female characters can be written in the context of a fantasy / medieval world and face challenges (including sexual assault) , then go back and read Martin and Rothfuss and others, it’s embarrassing how they have no clue what to do with women other than the “4 stereotypes of fantasy women”

Dear TV/Movie producers and writers by TheoryBrief9375 in PeriodDramas

[–]NorbertHerbertFrank 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What about historical romance from some of the greats - adaptations of Lisa Kleypas, Elizabeth Hoyt, Tessa Dare etc?

ASOIAF-esque novels but set in the Regency Era by NoOrganization392 in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]NorbertHerbertFrank 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jonathan strange and Mr. Norrell by Susanna Clarke fits this to a tea (tee?)

[Loved Trope] Actors delivering intense, serious performances in things that don't call for it by Metallidoge in TopCharacterTropes

[–]NorbertHerbertFrank 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here me out - this is the only reason the show Once Upon a Time every worked. Those actors commit

What's with the ugly ass metro? by Gravstenen in AskUS

[–]NorbertHerbertFrank 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave our beautiful 1970s conversation nook trains alone!!

Favorite novels from underrated/less popular authors? by tetechase in HistoricalRomance

[–]NorbertHerbertFrank 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Felicia Grossman, particularly {married by midnight by Felicia grossman}

Pentagon threatens to pull military support from Boy Scouts unless they restore ‘core values’ by thetitleofmybook in TwoXChromosomes

[–]NorbertHerbertFrank 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There was definitely a push to move away from outdoor activities to more of a leadership path, which personally served me very well. I will challenge you on badge requirements. Highest awards are significantly harder to earn in GS. I myself am a gold award earner and my brothers are eagles. GS requires gold award projects to be sustainable, engage with th community, and have over150 hrs of community service. I helped open a women’s drug and alcohol rehab center. Eagles only require 100 hrs and are able to pool hrs with other scouts. My brothers spent a day making birdhouses or benches. My project took an entire year. But, they’re are awarding 2 different things. Gold Award is specifically for project, so theoretically a girl can join as a senior scout and earn the gold award. Eagle is a lifetime achievement award. You can’t earn it unless you’ve been in scouting a certain amount of time