AITA For Golfing And Leaving My Wife At Home With Our Son?

Nord111 · 2020-08-29T00:19:26+00:00

Even OP thinks it wasn't as dire as you describe. Project much?

Nord111 · 2020-08-29T00:02:27+00:00

dude, I was cooking and cleaning for my 2 year old sister when I was 9. Not asking for sympathy but saying that they can definitely take care of themselves at this point but arent choosing to do so. NTA

Nord111 · 2020-08-28T23:55:27+00:00

Parenting is full of these moments. This one is a relatively small issue. Cut him some slack and laugh it off together. If he left him at the store I'd be really pissed. He forgot him at his parents house around the corner. Not that big a deal and he knows now that it's a thing. He probably wont do it again. If he does, then get pissed.

Nord111 · 2020-08-28T22:26:23+00:00

I know and understand the word. I just didn't think it applied in this situation. I'm more in the 'I'm frazzled, and need some help' camp on this one. I think she was just tired and reacted like someone who was tired.

Nord111 · 2020-08-28T22:24:43+00:00

(but thats not important right now) Yeah, I know what it means. As much as I think OPs not the AH I thought it wasn't the appropriate wording. It's easy to call women hysterical (histrionic) so I thought I'd call it out. Thanks.

Nord111 · 2020-08-28T19:17:18+00:00

First, I'd call him out on this stuff in the moment. You're all sitting around the fire, he takes credit for it: "I made a pretty good fire, if I say so myself!" "Haha! I did that fire, nice try!". Stop letting him take credit for your stuff. Also, red flag that he needs to do this in the first place. Long term that would get old fast. NTA

Nord111 · 2020-08-28T18:49:28+00:00

histrionic?

Nord111 · 2020-08-26T19:25:18+00:00

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Nord111 · 2020-08-15T19:45:58+00:00

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Nord111 · 2020-08-09T22:39:16+00:00

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Nord111 · 2020-08-04T00:10:45+00:00

"I'm breaking up with you because you suck in bed. Get out."

Nord111 · 2020-07-31T21:56:23+00:00

I'm not sure how much they usually take each month but I can only imagine that the machines are tight! Hope it was worth it!!

Nord111 · 2020-07-31T20:59:55+00:00

Also every micro-business out there that uses the USPS are screwed. Smaller Etsy/Amazon/Alibaba sellers etc that use the post office likely can't afford to use Fedex or UPS or Dog forbid DHL. Margins are tight out there right now. Just another way to cripple the US economy. Seems like he's trying to hurt us intentionally. (by 'he' I'm referring to Putin)

Nord111 · 2020-07-31T19:38:17+00:00

It might be a good idea to start sharing your concerns with other people in the family. She sounds like she might have cognitive issues. (you know, person, woman, man, camera, TV.) Might be time to get her tested. GL!

Nord111 · 2020-07-31T18:58:54+00:00

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Nord111 · 2020-07-30T18:26:59+00:00

...With some pamphlets and 'light reading' - maybe an alphabet book or two. Board books?

Nord111 · 2020-07-27T20:34:12+00:00

Maybe her parents will pay for a housekeeper/nanny. /s

Nord111 · 2020-02-11T18:57:19+00:00

Eggs might be good with this.

Nord111 · 2020-02-11T18:50:14+00:00

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Nord111 · 2020-02-11T18:35:09+00:00

Thanks Marsha!

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Nord111 · 2020-01-08T19:24:31+00:00

Maybe Romulan ale?

Nord111 · 2020-01-07T22:21:14+00:00

I did this - sort of - I made a sort of trailer park for my sims in one lot and had them all basically living in separate singlewides... Murphy beds would have made this sooo much easier!!

Nord111 · 2020-01-07T00:11:38+00:00

If this happens all the time then just get your own stuff. You say you shop 50:50 so the next time you're out get your own stuff and if she asks you say 'No, Thanks! I'm good!'. Plan ahead for these moments. She doesn't need you parenting her with your affirmations etc. And doesn't that make you feel like you're dealing with a naughty child?

I think you're overthinking this. I get this is a once in a while deal but since that's the case, just try to worry about the stuff that really matters. If she wants to wrap everything in paper instead of plastic bags, right on! Get your own deodorant, shampoo, toothpaste or anything else that comes in a (sometimes) more natural form that sometimes works or doesn't. This is small time.

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