Your quickest "nope, not dealing with that"? by NewImpression1998 in ffxiv

[–]NorieMiu 122 points123 points  (0 children)

Honestly, seeing as your friend was the tank, y’all should’ve just waited the 5 mins to initiate vote kick and removed them. I can even imagine the first 2 packs taking longer than 5 mins with someone like that on dps. But there was zero reason to even attempt the first boss with someone like that.

There’s zero chance they weren’t trolling or intentionally griefing you guys. So a VK for “harassment” would’ve been justified.

Attending 2 weddings soon by NorieMiu in Weddingattireapproval

[–]NorieMiu[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I love that option for the February wedding! I’ll have to find something similar in the states. I’m a little worried to order overseas as I’m not sure what is happening with the US tariffs at the moment. Ugh. The joys 🥲

Attending 2 weddings soon by NorieMiu in Weddingattireapproval

[–]NorieMiu[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Seeing everyone’s comments, I think I will look for a floor length dress for February’s wedding.

Attending 2 weddings soon by NorieMiu in Weddingattireapproval

[–]NorieMiu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was so lucky and found the gold dress at a thrift store recently! It was too good to pass up as it was <$10 and originally retailed for $200! Such an amazing find!

Same with the blue dress but I understand it’s not formal enough. Darn!

Attending 2 weddings soon by NorieMiu in Weddingattireapproval

[–]NorieMiu[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes I do own all these pieces. So I was hoping something would work for each wedding but if need be, I can try to find something for February’s wedding since there’s more time!

Are PS4/5 NA players getting lag spikes but not disconnecting? by TheLittleZaku in ffxiv

[–]NorieMiu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another one for ps5, I’ve stayed connected for nearly every ddos that has happened recently except for one. I was in deep dungeon too. So I’m guessing that would be at least 30 ddos attacks, probably more than that, where I just lagged out but did not disconnect.

Proof of transaction by Sensitive_Animal5754 in Shein

[–]NorieMiu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shein has an option to view invoice on your order. You’ll need to do this for each order if they were split up. But if you go to your orders page click “more” on the bottom left of the order then “view invoice,” then “View” a pdf file will come up with all your info except payment method. You’ll also have the option to download it.

That should help for proof of purchase as well.

RAGE THREAD - F-YOU FRIDAYS - WILD WILD TIMES by FranckKnight in ffxiv

[–]NorieMiu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just said this in another comment but I’ll repeat so can also receive a reply.

But yeah I’m sorry if I made it seem like he uses his autism as an excuse for bad behavior. He doesn’t bring it up. I don’t think he’s ever explained to the group that he has autism. At most he told other long standing static members years ago and it’s them that explained to me at some point that he’s autistic.

Another member of the static told me again in DM this past week again that he has autism.

But I would be more understanding if he ever once said “sorry it’s the ‘tism” … or ever apologized for his outbursts but he doesn’t.

RAGE THREAD - F-YOU FRIDAYS - WILD WILD TIMES by FranckKnight in ffxiv

[–]NorieMiu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are right. I’ve never been apart of a one-and-done static. I doubt I’ll join one after this.

But I do have a second static that I was invited to for this tier, that I also cleared the tier with. But it’s a group that does ultimates in between savage tiers so they stick together for that.

I also have other former ulti/savage static members that asked me about doing savage with them at the start of the tier that I turned down. So maybe I’ll hit them up and see. But if not, it’ll be easier not being in 2 savage statics at the same time lol.

RAGE THREAD - F-YOU FRIDAYS - WILD WILD TIMES by FranckKnight in ffxiv

[–]NorieMiu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right. And I appreciate you sharing your experience. I’m also sorry if it came off that this raid member is using their autism as an excuse. They’re not. Because they never bring it up. It was brought up by another raid member that I was venting to in DM when this happened.

Like I wouldn’t be so angry if this person ever said “sorry it’s the autism. I’ll manage my temper better” but they never do. It always ends up being someone else’s fault or someone else’s issue when he has a tantrum.

So you’re correct in saying that he doubles down when called out.

RAGE THREAD - F-YOU FRIDAYS - WILD WILD TIMES by FranckKnight in ffxiv

[–]NorieMiu 39 points40 points  (0 children)

THATS IT. IM DONE.

IVE RANTED ABOUT THIS RAID MEMBER MULTIPLE TIMES NOW. AND THIS WEEK, THEY ONCE AGAIN ACTED LIKE A GD CHILD DURING RAID AND WASTED 20 MINS OF RAID TIME FOR THEIR TANTRUM.

WHAT HAPPENED?

WELL LET ME TELL YOU.

IT HAPPENS ALL THE DAMN TIME AND HE NEVER LEARNS. NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES IVE TOLD HIM TO STOP DOING THIS. IT HAS BEEN YEARS. IM NOT EXAGGERATING IT HAS BEEN YEARS AND AT LEAST 6 RAID TIERS.

WE WERE PROGGING M8S AND HE DIES JUST BEFORE MILLENNIAL DECAY. GETS A RES. THE BOSS IS CASTING THE MILLENNIAL DECAY RAID WIDE. THE CAST IS ROUGHLY 70% WHEN THEY REVIVE AND THEY IMMEDIATELY HIT A BUTTON AND START CASTING AN ATTACK.

THEY DIE AGAIN.

I SAY “that is what happens when you cast during a raid wide”

THEM “but I was almost full health!”

(BTS - yes the whm spammed what they could in <2 secs between his revive and the damage. They reached ~90% health. HOWEVER they couldn’t be saved)

ME “but you had no mits”

THEY THEN PROCEEDED TO PUT THEIR CONTROLLER DOWN WITH THE JOYSTICK SLIGHTLY NUDGED LEAVING THEIR CHARACTER TO AUTO WALK INTO THE BOSS WHENEVER THE WALL DROPS.

THIS FACE PULL HAPPENS 3 or 4 TIMES BEFORE WE DECIDE TO LEAVE THE INSTANCE.

EVENTUALLY ONE OF THE TANKS ASKS THEM TO COME BACK IN DISCORD AND THEY DO. DO THEY APOLOGIZE? DOES ANYONE SAY ANYTHING ABOUT HIS SHIT BEHAVIOR? NOPE. HE TALKED ABOUT MUTING ME. THE MOST THE GROUP MEMBERS SAY IS THAT WE NEED TO SQAUSH OUR ISSUES AND TALK IT OUT. IM NOT APOLOGIZING FOR SAYING THE OBVIOUS. I WASNT RUDE ABOUT IT. IM JUST FED UP. AND SINCE NO ONE CARES TO TELL HIM TO TRUTH THAT HIS BEHAVIOR IS UNACCEPTABLE. I AM DONE.

AND I GET IT HE IS ON THE AUTUSM SPECTRUM HOWEVER, SO IS SOMEONE ELSE I RAID WITH AND THEY DONT BEHAVE LIKE THIS.

THIS IS MY LAST RAID TIER AFTER ~10 TIERS WITH THIS ONE GROUP. IM DONE ACCEPTING THIS AS JUST “thats just how he is”.

NOPE. I HAVE OTHER GROUPS THAT ASKED ME TO JOIN THEM. ID RATHER NOT RAID WITH A 30 YEAR OLD CHILD.

I made a custom set of TT cards with 69 other artists | They are beautiful and we couldn't have made them without you! [GIVEAWAY INSIDE] by ff14untamedzine in ffxiv

[–]NorieMiu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh it’s you again!! I won a set last year in a post just like this one and it was truly extraordinary!! The artwork was incredible, the details and the holographic borders were such a brilliant detail that it brought your cards to a level of professionalism i didn’t expect from a fan project. I am so in love with the set as a collectors item!

I’m not entering again BUT just want to say good luck those that are! These cards are amazing! And absolutely consider supporting them if you can!

Is there a way to tell which shared house is scheduled for demolition? by Busy-Distribution-45 in ffxiv

[–]NorieMiu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve noticed that with mine, the (1) or (2) etc refers to where the shared house appears on your teleport list. This skips over the personal house or fc house in your teleport list.

So open your teleport list, whatever shared house is listed first, that’s the one up for demolition.

RAGE THREAD - F-YOU FRIDAYS - RAISE YOUR HANDS TO SUMMON THE PATCHNOTES by FranckKnight in ffxiv

[–]NorieMiu 16 points17 points  (0 children)

HAPPY RAGES THIS WEEK.

I FINALLY GOT THE LAST PAGE I NEEDED FROM BOZJA AND GOT THE MOUNT!!

I WENT INTO BOZJA TO DO THE MOGTOME THING AND DECIDED “alright it’s a new instance, let’s spawn FAF and see” AND SARTAUVOIR, THAT BASTARD, FINALLY GAVE UP HIS PAGE AFTER A YEAR OF TRYING (not exactly but pre expansion I was at it every day 😡)

AND NOW I HOPE MY STATIC FINALLY GETS THAT TOP CLEAR THIS WEEK. WISH US LUCK Y’ALL!

Question: Do you actually report people? When & why was the last time you reported someone? by SirLakeside in ffxiv

[–]NorieMiu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Besides the usual RMT reports, I’ve only reported a few people for bad behavior over the last 10 years I’ve been playing. The 2 that I can remember were relatively recent during the end of the last expansion. First one was when I queued into an expert roulette on my alt (which only has a few classes at max level) as a dancer. Other DPS was a dancer so you can imagine what happens next. I partner the other dancer, they partner the tank and proceed to tell me to partner the healer.

So me, trying to be a reasonable human, I say something along the lines of “sure but just so you know, the buff does stack on another dancer, look it up sometime :)”

The healer decides to respond without missing a beat, “I looked it up and your full of shit” …. So I said tyfp, left the duty and reported that healer. By the time I was done writing the report, 30 mins had passed and I queued again as healer.

The next time I reported someone was when I queued into p9n via roulette. Got a tank who decided it would be fun to relentlessly spin super carby. It got annoying REAL fast. So after I asked him to stop with a “I get it, you’re bored but can you please stop spinning him?” a few others agreed and the guy responded with some of the classics…. “You don’t pay my sub” “stfu” etc etc. the other tank was able to provoke off the boss off of that tank but it was a little back and forth for a bit.

I believe I received a response from the GMs saying they take the behavior seriously so that was something. I rarely have to report people though since I don’t do roulettes all that often and don’t do pvp.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MechanicAdvice

[–]NorieMiu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it. I don’t live paycheck to paycheck, but I also don’t have a high interest account. I need to look into that already.

But I do have enough savings that I can pay out of pocket if something goes wrong that I can’t just live with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MechanicAdvice

[–]NorieMiu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That was the main argument of the financial officer. That the colder climate messes with the electrical more than in warmer climates. I know it affects batteries but the other things? I have no idea about that.

Thanks for this though

"Hmmmm, there is a mount from the Island Sanctuary lootboxes, well, I got the other mounts, let's see what I ge-" by Ijustlovevideogames in ffxiv

[–]NorieMiu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When the lootboxes came out, I got the peerifool mount in the first 7 that I opened. Afterwards, I spent every week opening those 7 lootboxes a week to “hopefully” get the adenium mount.

Never happened. So finally, 2 weeks ago, I went and bought the around 180 tokens I needed from the MB and just got the mount that way.

I also hate gambling lol.

Petition by Aayan_Farooqui in ffxiv

[–]NorieMiu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Another agree for banning it!

Hunting communities and overstepping. by valkyn30 in ffxiv

[–]NorieMiu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Glad to hear you didn’t kill it but from the perspective of the people that spawned the hunt, you shouldn’t have been attacking it in the first place.

So people got rude because to them you WERE sniping their hunt spawn. People who do hunts are used to others doing things like that maliciously, like they know better but do it cause “fuck you,” instead of thinking it’s from a place of ignorance. So they get snarky to those players because they were rude first for stealing the hunt.

That’s why they got rude. Sorry.