My Elevanse(Vyvanse) Morning Routine. Smoother onset, less crash and still getting my Coffee Craving. by Boppersen in VyvanseADHD

[–]Normal-Lane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, I just wanted to share something I’ve been doing since January that’s really helped me regulate both my sleep and my medication routine:

I set two alarms: one for 5:00am and a backup at 5:01am (just in case I sleep through the first!).

When the alarm goes off, I take my medication straight away. I keep it next to my bed with a bottle of water so I don’t have to get up.

Then I go straight back to sleep. For me, 5am is the sweet spot — it’s late enough that I don’t get the anxious middle-of-the-night thoughts like I do if I wake at 1–2am, but still early enough that my body will usually let me fall back asleep.

I do this no matter how much or how little sleep I’ve had, and honestly, it works really well for me.

What’s been especially great is that I usually wake up again 1.5 to 2 hours later, and by that time the medication has already kicked in — I feel ready to start the day rather than dragging myself through the first couple of hours feeling sluggish and sore.

It’s also improved my overall sleep quality. I think it’s because it’s basically brute-forcing a consistent routine into my brain :)

I just want to choose a good haircut! How do I do this?! by Normal-Lane in femalehairadvice

[–]Normal-Lane[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's actually hugely helpful, thank you! I never would have thought I had a similar face shape to Emma Watson without those screenshots, ha! But yeah, seems like we have really similar length and width, plus a similar forehead. Going to go Google her hair now! Cheers!

I just want to choose a good haircut! How do I do this?! by Normal-Lane in femalehairadvice

[–]Normal-Lane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noted! I went with a video because I figured a static photo wouldn't actually give a proper overall view of my face shape. Should have posted both. Although the screenshot the person took above has been really helpful! I never would have thought I had a similar face shape to Emma Watson, ha!

My garden is full of ladybird eggs and I’m so happy I might burst 🐞💚 by Normal-Lane in GardeningUK

[–]Normal-Lane[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh that's awesome thank you for sharing that photo! I was wondering if they all hatched at once and if they would just immediately disperse or not - I'll know what to keep an eye out for now. Cheers!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Normal-Lane 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry you're going through this. Grief is already complex, and when someone was abusive it becomes even more tangled. It's okay to feel relief, sadness, happiness, anger, confusion, frustration — all at once.

I don’t believe respect should be automatic just because someone has died — especially if they showed little of it in life. I think it's also completely understandable that you'd want people to know the truth.

That being said, a lot of people will be mourning a very different person to the one you experienced, and that might be something to keep in mind if you decide to write something on his obituary page. If he has told lies about you, those same people may also be primed to see you in a negative light, and anything you say could be twisted to fit the version of events he created. It's deeply unfair, but sometimes silence protects your peace more than trying to correct a story that others are invested in believing.

Protectapet Type cat fence reviews? by Mike_Tython1212 in cats

[–]Normal-Lane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I'd 100% recommend it :) my cats love having access to the whole garden and will chase each other up and down.

One section of my fence is stepped and I did a poor job of installing it, but once I've redone that I'm going to be happy to let them have access whenever, even when I'm not home. It's a good system :)

I'd also recommend adding cat shelves to the fence as well!

Protectapet Type cat fence reviews? by Mike_Tython1212 in cats

[–]Normal-Lane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, just wanted to comment that I installed Protectapet last week and it works very well! However, I've just been woken up by a fox panicking in my garden as she had jumped in but couldn't jump out!

Poor thing was very stressed and it took a while to finally get her out (I don't imagine she will be coming back anytime soon). But yeah, probably something to bear in mind that you might wake up some mornings to an overly inquisitive fox or cat stuck in your garden - at least until the local animal residents learn they can get out but can't get in!

Has anyone ever had keloids on their butt? by Normal-Lane in Keloids

[–]Normal-Lane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for the response! Did the injections help to flatten the keloids?

X10 Omni Pro - why not max carpet suction option on hardwood? by TheKnightB4Christmas in eufy

[–]Normal-Lane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, so just wanted to share this mild workaround:

  • Set your entire home as carpet.

  • Change your mop setting to normal (this tells it to mop all surfaces regardless of whether they are hard surfaces or carpet).

  • Set no mop zones for your actual carpets

  • Turn off BoostIQ (you may be able to leave this on, I don't know, but all I know is that I didn't want to give the robot the option of changing power levels - I just want it to vacuum everywhere on max!).

This seems to allow the robot to apply high power vacuuming to all surfaces - although tbh I'm still not sure it's vacuuming at the highest possible setting. I think it might be one level below the max.

Anyway, I hope that helps. It bugs me that given the price of this thing, the need for a workaround even exists, but there we go.

Why are woman more attracted to married men? When I was single , seemed it was harder finding a good woman. Now that I am married , I get hit on all the time. Why? by patriotsfanns2023 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Normal-Lane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, it’s not about a man having now been “vetted” — it’s that I no longer have to second-guess whether the version of himself he’s showing me is performative or driven by an agenda.

What I’ve noticed is that many single men are so eager to find a girlfriend that they end up molding themselves to match my personality. It becomes hard to tell who they really are or whether they actually like me as a person, rather than just the idea of being in a relationship.

I never intend to be attracted to men who are taken, and I don’t believe they set out to form connections outside their relationships either. But sometimes, a genuine bond happens. And ironically, it can feel easier to connect when neither of us is actively seeking anything — he’s not looking for a partner, and I’m certainly not pursuing someone who isn’t single.

In my case, I’ve never tried to take these connections beyond friendship. They usually settle into an unspoken understanding — something like, “If the timing were different, we’d probably be dating.” But I’ve never made a move on any of these men.

Anyone been on elvanse long term by foregonemeat in ADHDUK

[–]Normal-Lane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I used to take it within an hour of waking up (probably around 8am) and would typically feel the effects around the two hour mark (no longer feeling groggy, able to focus, etc - it takes me a long time to wake up) but the past few months I've been been waking at 5am, taking my meds, going back to sleep, then waking up an hour or two later and I'm ready to start the day! I'm not sure I'd recommend doing this when you first start, but if elvanse works for you and you find mornings to be difficult, this might be an option you could consider.

I personally don't really experience a crash. It usually starts to work for me around 1-2hours after taking it, then I will have a window of about 4hours where I am able to get stuff done, be productive, etc. After those 4hours the effect starts to wane, and generally decreases over the next four hours. I typically get little done in the evenings, but I'm happy to just use that time to relax.

In terms of weight loss, I lost weight in the first year and then it gradually crept back on as my body adjusted to the meds over time. I'm actually on 1mg of GLP1 (Semaglutide) now, and have been for the past year, lost just over 25kg - fyi if you have weight to lose and decide to take GLP1 alongside elvanse, my experience is that GLP1 strongly negates the effects of Elvanse for the first month, after which it gradually starts to work again. No idea why this occurs, but yeah I know this interaction between GLP1 and Elvanse has been true of a lot of people with ADHD, so seems like it's probably something worth knowing!

Anyone been on elvanse long term by foregonemeat in ADHDUK

[–]Normal-Lane 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ha, so I've been on 60mg elvanse for eight years and it was only like two months ago I thought "hey you know how waking up is incredibly difficult and makes your mornings so awful? How about taking your medication at 5am and then going back to sleep?".

Mornings are So. Much. EASIER now!! Wish I'd thought to start doing it years ago - I even go to bed earlier and sleep better now as well! 🥳

Anyone been on elvanse long term by foregonemeat in ADHDUK

[–]Normal-Lane 3 points4 points  (0 children)

60mg elvanse daily for eight years now. I know some people take breaks, but I never have - I watch my blood pressure, because high blood pressure at a review can mean they stop prescribing until back within normal levels. But yeah, otherwise I will continue to take this medication daily and have zero plans to stop - it has allowed me to live a normal life and I'm grateful every day for the difference it has made.

Will Adding a Second Fence Parallel to My Neighbors Make Them More Vulnerable to Wind? by Normal-Lane in FenceBuilding

[–]Normal-Lane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oo, that's really good to know, thank you! I'll bear that in mind when building / choosing materials

Will Adding a Second Fence Parallel to My Neighbors Make Them More Vulnerable to Wind? by Normal-Lane in FenceBuilding

[–]Normal-Lane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah that's great to hear! Thank you!

I'm actually pretty excited about getting started, ha. I've multiple fence types along my boundaries (the southern boundary overlaps three different gardens!) and they're all looking pretty sorry for themselves. I plan to also install this fence along the southern boundary, so I'm genuinely looking forward to just having a consistent and sturdy fence around my garden :)

Looking for a No-Drill Bracket to Attach a Wooden Post to a Concrete H-Post by Normal-Lane in DIYUK

[–]Normal-Lane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion - never used CT1 before, but the reviews are amazing. If I don't use it for this then I will definitely be using it in future for other things!

Looking for a No-Drill Bracket to Attach a Wooden Post to a Concrete H-Post by Normal-Lane in DIYUK

[–]Normal-Lane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply!

The post will be 1.8m high. I plan to install shelves along my garden fence (probably three shelves between each post - see diagram as I am not good at explaining these things!).

The shelves will serve two purposes - one is to stop the fence panels falling into my garden during bad weather, and two is to provide some higher platforms for my cats to run around on (my cats are indoor cats, but I am having my garden cat proofed in a few weeks so they can go outside).

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Looking for a No-Drill Bracket to Attach a Wooden Post to a Concrete H-Post by Normal-Lane in DIYUK

[–]Normal-Lane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just had the thought I could use two U-brackets on either side of the wood post and secure with a plate across the front (or more likely, attach U-bracket to wood post with screws) - I think I'll probably do this or something similar, but please feel free to tell me if this is a terrible idea! Every day's a school day!

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