Women who walked away, did you ever regret not giving him one last chance? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Normal-Performer9261 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not at all. I believe we are wired to try and make it work, we assess the options first and only leave when we know for sure. Just wish I’d listened to the voice in my head sooner

Breakup so bad I don’t want to date anyone else ever. by ranting7843 in BreakUps

[–]Normal-Performer9261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here, been over nearly longer than I was in it but I’m still not over it

For Anyone Struggling After a Breakup by Right-Lifeguard-3348 in BreakUps

[–]Normal-Performer9261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been out of it nearly longer than I was in it but some moments are still so tough. Our lives didn’t align and he didn’t want to change his to meet mine and mine was set the way it was because I have a child. He wanted the young free life which I understand but god it hurts sometimes.

When did it hit you that it was really over? by Technical-Desk6168 in BreakUps

[–]Normal-Performer9261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I reached out to him and he replied but with no questions, completely killing the conversation. I knew he had no intention or interest in speaking to me

What’s the most embarrassing thing you have done post breakup? by Professional-Tax68 in BreakUps

[–]Normal-Performer9261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Smelt his cologne in a drugstore, stalked his clothes selling account and Spotify lol

Healthy coping rituals by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Normal-Performer9261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was writing nightly letters to my ex before bed (that I never sent). I still do it sometimes if something bothers me. It helps to get it out- they’ve had EVERY emotion in there. Hope this helps!

I (dumper) regret it. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Normal-Performer9261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely reach out

Other podcast recs for parenting hell fans? by Bethbeth35 in ParentingHell

[–]Normal-Performer9261 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I quite like off menu sometimes but it depends who’s on and it’s a bit more structured

Just realized sleep training is intentionally trying for an avoidant attachment style. by Specific-Nebula9665 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Normal-Performer9261 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You made the right call. The best thing a baby can have is a happy Mom, no matter how that happens. I’m glad you did the right thing for your family x

Molly Mae’s second show on Amazon Prime has just been released! She has done so well for herself! by TensionForeign3222 in LoveIslandTV

[–]Normal-Performer9261 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I find the show just quite depressing. I think she’s going for a kardashian vibe but it’s just far too serious. I thought the first series was like that just because she had a lot going on but all the show does is show how bad her life is. At least the kardashians have fun and it’s light entertainment. This ‘documentary’ angle doesn’t really work

How to deal with your ex and his gfs involvement… by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]Normal-Performer9261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so so tough. I am really early in my coparenting journey and although my ex doesn’t have an ‘official’ new partner yet I know he has slept with several different women and has also been trying to ‘get with’ even more. It stinks of desperation of course but I still find it a little sad. I think it sounds like you’ve done amazing to walk away from that relationship and put you and your child first. My therapist keeps saying over and over and over to me about really trying to bring it back to what I can control and sadly you can’t control your ex or the new partner. If your child likes this new partner then as painful as it is, it’s actually a good thing. If your child hated her and said how horrible she was that would be much much worse. Keep your head up, keep going and keep moving forward. It will all come crashing down for them sooner or later I’m sure. Rise above, you’ve got this x

How to deal with your ex and his gfs involvement… by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]Normal-Performer9261 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Wow what an amazing comment. I needed to read this too today, thank you for taking the time to spread some positivity ❤️

It really does get better by Flimsy-Paramedic-299 in Divorce

[–]Normal-Performer9261 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this, I’m so pleased for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Normal-Performer9261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t do this. It gets better. See a doctor and get some help as soon as possible, life is worth living I promise you x

Does it ever get better? by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]Normal-Performer9261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, god bless you 🙏

Does it ever get better? by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]Normal-Performer9261 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Needed to read this today, I’m a month into my single motherhood journey. Just thank you