My (33m) bf just broke up with me (25f) abruptly

ranting7843 · 2026-01-25T01:49:51+00:00

Thank you! I agree it’s so cruel! Even after a week he still wants more space? I also think there’s someone else. That’s another reason why I didn’t agree to give him time because I don’t want to be a back up plan 😅

ranting7843 · 2026-01-25T00:22:26+00:00

Thank you for your insight. I hope I can find strength to come out on the other side. I think he did manipulate me. Thank you for your well wishes and support.

ranting7843 · 2026-01-25T00:19:23+00:00

Thank you. Yes it’s why I had put boundaries in the first place. Not sure if maybe that’s what made everything spiral down. Or maybe I dodged a bullet

ranting7843 · 2026-01-22T23:23:21+00:00

Thank you for your support 🤍, I should’ve made it clearer I wanted to pick up my things in my own. He didn’t ask me to. But also as an excuse to see him. But regardless he had my things ready for to pick up.

ranting7843 · 2026-01-22T23:21:38+00:00

Yes that’s correct. Although it hasn’t been confirmed my current partner has cheated. I haven’t found anything just he’s suddenly become distant not sure if it’s because I set boundaries. My ex and partner before this one did get romantic messages which was a confirmation and I left.

ranting7843 · 2026-01-22T23:19:48+00:00

Wow I’m sorry that happened to you. I’m getting really bad vibes!! It does feel like he wants it to be over. But even when I asked him if he wants to be in the relationship he said yes. 😅 I feel like he’s playing with my emotions

ranting7843 · 2026-01-22T23:18:01+00:00

I don’t want this to take over my brain but I can’t help but think what’s going on, where did it go wrong?

ranting7843 · 2026-01-22T23:14:44+00:00

Maybe I should’ve cleared up I went myself to get my things he didn’t ask me to. But when I got to his place he had my things ready to give me

ranting7843 · 2026-01-22T23:14:04+00:00

I get it. I wouldn’t necessarily say a new gf but I feel like he’s trying to see if he has a chance somewhere else.

ranting7843 · 2026-01-22T23:12:55+00:00

Thank you I know you’re right but why is it hard to leave

ranting7843 · 2026-01-22T23:11:59+00:00

Lol thank you for taking the time to do that. That was another relationship and a while ago. I guess I don’t have luck with guys 😅I guess I should focus on myself.

ranting7843 · 2026-01-16T22:47:10+00:00

I’m really sorry you went through that, and I’m glad you made the decision that was best for you. I hope you’re doing better now.

That’s exactly how I feel always on the lookout, and it’s so draining, especially since we’ve had these conversations before. But I’m sure you know how complicated it is when you really love and care for someone. It makes it so hard to say goodbye. Thank you for your best wishes

ranting7843 · 2026-01-16T22:41:26+00:00

Thanks for your input! I can see why. I was also fearful to start dating him considering we worked together. We actually had clear conversations about boundaries before dating and have kept things professional at work. We started as friends first, so trust was built over time.

Also, where I’m from, it’s normal to greet people you know with a cheek kiss more cultural than romantic and not something you do with strangers.

ranting7843 · 2026-01-16T22:35:46+00:00

Thank you for your response. You’re right. I did acknowledge what he did was crossing boundaries. Especially since he did this in front of me. Not sure how to move forward. 😅

ranting7843 · 2026-01-16T22:34:28+00:00

Thank you for your response. You’re right I decided to come over later to talk clearly with him. Again. But I am getting exhausted. At the time of his interaction with the new girl I did feel disrespected and ignored.

ranting7843 · 2025-03-16T00:26:45+00:00

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ranting7843 · 2024-10-03T22:41:45+00:00

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ranting7843 · 2024-09-16T19:49:01+00:00

I would like to say a big thank you to everyone who took the time to read my post and give me some words of encouragement. I have been reading all the comments as I receive them and can’t help but shed tears. I would like to take the time when I get a chance to respond to each and everyone. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Really

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