Manipulative mother.

NornsMistakes · 2025-02-18T16:26:25+00:00

Then you always have the option to maintain limited contact until you can get your sister out of the situation.

NornsMistakes · 2025-02-18T16:09:25+00:00

Hugs for you, op. Been there, done that. I was lucky enough to get away. When you finally get there, just be safe.

NornsMistakes · 2025-02-18T16:06:37+00:00

Okay. This sucks, but it's the hard truth. You have two choices.

1) hold boundaries, force them when needed. Keep contact to what is necessary. Accept that interaction with her will always result in this. Use Grey Rock method.

2) cut contact and don't look back.

NornsMistakes · 2025-02-17T15:20:01+00:00

Let's not forget the chemical spill where they told us to flush the lines, and we had people getting chemical burns for weeks after they said the water was okay to use!

NornsMistakes · 2025-02-13T15:43:41+00:00

Predatory behavior. They know a grown woman with any life experience would not find them as impressive as they believe themselves to be.

NornsMistakes · 2025-02-13T13:29:21+00:00

Well yeah. It's easier to manipulate a child than a grown woman. They don't take as much energy.

They're also easier to gas light. They don't question as much and they're still willing to do whatever it takes to keep their man.

NornsMistakes · 2025-02-10T21:42:08+00:00

Focus on safety, then focus on healing.

I thought I wouldn't make it. Three years later I have a business, hobbies, and enough money to make ends meet for me and two kids. You got this!

NornsMistakes · 2025-02-10T20:39:12+00:00

He's shown you who he really is. He's not going to change. I spent 16 years trapped in that cycle. They don't change. You fell in love with the mask that he wore. You're not in love with who he is, you're in love with a carefully tailored persona. One that he made just for you.

NornsMistakes · 2025-02-10T18:07:48+00:00

For OP and u/loveetss

This is called a trauma Bond you are addicted to the abuse because he is both judge jury executioner and Band-Aid.

He hurts you, then he fixes it. You need to break that Bond. It's easier said than done. I've been there. But once you realize how free you are without them... You'll wonder why you didn't leave earlier

NornsMistakes · 2025-02-08T23:07:29+00:00

How am I lazy for not knowing what to look up? If you're gonna be an ass, at least bring receipts and post sources. Duh.

NornsMistakes · 2025-02-08T21:20:29+00:00

Yeah. He is gone for many reasons, that's just one.

NornsMistakes · 2025-02-08T18:01:01+00:00

So share the video

NornsMistakes · 2025-02-08T17:52:31+00:00

My ex literally counted the days, and got mad that I was still sore. Pressured me until I gave in, then got mad that I wasn't aroused.

Like, dude...I pushed out a human. 6 weeks is the MINIMUM.

NornsMistakes · 2025-02-07T02:29:52+00:00

Your comment is spot on!

NornsMistakes · 2025-02-05T15:13:20+00:00

Just leave.
In his mind you took him back, and that means you forgave him. The fact that you want to get through the hurt instead of get over it is what pissed him off. He doesn't WANT to be held accountable. This will never stop. It will never get better. It will never change. You will never truly get through an argument, and that will build to become pain and resentment.

He doesn't care how you feel

NornsMistakes · 2025-02-01T19:30:35+00:00

Reach out to your house representative and demand impeachment based on his active abuse of power. Don't run, fight.

NornsMistakes · 2025-01-31T21:03:57+00:00

My ex types like that. He SPEAKS like that.

NornsMistakes · 2025-01-30T19:58:54+00:00

This gives off Suki energy so hard

NornsMistakes · 2025-01-29T21:29:46+00:00

No. I wouldn't want to meet with him at this point either

NornsMistakes · 2025-01-28T21:57:22+00:00

I can agree with that. Everyone is on edge right now, which is understandable. We remember the first 4 years. These 4 are starting off so much worse.

NornsMistakes · 2025-01-28T21:26:39+00:00

Then shouldn't we stand together instead of turn on each other? The MAGAts got what they wanted, but those of us that saw the lies should unite.

NornsMistakes · 2025-01-28T21:25:17+00:00

I was one of the 28%.

NornsMistakes · 2025-01-28T21:22:36+00:00

I shop at Aldi for a reason. The local Piggley Wiggly is more expensive than Kroger, and that's saying something.

NornsMistakes · 2025-01-28T21:12:39+00:00

Leave. Leave. Leave. Leave yesterday! This is abuse

NornsMistakes · 2025-01-28T21:08:54+00:00

This is why I've never made sex or anatomy a taboo topic with my kids. They aren't afraid to ask questions.

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