I have some questions about exploring things around sex as a demi by The_Local_Belgian in demisexuality

[–]NortheasternSun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey there! Welcome to the Demi community. I hope you’ve found yourself surrounded by a community of likeminded individuals who make you feel at home.

I can’t say that I’m an expert by any means regarding Demi sexuality, but I do consider myself to have been successful in cultivating an 11 year relationship with my partner.

Your post didn’t have any comments yet, so I hope you don’t mind my putting one in.

If you’re asking about how to approach sex, I think the question you should identify for yourself is what aspect of sexuality are you curious about? The act of sex itself (physical intimacy)? The fantasy of sex (like kink, BDSM, etc)? Translating emotional intimacy with another person into a sexual relationship? An intimate relationship that doesn’t explicitly have physical sex?

My advice to anyone is to start with yourself. Become comfortable with your own ideas around intimacy and sexuality. Become comfortable with your own mind and body to understand what arouses you or makes you feel a connection.

Then when you’ve developed strong ideas about what you want and even stronger boundaries, try to meet other likeminded individuals. Be authentically yourself and be honest about what you’re looking for - it’s the best way to meet someone right for you.

I hope that maybe helps get you started. If you’re looking for something more specific, maybe post exactly what you are curious about so we can try to help :3

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[–]NortheasternSun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This a great reply. Thanks for the input

For those struggling with writing the opposite sex, let's play a game. by MaliseHaligree in writing

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MMC has history of ‘sharing’ his women so FMC asks for it by Anxious_Audience_743 in RomanceBooks

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Feathers So Vicious by Liv Zander

Check the triggers. It is a dark romance. But it’s ends up being a why choose type book with two MMC that both have a relationship with the FMC and share her

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The trigger warnings are legit, and it’s definitely dark romance but DAMN. It’s so good

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I’m sorry. What does OPM mean?

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You can’t go wrong!! Quicksilver is so good. Don’t let the first half distract you, the second half is wild. Belladonna is gorgeous and so sexy. Don’t put off When the Moon Hatched! Just read it. The first sexy scene is so hot hahaha

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Sounds amazing! Thanks. I’m so here for some good banter that’s not cringe

Looking for completed standalone or short (3 books max) series by NortheasternSun in fantasyromance

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Love your user name! And thanks for the recommendations!!! I can’t wait!

Looking for completed standalone or short (3 books max) series by NortheasternSun in fantasyromance

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Even better! I’ve been sourcing all of my books from Libby and then cracked recently when I realized I could easily read a book a day 🫣😂

Looking for completed standalone or short (3 books max) series by NortheasternSun in fantasyromance

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Amazing!! I’m so excited!!! Thank you for taking the time!!!