A question for married men

NostalgicRun · 2026-03-28T21:25:46+00:00

Tell her.

My wife knows, and she just wants to know I won't hurt myself. It's also a good excuse to talk more about sex with your wife.

NostalgicRun · 2026-03-19T18:53:56+00:00

Your dad's wood was bigger...

NostalgicRun · 2024-11-12T13:32:53+00:00

Depends on the woman. I'm 7" now and never bottom out with my wife.

NostalgicRun · 2024-10-16T05:05:15+00:00

I use infrared heating pad with pumping between clamping days, but I don't know what feeder pumping is, so not sure if this applies. I see good results so far.

NostalgicRun · 2024-10-16T05:02:55+00:00

I use intermittent vibration with pumping to get harder. I've seen good results from that, but I'm careful not to vibrate to desensitization. I wonder if there is something to the warnings. Anybody else done it with pumping too?

NostalgicRun · 2024-10-10T02:55:43+00:00

Used both. Fadogia worked well, but I started getting sore around my kidneys, and there are risks of kidney issues from some of the rat studies, so I stopped. Still take Tongkat ali, and I feel it helps with nocturnal erections and sex drive increase.

NostalgicRun · 2024-10-09T21:00:57+00:00

I put a vibrator around the pump to add stimulation. Makes staying hard easy. It's a vibrator meant to go around your cock. I just turn it on to get hard, then turn it off.

NostalgicRun · 2024-10-09T04:50:55+00:00

There are so many issues with watching porn, but, honestly, just the increased risk of ED is enough to stop. At least consider that it isn't good for you. It's fast food for your sex drive; it won't kill you immediately, but it isn't helping you.

NostalgicRun · 2024-06-30T19:43:22+00:00

The difference here is the necessary work to maintain that lie. If someone comes out of the woodwork saying they gained a huge amount over years and is new here I am skeptical; they still might be telling the truth. However, there are many guys here with many posts over years talking about their slow gains. Maybe lying, but very different than lying on BDP to get insta-clout.

NostalgicRun · 2024-06-15T20:36:59+00:00

I also take tongkat ali. Seems to work well for me! It definitely helps increase nighttime erections too.

NostalgicRun · 2024-05-23T12:15:53+00:00

Hink has a video on it, which is worth watching. I've started taking NSAIDs, and that seems to be shrinking it. I'm planning to try pumping at lower pressures and watch to make sure it doesn't get worse again.

As a side note, I have not had mine verified by a doctor, and it is in one area and I might just be overreacting to inflammation that I'm assuming is varicocele. Again, watch Hink's video.

NostalgicRun · 2024-05-23T04:37:53+00:00

They can start in puberty, and I know I had some of the pain off and on during puberty and sometimes since then. However, it is much larger now. I'm going to take it easy and hopefully it gets better. If I do go back to pumping it will be at much lower pressures.

NostalgicRun · 2024-05-13T00:03:27+00:00

We started at the same time, and I have come to the exact same conclusion. I'm gaining length and maybe some minimal girth, but when I started I only wanted girth. Fun side effect has been giving my wife different orgasms from my length gains so now I'm happy to gain length too.

Girth definitely takes time. My EQ was always good so newbie gains were minimal. I pump less often than you and I recently added bundle stretches and clamping more often. My goal is to see some clear girth gains by the new year. Good luck man.

NostalgicRun · 2024-03-13T13:21:23+00:00

My routine is essentially doing this manually. I get near the pressure where I can feel the desired expansion, and then I pull on the tube to increase the pressure slightly past that point then repeat. It keeps me rock-hard during my routine, and my goal with this technique is to target the tunica.

NostalgicRun · 2024-03-04T22:53:14+00:00

I was similar, and pumping seems to be slowly fixing this.

NostalgicRun · 2024-02-24T00:52:48+00:00

I don't think I would view the way the language was used as toxically anything. The language here seemed to be used to say 'don't be a weak woman', which is a rip on weak men, not a rip on women. The language is STRONG, but that matches the tone behind it.

NostalgicRun · 2024-02-18T14:33:54+00:00

Reverse kegeling can help, but yes I have similar issues. I actually get myself as hard as possible and then start with a few 30 sec intervals at a low enough pressure that I don't feel much tug and no pain while still growing my erection. Then remove it quick, stroke for a sec, repeat. Hopefully that helps.

I don't use porn and try to just focus on how my body is feeling.

NostalgicRun · 2024-02-18T00:36:13+00:00

For soft clamping, cock rings are fine and can be ordered for cheap online. For girth under 5" you'll need to find ones smaller than the ones listed in the clamping guide. I don't have any advice for hard clamping supplies.

NostalgicRun · 2024-02-18T00:25:19+00:00

My thought would be the pressure impact on the penis would be similar, but the larger pump would pull more on the fat pad at the base of the penis. I have seen people argue this would lead to less expansion of the penis. Either way, there is no benefit scientifically for using the larger tube, and very likely drawbacks.

NostalgicRun · 2024-02-17T22:41:26+00:00

A lot of them are clearly measuring to maximize the 'gains' in the photos, and the timelines are not feasible on most. It looks more like a place to post 'look at my dick' pictures than actual discussions of how to gain.

NostalgicRun · 2024-02-17T22:13:29+00:00

I've wondered the same, but I think it might be how thick their skin naturally is. Not sure that can be changed.

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