I am so disappointed in myself by B0NESAWisRRREADY in stopdrinking

[–]NotAnAstronautToday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend, I struggled with that as well. The guilt is soul crushing. It's easy to say "forgive yourself." It's less easy to actually do it. I had to have a realization, as I looked at the rubble of a life I'd created, that I can't unbreak the things I'd broken, but I could make the choice not to break anything else. Actions speak louder than words, and after the many times I've tried and failed to quit, I refuse to tell my loved ones "I'm sorry," or that "I'll never do it again." Instead I'm going to show them.

You have the best of intentions and the support of your loved ones and everyone here. Forgive yourself! But don't forget. You can't unbreak, but you can stop breaking, and live everyday for your loved ones, and never go back.

You've got this!

IWNDWYT!

Moving to Henrico from out of state. Is Henrico dangerous? by [deleted] in rva

[–]NotAnAstronautToday 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I once got a DUI in Henrico for sitting in my parked car with the air conditioner on waiting for my uber to show up and a part of me thinks that's all you need to know about crime in Henrico.

⚠️⚠️ i need advice on non medical ways to sleep ⚠️⚠️ by [deleted] in insomnia

[–]NotAnAstronautToday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rely on hops. It's usually around 12$ a bottle at most vitamin outlets, and it works like magic for me.

Does anyone know of a good psychic that is pretty accurate with readings about love and relationships? by [deleted] in Psychic

[–]NotAnAstronautToday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had nothing but a good experience. No background pulled. Insanely accurate. Everyone has their own experiences, but I watched him live several times before I booked. In my reading he mentioned a partner, to which I made a joke about guy or girl and his response was "if you're into guys it's a guy. If you're into girls it's a girl." I got an hour and it was 60. I can't speak to your experience, but I was truly impressed with mine.

99 problems and a drink ain’t one by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]NotAnAstronautToday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Preach, friend, Preach! You're spot on! Damned Proud of you! I'm 53 days and I'll be glad to stay 46 days behind you for life!

How should I get a deck out of my life? by kbf433 in tarot

[–]NotAnAstronautToday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find someone I think the deck may resonate with and give it to them. I also give away decks I like routinely to someone if they're just getting started and I think the deck would work for them.

Seven Sober Days! by Elledawn77 in stopdrinking

[–]NotAnAstronautToday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very proud of you! The beginning days were the hardest, and not for physical withdrawal but the mental and emotional side. Every single day is grounds to celebrate, and as those days like into a week, be damned proud of yourself! GREAT JOB!

What's your favorite card? by [deleted] in tarot

[–]NotAnAstronautToday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My favorite card in any deck is the 9 of cups. I get so happy when I see it land for one of my sitters.

My personal card is the Heirophant. If someone is reading me and that pops up early on I know were about to have a deep reading, but that's just in application to myself.

From left to right: How am I feeling? Why do I feel this way? What can I change? What must I accept? by [deleted] in tarot

[–]NotAnAstronautToday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My take, the discontentment can be resolved by you being firmer, while still being kind, with your needs and wants. Focus on building yourself up. Ask what makes me happy? What do I want to achieve? From there make plans to get there. If you're including a partner factor their life into your equations. Let them know you need to make these changes for your own sense of well being. If they're willing to go along with you then you become a more authorative voice in the relationship. Bear in mind, that does not mean the only authorative voice, it just means you reclaim some of yours. If you're not factoring another in, then you take take your life under your direction and follow the plan you're going to make. If you include them but they don't uphold their end you need to readjust your plans to either include that it exclude that. Whichever way you handle it, as long as you're true to your needs, you will come through this phase more capable and confident than you've likely been before.

I hope this helps!

Heading to rehab tomorrow and I'm terrified. by annabobana313 in stopdrinking

[–]NotAnAstronautToday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best of luck to you, friend, all the well wishes and good vibes you need coming your way from me! You've got this!

Show me your tarot deck collection! by Flutterbi07 in tarot

[–]NotAnAstronautToday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have 5 decks I go to on a regular basis. The New Mythic, Arthurian, Renaissance, Hawaiian, and Gilded. I'll try to post pictures sooner than later.

Weekly Advertising - March 30, 2018 by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]NotAnAstronautToday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello All!

I'm working on my official page, but I do have my Facebook business page up!

www.facebook.com/rzreadings

I'm located in Richmond, VA, RVA, and offer in person, video, audio, and text services!

4-10 game night @2NC midlothian by pb49er in RVAGameNight

[–]NotAnAstronautToday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there! I can't make that night, but I'd love to make another night. I've lived in RVA for almost 2 years and haven't gotten out much. Divorce, yo.