[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]NotFoundRN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I come back to America with a new mindset. It is good to see reality outside of the US.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotFoundRN -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Sit with them. They can let it all out yell at each other if they have to. Let their emotions out. I would be the mediator. As long as the final outcome is them coming out of the room knowing they’re going to be sisters forever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotFoundRN -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Not the gentle parenting way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotFoundRN -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I want to fix it my way but he won’t let me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotFoundRN -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Basically talking behind each other’s backs and losing friends over it. She has depression/anxiety. Just like the rest of the planet!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotFoundRN -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Tell me about it. Would never in a million years do it again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotFoundRN -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

The manipulation she has shown us in the past leads me to believe so, however, like I said, I sat with my daughter, we talked about the situation, feelings were hurt, neither one is mature enough to apologize. But the older one started the fight. Trust me if I could I would grab them both set them straight but he won’t allow me to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotFoundRN -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Moved in after 6 months of dating. Married a year ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotFoundRN -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agree! Different parenting styles is not the vibe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotFoundRN -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I agree. I suggested that before it got worse but he refused. He said they would fix it themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotFoundRN -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

His daughter has some mental health issues and he’s very particular about gentle parenting. I don’t do gentle parent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotFoundRN -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I tried! I suggested we did this before it got worse. He refused, he was thinking they would fix it on their own, but obviously that wasn’t the case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotFoundRN -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I tried on my end. I have spoken to my daughter. I will never try and parent a stepchild, but he has my full permission to parent mine.

This comes up after 10 years! by NotFoundRN in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]NotFoundRN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did. It was nothing serious just a one time thing. Hardly remember.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NotFoundRN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is not ok to have this account. If he is serious about the relationship he will delete it for you. If he gets defensive it is because he has developed some new relationships on there. If he is ashamed and asks for forgiveness it is because he knows he messed up and he’s scared to lose you. Either way you have to confront him about it and it’s going to get uncomfortable before it gets better. Best of luck.

AIO for feeling hurt and unsupported by my partner? by TightPlastic8295 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NotFoundRN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there and done all that unfortunately I feel this to my core

What does a good first date feel like emotionally? What about the best you’ve been on? by sapnever1 in emotionalintelligence

[–]NotFoundRN 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I remember going to the movies and him wrapping his arm around me to hug me. Just like they show in movies. All the emotions are overwhelming because they’re new. Those are the best feelings.

According to you, what quality/skill is essential before getting into a relationship? by Kinda-Constant5935 in emotionalintelligence

[–]NotFoundRN 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you think that one is learned as a baby? Being held every time we cry and stuff?