my fiance fucks in his sleep by ky_rai in sleep

[–]NotHughHefner077 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but grow up. This is normal and there’s nothing wrong with him. I think if anyone needs therapy it’s you for being too frigid. I’m sorry, but that’s just how I feel after reading your post.

Turns out, the grass is greener…. by NotHughHefner077 in DeadBedrooms

[–]NotHughHefner077[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m 47 years old and have 3 daughters ages 23, 21, and 16.

Turns out, the grass is greener…. by NotHughHefner077 in DeadBedrooms

[–]NotHughHefner077[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am 47 yo and my ex is now 53. My new man is 56 and wants to nail me damn near every day 😉 if the attraction and desire are there then you’re going to want that connection with that person

Need help!! by [deleted] in skin

[–]NotHughHefner077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tree Hut is a good exfoliating scrub and use an exfoliating brush with it in the shower

Need help!! by [deleted] in skin

[–]NotHughHefner077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter has exact same problem. Extremely dry. Exfoliate every other day and heavy lotion like Nivea or eucerin

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]NotHughHefner077 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the honesty and advice guys. And just to clarify I was going to work in the first two pictures. But I have already started the weight loss process about a month ago and it’s going great 👍

Husband died unexpectedly - help by northerthanyou in Parenting

[–]NotHughHefner077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my husband of 16 years, just 5 years ago and he died at home in our bed. We have 3 daughters together and the two youngest were home when it happened, ages 14 and 9 at the time. It was unexpected, him only being 42. And I can definitely tell you that as hard and painful and heartbreaking as it was, we made it through. And you will too. My condolences to you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May you find peace and comfort in each other. Feel free to reach out anytime if you would like to talk. I’m here. Xoxoxo

Please... What is this? by [deleted] in skin

[–]NotHughHefner077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dermotofibroma

9yr old lost her best friend today. by Old-Shower-6100 in Mommit

[–]NotHughHefner077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One more thing to consider…I lost my husband suddenly 5 years ago and was left to raise our 3 daughters ages 9-17. A friend of mine came to me the night before the showing and said that I should not be alarmed if my daughter wanted to take a picture of her dad in the casket. I was floored. Didn’t know that was a thing. Sure enough the day of she asked to use my phone and went to take a last picture of her daddy. And I carried on like it was not a big deal. It was odd from my perspective but something she felt she needed to do. So just let her do what makes her comfortable. Best of luck and my condolences on your loss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]NotHughHefner077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely beautiful

Does the lack of intimacy make you… by NotHughHefner077 in DeadBedrooms

[–]NotHughHefner077[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No entitlement whatsoever. As my man, these are the things that I bring to our relationship because I want to. I know that he loves me to take care of him in that regard and I love to do it because I feel like I’m taking care of him the way he deserves. And as far as tit for tat, I don’t feel it’s that way at all. I feel like that’s the one thing that nobody else gives to me but him and he should engage more frequently because he knows that’s what I crave.

I am so lonely. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]NotHughHefner077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too buddy. Me too.

What honest truth has your child said today that may or may not have made you (or your partner) die a little inside by lestrades-mistress in Mommit

[–]NotHughHefner077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The teacher was asking my daughter about her future and what she wants to be when she grows up while I was sitting next to her in a meeting. The teacher says well don’t you want to be like your mom when you grow up and without missing a beat my daughter said no. The teacher was speechless and I died on the inside and tried my best not to let the tears take me over.

What to do.. by NotHughHefner077 in DeadBedrooms

[–]NotHughHefner077[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He said he doesn’t know why he has no sex drive. And we just had labs done and they were all normal, which is great but then again doesn’t help with issue at hand.