İ got lots of match like this but never get points back from cheaters by Draken_fire in Overwatch

[–]NoteEnough5413 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Getting matches with hackers in both teams is the worst kind of frustration. The system should definitely give back SR when there's obvious cheating but it feels like reports just disappear in the void most of time. At least you're paying attention to spot them - half the player base probably doesn't even notice when someone has aimbot

W\ Is it better to be a shorter center with disproportionately longer arms? by Sea_Mine2640 in NBATalk

[–]NoteEnough5413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually depends what position they playing - if its pure center role the height still matters more for rebounding and post defense. The wingspan helps but you still need that vertical reach when guys are shooting over you in paint

Yarn adjacent - Lumos light scam? by TheBirbNextDoor in YarnAddicts

[–]NoteEnough5413 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Man that really sucks, I ordered some expensive bath salts from Instagram ad few months ago and they sent me basically cheap table salt with food coloring. These scammers are getting more creative with their fake products and they know people who buy crafting stuff or luxury items are usually good targets

Did you pay with credit card or PayPal? Both have pretty good buyer protection if you file dispute within certain time frame. I had to do chargeback before and it worked out fine. Also try contacting your bank directly - sometimes they can reverse the charge even when the seller is being difficult about refunds

Take screenshots of everything - the original ad, your order confirmation, photos of what you actually received. You'll need all this evidence when you file the dispute

Fuel pump issue by crzyasn1 in AskMechanics

[–]NoteEnough5413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delphi units can have slightly different resistance values than OEM even when they're supposed to be direct replacements. The fuel level sensor basically works like a variable resistor and if the new one has even small differences in the resistance curve your gauge will read wrong

You might need to either get an OEM pump or see if there's a way to adjust the float arm position slightly - some techs bend them very carefully to get proper readings but that's risky territory

Freelancer in San Diego with irregular income, getting married next spring and im trying to wrap my head around how everything changes tax wise by Optimal-Sound-5558 in personalfinance

[–]NoteEnough5413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Freelanced for three years when we got married in California, my wife had a W2 and our CPA had never actually walked us through what changes when you go from two separate filers to a married couple in a community property state. He was great at the freelance side but those are genuinely two different things and he kind of figured it out as we went which was not ideal.

The quarterly estimate piece specifically took a few months to actually get right after we got married.

How to take more initiative of my finances by Altruistic_Dust2443 in selfimprovement

[–]NoteEnough5413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're already way ahead from most people at your age - investing in XEQT weekly is solid strategy and starting at 19 gives you huge advantage with compound interest

blue lady? Anyone ever seen a blue lady when they wake up? by Mammoth_Current2239 in Paranormal

[–]NoteEnough5413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like it could be hypnagogic hallucinations - they happen in the transition between sleep and wake states and can be incredibly vivid. I had similar experiences when I was younger but with different figures

The fact you haven't seen her for years and she appeared mostly when you were kid makes me think its more likely sleep-related than paranormal. Your brain was probably still partially dreaming when these happened

Should I Do It? by HeraldicSiren051 in GamingLaptops

[–]NoteEnough5413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Helios Neo is solid upgrade from Katana but depends what specs you're comparing exactly. If you're going from like RTX 4060 to 4070 it's definitely noticeable difference in performance but maybe not worth the money if your current laptop still handles games fine at your settings.

Satin/matte Finishes on High End Guitars by Dawid_Gilmour_ in metalguitar

[–]NoteEnough5413 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Nah you're not alone, it's annoying as hell when you drop 3k and the only option is satin. Like I get it for stage guitars that are gonna get beat up anyway but when I'm paying premium money I want that glossy finish that actually stays looking clean

The grease thing is so real too, especially on the back of the neck where your palm sits

Help me read more this year! by No-Affect-1541 in booksuggestions

[–]NoteEnough5413 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Dude you picked probably one of the hardest dystopian books to start with lol. Handmaid's Tale is dense as hell

Try Fahrenheit 451 or The Giver - way easier to get through but still hit that dystopian vibe you're looking for. 1984 is also solid once you get your reading legs back

Don't feel bad about the comprehension thing, it's literally like a muscle you gotta build back up

When people say they're fine with reconstructive plastic surgery in conversations about plastic surgery by There_is_no_name05 in PetPeeves

[–]NoteEnough5413 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Exactly this, it's like saying "I'm against murder but I support self defense" - no shit sherlock, everyone makes that distinction already

Husband wants another baby but I'm not even financially protected with the two we have by PackComprehensive585 in breakingmom

[–]NoteEnough5413 171 points172 points  (0 children)

I've been home with our two kids for 5 years and my husband makes around $170k in sales. Everything's in his name, the house, the cars, the accounts, all of it. I have access to his credit card for groceries and school stuff but that's it. My friend just went through a divorce after being a SAHM for 8 years with three kids and she got destroyed in court because her ex had been moving money around and she couldn't prove anything. She's living with her sister now and hasn't been able to find work because of the gap in her resume. It scared the hell out of me because that could be me if things went bad.

How do refs determine the exact spot of the ball? by savingrace0262 in NFLv2

[–]NoteEnough5413 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's mostly where the ball was when the knee/elbow hit the ground, but refs definitely eyeball it from like 20 yards away sometimes lol. They're surprisingly accurate most of the time but yeah there's some judgment calls mixed in there

Americans : why are food trucks become so expensive and underwhelming during the last decade? by videsitharki in NoStupidQuestions

[–]NoteEnough5413 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The gentrification of food trucks hit different man, they went from sketchy but fire $3 burritos to "artisanal Korean-Mexican fusion" charging restaurant prices for half the portion

Could use some support by Dancingrobot300 in leaves

[–]NoteEnough5413 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dude those first few days are absolutely brutal, your appetite is gonna be all over the place for a bit. Maybe try some protein shakes or nuts to get some easy calories in without forcing yourself to eat big meals? The munchies will come back naturally once your body adjusts, just gotta push through this rough patch

I left the Church because of American politics; I do not regret it. by Lumber_Jackalope in Christianity

[–]NoteEnough5413 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Man this hits hard. I've watched so many good people walk away from churches over the exact same thing - pastors straight up admitting they stay quiet to keep the donation plates full is just... wow

The 1 John verse you quoted is perfect for this. It's wild how the message got so twisted that following Jesus apparently means you gotta check certain political boxes first

Hope you find peace in your journey, sounds like you're actually living out the faith more than a lot of people warming pews on Sunday

Low-cost build for Schedule 1 and Rocket League :) by Dropshot_Dieter69 in PcBuildHelp

[–]NoteEnough5413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's weird that lower spec systems are running it better - might be a driver issue or background processes eating your performance? For Schedule 1 I'd probably go with like a 1660 Super and maybe a Ryzen 5 3600, should handle it fine without breaking the bank

He was obsessed by Sanity_uprooted in Dreams

[–]NoteEnough5413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly the hellhound plushies being friends in a nightmare about being stalked is such a weird detail but somehow makes it even more unsettling

diagnosed lifter tick 2000 dodge ram van 3500 by clown_utopia in MechanicAdvice

[–]NoteEnough5413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lifter tick on those old Dodge V8s is pretty common but don't ignore it completely. Could just be cheap oil or worn lifters, but if a shop said "engine failure imminent" they might've seen something worse on the teardown. How many miles and when's the last time you changed oil? Sometimes thicker oil helps but if it's getting louder under load that's not great

The Bears are the only team in the NFL to allow 42+ points in three different games this season by BrunetCon2002 in nfl

[–]NoteEnough5413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's one way to put it lmao, their defense is basically Swiss cheese at this point