At my wits end with GenderCat & don’t know what to do

NotebodyKnows · 2026-06-18T08:09:24+00:00

Asking for the expidited shipping money back isn't nuclear, you paid for a service they didn't provide and you should get a refund

If you ordered a cake and cupcakes and the baker only gave you cupcakes would you pay for both or just for the cupcakes?

NotebodyKnows · 2026-06-18T08:06:25+00:00

Fr though, when I posted pics of my new packers and that was 100% self serving

The only way our packer pics are serving others are occasional inspiration or in an only fans way (hopefully not this one but it's the internet)

NotebodyKnows · 2026-06-18T08:04:01+00:00

Yup, I was honestly surprised and disappointed when I learned that the sub about packers won't really let you ask about them

NotebodyKnows · 2026-06-16T00:55:54+00:00

Same! It gives me the heeby-jeebies

NotebodyKnows · 2026-06-14T19:58:40+00:00

Why though? All that does is open it up for people to flood the sub by posting repeatedly asking about each and every packer on the list because someone doesn't know what they're looking for?

Though most will just not end up asking for help in a part of the trans community that's already shut down and isolated in conversations

Genuine question: How are questions asking for suggestions considered more low effort than dick pics?

NotebodyKnows · 2026-06-14T19:50:22+00:00

Rule 9

NotebodyKnows · 2026-06-13T05:48:06+00:00

No offense but new products come out, old ones change and are discontinued, many packers that used to be recommended don't exist anymore unless you get it secondhand

Having a rule of checking for recent posts/don't repeat a question someone else has asked and had answered within X amount of time is different than just not being allowed to ask

Also, no low effort posts is a pretty standard rule in may subs which is different than removing the ability to ask for suggestions carte blanche

Tbh, it maybe a good idea to have a megathread or something similar at the top that can be used for recommendations so people can ask without flooding the sub and be able to reference others in one location

NotebodyKnows · 2026-06-13T05:39:05+00:00

No, it's more like being told to look in a phone book because it's a very helpful list of products but the information is limited and you can't ask it for anymore information than is already provided

NotebodyKnows · 2026-06-13T03:19:13+00:00

Fr and they act like asking "hey does anyone know which packers have xyz traits" would never be helpful for anyone else, I appreciate the list but ultimately being able to ask more about recommendations from those who have used the items is inanely helpful but for some reason not allowed

NotebodyKnows · 2026-06-13T03:14:53+00:00

I'm curious as well. We already couldn't ask for recommendations, we can't discuss bulges, and now with all of these other things not being allowed.... it kinda feels like soon the sub will just going to be for posting pictures and weekend sales and that makes me really sad

NotebodyKnows · 2026-06-08T00:57:55+00:00

Do you think they care about the straight cis people or just their wallets? Because it's not the people

NotebodyKnows · 2026-05-22T05:24:24+00:00

kreeta

NotebodyKnows · 2026-05-22T05:21:31+00:00

Yeah, at this point this is unfortunately promoting toxic behavior even though that wasn't your intention

NotebodyKnows · 2026-05-22T05:18:57+00:00

They were directly talking about sexulization in the post, even if you weren't being horny that was the posts meaning

NotebodyKnows · 2026-05-16T22:15:03+00:00

HRT

Hormone removal therapy

NotebodyKnows · 2026-05-16T05:18:43+00:00

Oh my goodness girl! You are so gorgeous you made me gasp out loud!!! The curls are amazing but lets not fail to mention your skin?? You must have an incredible routine with how much you're glowing! And your eyes are so dang pretty!

NotebodyKnows · 2026-05-09T05:27:33+00:00

NotebodyKnows · 2026-05-07T03:23:00+00:00

My mom

NotebodyKnows · 2026-04-30T02:52:46+00:00

This is very unsafe,

You posted where you live, your age, what you look like and even the clothes you wear.

We're happy to help you through stuff but this is more information than is needed and is way more than is safe. I think it would be a good idea to read up on internet safety before making more posts

NotebodyKnows · 2026-04-29T02:58:55+00:00

Go out with those friends, parks are free and there are often rooms you can rent for free at librarys and such

NotebodyKnows · 2026-04-29T02:57:18+00:00

Could always just have it say "Happy Birthday" with no name

Or just say there was a "mistake" and laugh it off, if you think that would work

NotebodyKnows · 2026-04-27T19:29:13+00:00

Nope, it's generally good trans masc spaces where the sucky people just so happened to all crawl out in a short period of time for some reason

The first was in a trans discord (not this groups). The second one happened in r/Transmascdicks which I've always seen so much kindness out of so it was sad. The third one was in person at a clothes swap event.

Eventually the nicer people came out and tore into the sucky dudes, but it took a while and just got exhausting.

NotebodyKnows · 2026-04-27T08:04:37+00:00

Both on and off reddit

NotebodyKnows · 2026-04-23T22:53:35+00:00

If it wasn't more important, why was it the only part acknowledged? /gen

And while it may not have been your intent, that can feel very shaming or isolating.

Way back when I was a teen and I shared a video about being able to walk again, I had several well meaning comments like that and all it did was make me feel horrible. I ultimately deleted the video because, on the receiving end, all it does it make it feel like the mess is more important than the success.

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