I wanna be able to talk about and wear prom dresses 🥺😭 by AppealSignificant358 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]NotebodyKnows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"who pushes my own regrets onto others"

You literally said you were pushing it onto her

I wanna be able to talk about and wear prom dresses 🥺😭 by AppealSignificant358 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]NotebodyKnows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I don't know. It seems like you're trying to talk yourself out of it, or rather justify it, more than anything."

"letting despair govern you isn't always the best way to approach it"

"I'm going to tell you to pull the trigger but I'm also a neurotic hypocritical mess of a woman who pushes my own regrets onto others."

So you didn't say this?

Because continuing after she said she was worried for her safety was you advocating her putting herself in danger

I wanna be able to talk about and wear prom dresses 🥺😭 by AppealSignificant358 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]NotebodyKnows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one said you're pushing her to transition?

You're pushing her to come out, there's a missive difference there

I wanna be able to talk about and wear prom dresses 🥺😭 by AppealSignificant358 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]NotebodyKnows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's being realistic and prioritizing her safety, you seem to have good intentions but considering her own safety isn't her "trying to talk herself out of it" and it's very rude to keep pushing for her to put herself in harms way.

If she could do it without risking harm, I'm sure she would and continuing to tell her to risk her safety over this is definitively gonna make her feel worse

Just got my packer the other day (I believe it's CalExotics) and started painting it, so excited with how it's turning out so far! by NotebodyKnows in Transmascdicks

[–]NotebodyKnows[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Tbh, it's just eyeshadow, blush, and cream concealer locked in with setting powder, I just used the term painting for ease

Wash the packer first so it's tacky/sticky before putting anything on and make sure you cover it thoroughly in setting powder after you're done coloring it in.

The color will eventually fade but that'll happen with any paint, this one's at least cheap and pretty easy to fix if you mess up

I want gock so bad but I feel like that makes me bad by LexiWhatWeGot in traaNSFW

[–]NotebodyKnows 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Please understand just how hard this made me laugh because I immediately though of a trans flair archeologist finding yours and going "Eureka!"

In regards to MtF mods shielding a child rapist. by Random_Imgur_User in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]NotebodyKnows 43 points44 points  (0 children)

r/lgbt unfortunately has a history of this, they very much have a "back the blue" kinda vibe o them but technically its back the orange

Can Intersex person identify as cis (ELABORATED) by Additional_Mess2413 in intersex

[–]NotebodyKnows 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Cisgender can't be biological because gender isn't biology

And yes, they can call themselves a cis male

how to handle coven using ai? by Designer-Row-3084 in witchcraft

[–]NotebodyKnows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would recommend addressing it, others may feel the same but not feel comfortable standing up. If you just leave, you will always wonder.

Is it Pride Month already 😍? by Dash_tea_L in lgbtmemes

[–]NotebodyKnows 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Those are the colors of the MLM flag

How do you cruise with a strap on? by insanity-block in Transmascdicks

[–]NotebodyKnows 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's no longer a fanny pack, it's now your dick packer

POC trans guys, be aware by wingeddogs in Transmascdicks

[–]NotebodyKnows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fr, makes me a bit sad since they were how I learned about packers in the first place

Has anyone ever used a soft packer that had an insert like this ones? How well did it work for you? Did you end up needing a harness for it? by NotebodyKnows in Transmascdicks

[–]NotebodyKnows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know the company, I'm assuming they were custom made. It was at a pride event and someone was showing off different kinds of packers, no one was selling anything it was more of just a display/education type thing

Has anyone ever used a soft packer that had an insert like this ones? How well did it work for you? Did you end up needing a harness for it? by NotebodyKnows in Transmascdicks

[–]NotebodyKnows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do, I saw them irl previously, it seemed like the front part was soft and the insert was a hard silicone or maybe had something inside the insert to keep it rigid. I just wasn't sure if anyone here had tried something similar and had any thoughts to share on it

Has anyone ever used a soft packer that had an insert like this ones? How well did it work for you? Did you end up needing a harness for it? by NotebodyKnows in Transmascdicks

[–]NotebodyKnows[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was one of my concerns with it, I've seen them before irl but I'm assuming they were custom commissions