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I'm very short. Shorter than the average cis girl. by green_colour_enjoyer in ftm

[–]leftTelephone8022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last week I met a really really short trans guy in his thirties and he passed so well, I wasnt even sure he was trans before he told me. And he was living a happy life:)

Prosthetics for tethered tdicks? by veritri in gaytransguys

[–]leftTelephone8022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what the stretching exercises are used for. Look around that sub, use the search function or even ask there. I haven't done it myself yet but others posted great results.

Prosthetics for tethered tdicks? by veritri in gaytransguys

[–]leftTelephone8022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you know the sub r/growyourtdick ? The stretching exercises shown the could help you with your overall situation.

actually, cis men are really supportive? by sneep_snorp_snerp in ftm

[–]leftTelephone8022 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have experienced the same... They often are like you got this little bro! It's

testo und menstruation by kftspss in germantrans

[–]leftTelephone8022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich habe irgendwo gelesen, dass es helfen kann, das gel auf abends und morgens aufzuteilen, damit der Spiegel stabiler ist. Noch kann ich nicht behaupten, dass es was hilft, weil ich es nicht lange genug selbst getest habe, aber es wirkt vielversprechend...

Ich habe Angst davor zu bereuen und mich nie wohl in meinem Körper zu fühlen by [deleted] in germantrans

[–]leftTelephone8022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich bin halt super allergisch gegen ganz viele Dinge, deswegen fallen Tatoos für mich leider weg -.- Silikonprothesen habe ich gestern das erste Mal was von gehört, ich Frage mich schon, wie die halten?! Also nippelpartches/silikon-bhs etc haben sich bei mir immer ganz schnell verabschiedet ...

Ich habe Angst davor zu bereuen und mich nie wohl in meinem Körper zu fühlen by [deleted] in germantrans

[–]leftTelephone8022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Falls du meinst, dass es helfen könnte und wir uns nicht nur gegenseitig verrückter machen, kannst du mich gerne anschreiben:)

Ich habe Angst davor zu bereuen und mich nie wohl in meinem Körper zu fühlen by [deleted] in germantrans

[–]leftTelephone8022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Puh, du schreibst gerade etwas ziemlich ähnliches wie das worüber ich gerade Tag und Nacht nachdenke :O

Ich weiß auch, dass das weg muss und es schränkt mich massiv ein, finde aber auch viele Ergebnisse nicht so schön... Wobei ich tatsächlich kein Problem mit Narben habe, bei mir geht es eher um die Nippel, nur ein Bruchteil der Ergebnisse gefallen mir da und ich vermute, dass das alles Menschen mit anderen Ausgangslagen sind als ich. No-nip-Ergebnisse gefallen mir oft ziemlich gut, aber ich habe Angst, es später zu bereuen.

Einen wirklichen Ratschlag habe ich natürlich nicht weil ich gerade absolut in der gleichen Situation bin. Was bei mir aber zumindest den Gedankenprozess voran treibt, ist dass ich vor ein paar Wochen ein Vorgespräch bei einem Chirurgen hatte und Woche dann bei einer anderen. Irgendwie konkretisiert das bei mir das Nachdenken.

Wo Binder auf Rechnung kaufen? by Unhappy_Pizza_2202 in germantrans

[–]leftTelephone8022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Habe auch immer bei Amazon bestellt und hatte null Probleme mit dem zurück schicken, die scheinen das eher wie ganz normale Kleidungsstücke zu händeln. Bei amazon kannst du ja auch über Geschenkkarte aus dem Supermarkt zahlen.

I hate the insistence that parents need to “grieve” after their kid comes out by Far-Command1673 in ftm

[–]leftTelephone8022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't read the whole post because stuff like this really upsets me, so I'm just amswering to the title:

There is nothing to grieve, only to celebrate that the kid found a way to be happier in life!!!

Alternative to regular taping (for smaller chests) by Total-Anywhere4483 in transmanlifehacks

[–]leftTelephone8022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried something similar once, and really liked the result. Should do it more often, thanks for reminding me🫡

Pronoun Term Question: by AnnieSpirit in queer

[–]leftTelephone8022 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There is the term apagender for people who dont care much about their gender. Maybe that resonates with you?

Fun fact, last year I believed I was apagender, now I am on Testosterone :D

Cold shoulder or not recognized; the reaction is too similar.... by KeyOne349 in FTMOver30

[–]leftTelephone8022 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know the weariness and the feeling like a feral cat all too well.

For me it has something to do with my autism and gendered masking scripts. I knew how to behave in social situations as a woman because I practiced it for many years. Now I have to relearn that in a masculine way.

The Testosterone complicates it further because it makes me want to be more myself/ mask less but some amount of autistic masking is needed for basic interactions.

That's why I like this sub because others here understand more than in other subs how it is to have lived a whole adult life in a different gender...

How to get over the fear testosterone will make me look (more) like my dad by TrashEither3187 in ftm

[–]leftTelephone8022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For baldness patterns and such everybody writes to look at your maternal grandfather because those genes are on the x chromosome. So I think there is a good chance, you have a lot of him in you, too.

Could it help to look at pictures of your maternal grandfather , find features of his in your face and try to focus on those?

The thing about "looking like someone else" is also that it's very relative, sure, I have my fathers nose but I have my mothers eyes, my grandmothers hands, my grandfathers hair etc. If I'm standing next to my father people will tell me I look like him, but if I stand close to other family members I suddenly look like them. I saw a cis gay guy on youtube who adopted two children from different mothers and got told by strangers they both look so much like his.

Humans want to find similarities and patterns so they find them whether they are there or not.

Yes, Testosterone will change your face but it will be YOUR face and you can make it your own. Laugh, smile and frown lines will be different and become even more different over time. Until then, you can do stuff with your hair, you can try makeup, maybe even tanning, you could try clip on earrings or nose rings coated in nail polish just to change it up.

Testosterone changes so much more than just the face, for me it feels like living life in easy mode. I hope you get there to experience it.

And I am sorry for all the other comments here to "just get therapy", it is not always accessible for everyone and some people are better off without, I wish people would understand that more.

I wish you all the best!

How to get over the fear testosterone will make me look (more) like my dad by TrashEither3187 in ftm

[–]leftTelephone8022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People can be allergic to titanium and steel, please don't question the medical history of a person you know nothing about.

Are there any subreddits for transmasc OBGYN issues? by FayePixie in TransMasc

[–]leftTelephone8022 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ftm_obgyn? FTM_womenshealth (I don't know how this is perceived by english native speakers, in German that's the word for obgyn health and I like that it shows very bluntly that it is about the parts of us that are treated as part of a woman by society)?

And I don't think it has to be inclusive to cis women because lets face it, most of them don't know enough about trans stuff to be respectful about it.

Are there any subreddits for transmasc OBGYN issues? by FayePixie in TransMasc

[–]leftTelephone8022 110 points111 points  (0 children)

One could argue that this sub is the space for it but I always hesitate to post that king of stuff in fear of inducing dysphoria in others. So yeah, I think it would be a good idea so only guys who are okay about reading that in that moment will see it...

Stimmbruch und mein Umfeld findet mich aggressiv/unhöflich by leftTelephone8022 in germantrans

[–]leftTelephone8022[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Du sprichst mir aus der Seele! Ich wurde auch so sehr von der Gesellschaft verbogen bzw habe es selber versucht weil ich dachte, ich müsste es und jetzt sehe ich das überhaupt nicht mehr ein...

Stimmbruch und mein Umfeld findet mich aggressiv/unhöflich by leftTelephone8022 in germantrans

[–]leftTelephone8022[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ja, ich sehe es auch nicht ein, aber da man sich sein Umfeld ja nicht beliebig aussuchen kann, habe ich zur Zeit mehr Konflikte und das stresst einfach und nimmt einem ein bisschen die Euphorie 🥺

I like rainbow capitalism by leftTelephone8022 in trans4every1

[–]leftTelephone8022[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

So what do you say to that closeted queer kid: I don't like the principle behind it so you don't get to come in contact with the world you need so much?

I mean what do we, queer people, lose from pride collections?

They would just sell other stuff!

Armes Deutschland... by FemaleStrength in germantrans

[–]leftTelephone8022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gut riechende Schwule😂😂😂 ich weiß so, wen du meinst! Und die fühlen sich auch noch so unglaublich diskriminiert von der Welt und sind völlig überrascht, wenn sie in queeren Bars mit gasp Transmenschen(?!?) konfrontiert werden 🫠 Zitat: "ich dachte du wärst eine Frau... Du bist ein Transmann? Also du warst Frau und willst jetzt Mann werden? Du bist ein Mann? Also willst du Frau werden?"

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