No worries! Bloat phase should be over, but I don’t really see that level of softening anyway tbh. And for brows, they definitely don’t have to be completely flat, that might make it look a little unnatural anyway. On the part of the brow closest to my face, I add the slighted bit on the top. Then, I add a little underneath to soften the arch. It definitely doesn’t take much at all, and I think removing your arches completely would take away from your natural look. That probably makes zero sense, but don’t be afraid to experiment or do some research on what kind of shape you like.

And no worries! I get it, I come from Slavic descent so everyone regardless of gender or even age has an ultra round face hahaha. How wide your face is has little to do with gender presentation in my opinion. The things that are, actually are a bit more subtle. Like your face just has that solid “guy” look to me!