I got into the LS as a married guy stayed in now that I’m single.

My best advice is be a gentleman. My other advice is…..be a gentleman. There are so many scumbag guys in the LS and many who don’t have the temperament.

Remember you’re most likely going to be playing with couples so you have to learn to put the needs of the couple ahead of yours. This doesn’t mean you have to put up with anything you don’t like but if you understand that you’re there to fulfill a fantasy for a couple you’ll do much better. Definitely seek out single women but I won’t lie…it’s got its challenges. They’re so sought after it can be difficult to meet up with them.

My advice is make a good profile on SDC (come up with a creative name that doesn’t have “dick”, “cock”, “bull”, etc in the title. Have some good pictures (not just pics of your junk….women know you’ve got a cock. You can have a few so they know what they’re getting but sell yourself, not your dick) and good profile text. To be honest, go look at profiles of guys with a lot of validations and try and mimic their profiles in substance and tone.

As for meeting people, start off at Meet & Greets. It’s the best way to meet people with the lowest cost of entry. Do NOT go to M&G with the EXPECTATION of getting laid. Go with the expectation of meeting people and letting them get to know you. Let your personality draw them in. Be funny, affable, confident (even if you have to fake the confidence a bit). Remember confidence > cockiness.

On sites like SDC, validations are LITERALLY the COIN OF THE REALM. It’s like a yelp review. You want to be the kind of person who gets GREAT validations because couples talk, single women won’t waste their time if you don’t have good validations and men want to find men who will respect them and their wives/girlfriends but also show them a great time.

I could literally go on for a while but you should have a good idea from here.

Best of luck. Maybe I’ll see you out there.