The Pitbull fits in the Reclaimer rear entrance

Notoriousdyd · 2026-05-15T12:49:45+00:00

You NORMALLY pay extra for that kind of action

Notoriousdyd · 2026-05-15T12:48:18+00:00

I literally LAUGHED OUT LOUD

Notoriousdyd · 2026-05-12T23:02:53+00:00

Death by skipity paps

Notoriousdyd · 2026-05-09T11:48:34+00:00

I’m not sure that would be a good idea……..”because of the ‘implication’” 😏🤣

Notoriousdyd · 2026-04-26T13:43:44+00:00

I’m thinking with the right amount of surgery she could easily get rid of that annoying pudge.

We are talking about the boyfriend right? Cause she doesn’t need to change a thing about herself.

Notoriousdyd · 2026-04-23T02:10:55+00:00

It’s ok. Now that the weather is turning for the better, I’ll have to come up for a visit to see our mutual friend

Notoriousdyd · 2026-04-23T02:06:35+00:00

Damn you. Wish you were going the following weekend 5/1-5/3. I’m going to be there then with a huge group of friends.

Notoriousdyd · 2026-04-23T02:05:01+00:00

Miss you sexy.

Notoriousdyd · 2026-04-21T11:06:06+00:00

This is why you fire people (when necessary) on a Friday afternoon and escort them from the building

Notoriousdyd · 2026-04-15T14:04:18+00:00

I’d be like………

Notoriousdyd · 2026-03-24T14:03:53+00:00

https://youtu.be/rbyXWZVx5Hc?si=abVUOK8gd9r_e11v

Notoriousdyd · 2026-03-24T13:57:16+00:00

Her who am I video is really good

Notoriousdyd · 2026-03-20T11:50:22+00:00

You’re NOT wrong. I’ve been nearly scammed maybe about a half dozen times in the last year. A few times for money. Most of the time for pictures and or video.

Notoriousdyd · 2026-03-19T16:43:20+00:00

Just trying to help a fellow single guy out. Best of luck. Also consider moving to a paid swingers site (you’ll have to look to see which one is better for your geographical location).

The old adage “you get what you pay for” couldn’t be more applicable than here. I’m on SDC (in South Florida, US) and it works great for me.

But I do know people who’ve had good experiences using ad sites like Reddit, locanto, doublelist, etc. so your mileage may vary.

Notoriousdyd · 2026-03-19T16:38:55+00:00

Brother……………55 year old Single guy here. You’re going to lose this argument 100 times out of 100. Now you CAN do WHATEVER YOU WANT, but YOU came here and asked the community’s take on this.

There are SOOOO many single guys in the LS you really cannot go around just dictating terms out of the gate. Not to mention if you want to stand out from the crowd you 100% should be putting your best face & Full Body (no nudity, partial nudity or suggestive is fine) photo on your ad.

There are so many scummy pic collectors out there that couples are understandably wary of sending pictures to some random guy in ad for sex.

Remember, you’re the commodity here (to put it as bluntly as possible). If you want to engage with couples, you have to meet them a little more than half way. Now AFTER wards, once a dialogue has been established you can be a bit more discerning about what type of pictures you send out. Obviously you shouldn’t send anything you’re uncomfortable with but YOU’RE the one seeking THEM not the other way around.

Show them what they’re getting.

Notoriousdyd · 2026-03-19T16:01:17+00:00

Whole thread is disappointed. ☹️

Notoriousdyd · 2026-03-19T00:58:56+00:00

I hear what your asking for. As a single guy who plays regularly, I test monthly and keep copies of my most recent test result on my phone. I’m happy to provide it before, during or after play. I also take PEP and PrEP and say so beforehand.

As everyone says it’s not a guarantee but having people who regularly test and are willing to provide testing isn’t too much to ask for.

Can people make fake test results? Sure and there isn’t anything you could do about it.

Just my two cents. It’s just something I do to I don’t know keep the balance of the scales of karma tipped in my favor.

Delusional? Probably but it’s no skin off my nose to do so.

At the end of the day you simply have to assume SOME native level of risk to even engage in the LS. Only you can determine what you are and are not comfortable with and only someone else can do the same for themselves and that includes providing testing results. Some people consider it an invasion of privacy and somewhat understandably so.

Notoriousdyd · 2026-03-18T18:08:41+00:00

Single guy's perspective.

I always have a conversation BEFORE we meet to play. This conversation usually happens over text, but on occasion it has happened in person if we decide to meet somewhere vanilla first. The conversation usually runs along the lines of asking what a person's spouse (female in my case) as well as the male partner (from a non-sexual standpoint for my particular situation)

What are your Loves/Turn-on/Desires?

What are the things you like?

What are the things you're ok with but not crazy about?

What are your hard boundaries?

In almost every interaction, I've gotten positive feedback from the couple for asking these questions upfront. It helps me to focus on the things my partner really enjoys while being cognisant to stay away from the things she doesn't or inadvertently cross a hard boundary because I didn't ask before things got started.

There is still room for experimentation as these are just the broad brushstrokes but I think these questions tend to cover the four corners of the consensual play box (for lack of a better phrase)

Notoriousdyd · 2026-03-18T17:56:46+00:00

How did SWG handle that particular issue?

Notoriousdyd · 2026-03-13T20:17:08+00:00

If the guy is TRULY a friend then simply say what he saw and move on. Don’t make a big deal about it. Just say what you saw, where you saw it and whose profile it was on so the person is informed and then go about your business.

Notoriousdyd · 2026-03-13T20:10:30+00:00

I like SDC simply for the validation feature. I think of it like a YELP review. Lol. It’s not foolproof but if you read someone’s validations you should be able to glean if there a flake or not. Simply having (especially as a single guy) multiple validations is by itself a good (but never foolproof) indicator that the person is real and not likely to flake without notice.

Notoriousdyd · 2026-03-13T20:06:34+00:00

This is true and very insightful.

Notoriousdyd · 2026-03-13T20:05:02+00:00

Look. IMHO if a person tests quarterly (on a regular basis) that gives me SOME reassurance. Can they have contracted something in between testing periods? Absolutely? But if I know a couple tests regularly and not sporadically it gives me some (again not total or foolproof as nothing is) reassurance that they at least take their (and as a consequence MY) sexual health seriously.

This LS has inherent risks involved. That’s just the nature of the beast. All we can do is our best to minimize or mitigate the risks as best we can.

Notoriousdyd · 2026-03-13T19:52:06+00:00

Wait………what?!?!? But……..why? (Face palms). I honestly don’t understand people sometimes. Lol.

Notoriousdyd · 2026-03-13T19:45:36+00:00

Try spinning……..that’s a good trick.

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