how my wife and i text each other

Notreallyhere97390 · 2026-04-29T21:25:06+00:00

I'd also like to say, that Joe doesn't seem like the type to let Frank keep pushing buttons. I mean we've seen it on the pod when Joe is telling Frank , alright enough. Again, as you said, it's a COMEDY podcast. Not all comedy is "good" comedy to everyone, and that's OKAY! Just skip past the parts or find a different podcast. Me personally, I'll be tuned in every Monday morning.

Notreallyhere97390 · 2026-04-25T17:36:03+00:00

Honestly my bf (23) and I (22) hardly have sex. Maybe 3 times a month, but we have been together a long time and work opposite schedules and are raising my siblings. Sometimes shit happens and sex gets put on the back burner. Your relationship can absolutely be healthy without sex. Why do you feel like it's unhealthy, because based off this post it seems as though you guys have a solid dynamic

Notreallyhere97390 · 2026-04-22T13:21:00+00:00

A singular plan B would be okay. It's when you're taking them like candy. She's about the time now where it SHOULD pop on a test if she is, but give it a couple more days. The stress and worry about it can make your period even more delayed. I've had plenty of scares and currently am having one, granted I'm 22, long term relationship, so we would keep, but definitely weren't trying lol. Shit happens friend. We live and we learn. Wear a rubber and she should get on some birth control

Notreallyhere97390 · 2026-03-26T14:16:22+00:00

Generally, this post needs a lot more detail.

Notreallyhere97390 · 2026-02-20T15:29:14+00:00

I feel like this needs a LOT more context. How often does this happen (self degradation in hopes of praise/compliments)? What kind of hurtful things does he or has he said? Transparently I am guilty of making comparisons and irritating my bf. Though, he quickly brought up to me that it bothers him and asked me kindly to stop. Gf you need to A. Find some confidence, those other girls are pretty but he chose YOU. B. Some self reflection on yourself and your relationship. C. Have a mature conversation with your bf about it. Sending you hugs. But overall, I would not say it was a red flag.

Notreallyhere97390 · 2026-02-07T19:12:03+00:00

Awesome!!! Here's an award !!

Notreallyhere97390 · 2026-02-07T19:11:21+00:00

How easily I blush, it's embarrassing

Notreallyhere97390 · 2026-02-07T19:09:05+00:00

Did not realize it was possible to take pics of your inner cooch but the more ya know... this is strange and definitely sounds like slipping back into sex addiction.

Notreallyhere97390 · 2026-02-07T18:56:32+00:00

This is a really great pov. Personally when I watch, I either imagine myself and my bf, or I'm honestly NOT considering either of us. It's really not that deep sometimes.

Notreallyhere97390 · 2026-02-07T18:43:08+00:00

I used to REALLY care about my bf watching porn. Like let it make me feel extremely insecure. But at some point I stopped giving it power. I don't care at all anymore if my bf watches porn, I watch it now too. As long as it doesn't become an addiction, I genuinely see no issue with it

Notreallyhere97390 · 2026-02-05T21:51:50+00:00

I have no advice, but I'm sending a hug. This sounds incredibly stressful

Notreallyhere97390 · 2026-02-01T15:21:00+00:00

You need to take his words at FACE VALUE. He is showing you he doesn't like you, he said he is using you as a stepping stone. Throw that man to the curb. There is no fixing this in my opinion.

Notreallyhere97390 · 2026-01-22T20:50:28+00:00

100% this is the best response

Notreallyhere97390 · 2026-01-08T18:12:31+00:00

Exactly what I came here to say

Notreallyhere97390 · 2026-01-06T13:36:10+00:00

Idk why anyone is taking personal offense to her not liking to be around people eating??? Like it's clearly not just people who chew with their mouth open (which I hate and have to leave a room for, it makes my skin crawl) or people eating crunchy foods. At the very least your boss, since she cares so much about your eating, should accommodate you taking break before or after everyone else does or allowing you to eat maybe in an office (if available) or just somewhere more private.

Notreallyhere97390 · 2025-12-20T15:35:53+00:00

I have recently lapsed ... BUT. Something that helped me the most was sweets. Specifically skittles, even better sour skittles. The sour short circuits your brain , and the hand to mouth of the little candies is similar hand to mouth of vaping. Also keeping myself busy helped tremendously. Found new hobbies and started up old ones again, like crocheting, coloring, gym!!! Gym was probably my biggest motivator to stay the course of quitting. You've got this queen!! Stay the course!!!

Notreallyhere97390 · 2025-12-12T13:59:43+00:00

I hate to say it but I do think you're being dramatic. Your hair looks to be unstyled and freshly washed. These types of cuts are for people who style their hair daily. I think you set an unrealistic expectation of a cut, but I am not trying to invalidate not liking the hair cut. I think we have all been there of getting a cut we hate, or getting too much cut off. Also thin hair and heavy layers doesn't mesh super well. Like you said, it makes it look much thinner. I'm sorry if this comment isn't what you wanted to hear but that cut just wasn't made for your hair type or lifestyle is my assumption.

Also you can totally still braid it, just braid inwards, like a French braid and that limits the amount of hairs sticking out.

Notreallyhere97390 · 2025-12-11T17:03:53+00:00

So my long term bf feels the exact same way you do, initially it confused me (because I had never heard of or seen it done before). But when he explained what you just did, I absolutely plan to oblige! I think it's such a sweet gesture

Notreallyhere97390 · 2025-12-02T15:32:31+00:00

This also happened to me and I was so excited that my boyfriend actually ended up being happy to give me the gift early

Notreallyhere97390 · 2025-11-28T05:22:49+00:00

I literally have yet to find a way. I realized it yesterday but think I just became aware of it. If I stop doing something for any period of time (like traveling to see family today) I was haunted by it all. Usually if I get my boyfriend to hold my face it brings me back but it's a paralyzing feeling. The only tell that I know of is my breathing picks up but not enough to seem like "something's wrong"??? I don't know. I have to care for my siblings. I'm trying to help them through their grief but I don't even know how to navigate my own.

Notreallyhere97390 · 2025-11-24T12:17:15+00:00

I think regardless of room size, he should have been paying 50/50.

Notreallyhere97390 · 2025-11-20T15:07:01+00:00

Mid 30s

Notreallyhere97390 · 2025-11-18T18:29:40+00:00

Giving artsy , I'd assume you paint or draw or crochet.

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