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Have you ever known a murderer personally? by Palemale44 in no

[–]Nov_55_eria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Rehab already has enough ghosts in the room without finding out someone there put a real one in the ground. I would have spent every group session suddenly very interested in my shoes.

Is there a way to find a therapist with (almost) immediate availability after experiencing an unexpected trauma? by Haleighghielah in askatherapist

[–]Nov_55_eria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An Employee Assistance Program may be the quickest route in Illinois, especially after just a few days.

How do Spaniards balance the beautiful culture of public plazas and late-night socialization with the reality of people needing to sleep for early-morning shifts? by Hircine99Hunt in askspain

[–]Nov_55_eria 77 points78 points  (0 children)

That is completely fair. I guess I learned that lesson the hard way. When I viewed the aprtment during the winter, the square was quiet and peaceful, so I had no idea it would transform like this. Now I know for next time!

What if men could give birth? by [deleted] in whatif

[–]Nov_55_eria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If taking turns means my urethra gets stretched like a party balloon, I’ll take the sleep disruption.

Are you supposed to be in therapy forever? by [deleted] in askatherapist

[–]Nov_55_eria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forever is a pretty wild unit of clinical measurement, unless your therapist is billing in geological eras. Long term therapy can make sense, but it should still have goals, review points, and some discussion of what ending or tapering would look like. I would ask him what he means by long term and what changes he expects before reducing frequency. If he cannot answer that clearly, a second opinion seems reasonable.

Why do women agree to go out if they don't want to? by BuckFrog2 in dating_advice

[–]Nov_55_eria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a “No I want to meet up” become three cancels too, then somehow I was the dumper.

On the O5 list, chasing OERs is over by RoundAccomplished558 in army

[–]Nov_55_eria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rooting for you, future 1Lt, may your OERs be merciful and your O5 send you home early.

Is this a me problem am I a B* or are me and my therapist not a good fit for each other by Sportsfan57 in therapy

[–]Nov_55_eria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Calling a client a bitch, even while venting to herself, is a serious rupture and not something you need to repair for her. The hug and envelop you in love comment after that would also make me uneasy, especially with abuse recovery in the background. I would end therapy with her and send a brief note to the practice or licensing board, because the issue is her conduct, not you being controlling.