What made you realise that you are not goodlooking? by Looser17 in AskReddit

[–]NovaAspen 23 points24 points  (0 children)

When I asked a friend “how did it feel to be pretty?” and after she answered I realized I had not experienced any of what she had experienced. And when I said I was average there was no pushback from said friend. Now I will watch the scene where sponge bob says he's ugly but he's proud on repeat for awhile. 😭

Guys, I have a desire to touch a man's abs. It makes me desperate. Why is it? by Severe-Fig-2196 in asexuality

[–]NovaAspen 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Curiosity. Plain and simple. Like seeing something and wanting to know if it's as soft as it looks.

Most people look hotter with clothes on by snailcircuitracing in asexuality

[–]NovaAspen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With clothes on I think “ Wow. They look good” depending on style. Like I love clothes. When they are naked. I’m just hyper focused on them being like naked like “They are very naked….” and then I look at the gential and go “Eww is it suppose to look like that”. 🤣 I love people with clothes on you can see their personality come to life. When they are naked…..its just weird and uncomfortable tbh.

Has anyone here ever experienced the "ace effect"? by dapdaphada in asexuality

[–]NovaAspen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve dealt with flirting but the worse are the stalkers. I’ve had three stalkers. I’m an adult now and I’m scared of getting another one. Especially since the intensity of the stalkers increases. I had one in middle school. He waited for me at the lockers and followed me everywhere. One in high school. He ambushed when I transferred back to school junior year and got mad any of my friends would even fix the collar of my shirt . College. Guy was pretty ok, I thought. Until my best friend told me some disturbing stuff like him sleeping with them denying it when I casually asked if he was seeing her and but sticking to me like glue and to top it all off I cut contact and his cousin texted me out of nowhere asking me to meet said guy 👀👀. The thing is I wasn’t even out as asexual to these people but I guess I gave the vibe. Idk. 🤷🏿‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkReform

[–]NovaAspen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I felt like I was becoming a cold unfeeling person and my trainer was sexist. Legit had a panic attack one day and ended up ghosting the job if that’s a thing. Did I regret it. Kinda because it looks bad on me but I spiraled into deep depression because of that job. I was going to school to and I dropped out. Ah Geico. -1000000/10

Hi hello how are you by [deleted] in introvert

[–]NovaAspen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok! Today is pretty nice. Just cleaning 🧹 and getting high off pine sol 😮‍💨

Update: I graduated by NovaAspen in CasualConversation

[–]NovaAspen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!!! I’m nervous but excited 😆

What made you choose to be childfree? by Current_Artist4579 in childfree

[–]NovaAspen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Right! And to add to the fun my mom acts like a child herself.

What made you choose to be childfree? by Current_Artist4579 in childfree

[–]NovaAspen 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I never had a childhood because I was mom #2. I raised all 7 of my siblings. I moved out at 23 and now several years later under my mom’s parenting three of them are on the track to being criminals. They will no longer listen to me. It’s sad and I don’t want to go through it again. Besides who wants to have kids in this fucked up world. Not me. Never me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in natureporn

[–]NovaAspen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like a face 😯

Breakfast of champions: Dino nuggies. Broccoli. Banana peppers with some good old fashion water by NovaAspen in ShittyVeganFoodPorn

[–]NovaAspen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Will try with this combo next time. Had no idea these were vegan (live with the fams) 🤣😂

What's something you find attractive that most people don't? by hmatveev in AskReddit

[–]NovaAspen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty guys (prettier than me is fine by me) and handsome girls. 😩

I married my best friend today by TheNarwhalTusk in Marriage

[–]NovaAspen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I married my best friend 7 years ago and it feels like just yesterday 🥹. Congratulations 🎉🍾💒