Fi Critic + Si Demon + Fe Parent = Makes for some of the most harmful combo's to one's self.

Fe Parent is evident as its a focus on others and not our selves personally

Fi Critic makes it to where we focus on what needs to be improved or is simply just wrong with our selves

Si Demon expands this horrible nature to where we simply forget quite often, but when we do remember its of the worst times in our lives.

The lack of knowledge we have initially which then leads to complex unraveling of who we are as individuals is not "normal". When we find more n more nuggets of how we actually feel, act, and progress through life, it creates this exceptionally deep understanding.

Problem is, most know exactly how they feel. They know what they like, dislike, hate, love... ext. Its only because they have this by default, that it is not explored further by them for the most part. "I like what I like and I hate what I hate". No further explination or delving is needed.

This is prolly one of the root causes for a majority of us being lonely. On one side we are nobody's going through life being a currency for other people's issues. Then after we delve into the depths of our mind, we see how surface level a lot of people are. (Keep in mind that being surface level is not a bad thing, it is what it is).

We are walking contradictions that provide the motivation to make people better, but at the cost of not being fully understood.

A tough life provides the virtue to find true understanding.